God: My Life-Partner

God: My Life-Partner

Am I looking for marriage? Nope.

Am I looking for authentic connection? Yip, definitely!

What happens if I don’t find authentic connection with a man? I still win! I continue happily, blessedly walking my path with God as my Life-Partner, as I’ve always done…

(Do I think that God has authentic Divine connection with a man, in store for me? Yes, for sure!😉)

Let the basis be true connection, first and foremost, and then let marriage follow, if so be it. Then too, let it be rather a “celebration and declaration of the Sacred Union of togetherness, based upon freedom and mutual evolution”, rather than a “contract of stagnant obligations”.

A relationship-basis on a primary want/need for the ‘idea’ of “marriage”, as opposed to a genuine sacred spiritual foundation of heart-mind-body-soul-connection, just isn’t a turn-on for me 💕🌀💚

HappyWise: Sharmilla

04/11/2019

Trust Yourself

How often do you find yourself looking to others for opinions, feedback, reassurance, or even approval on your life? Does it sometimes even occur indirectly when you don’t necessarily ask directly – such as by looking for and noting body-language, eye-contact and other reactionary clues as indicators of how you may have been received / perceived? This is perfectly okay and is a normal part of human relationship interactions. However, do you perhaps place more value and trust in what another thinks of you, than you do in yourself? Your Most Valuable Feedback Mechanism is you.

The Value of Your Source-Inspired Thoughts:

Your first and foremost source of feedback regarding anything in your life is you, yourself.

As an extension of infinite Source energy, you hold within your being an endless vastness of knowledge, insight, solutions, answers and inspiration. The magnificence of the resources in your personal domain is phenomenal.

Quieting your mind and relaxing your body while traveling within in openness and receptivity allows you, through your Higher Self, to access thoughts aligned to Infinite Divine Intelligence.

Together with your feelings / intuition, the observations and understandings you receive through your quieted mind is one of your most credible sources of resolution, breakthrough, momentum and advancement.

The Value of Your Feelings:

Regardless of what anyone may have told you, regardless of what you may have heard, regardless of how you may have been judged, regardless of how you may judge yourself – know that your feelings are a gift.

There is no clearer or more precise indicator of your wellbeing than the feedback you receive from your feelings.

Whenever you feel something, particularly strongly so, your Higher Self is communicating with you on a most intimate level. Give attention to your feelings like you would to an intriguing lover.

Whether you’re being true to yourself or not comes through by the way you feel. Whether you’re loving yourself / valuing yourself / honoring yourself as you rightly should be or not, is indicated by your feelings.

When you’re in alignment with your true self, you experience feelings of happiness, peace and calm. Such a feeling-state is natural and is divinely intended. Feelings of unease, discomfort, sadness, etc. are simply indicators that you may not be honoring your true self.

In awareness of your feelings, you have the option to consciously examine the cause(s) of the way you feel. This allows you to actively make choices geared toward raising your vibration to your natural state of peace, calm and bliss.

In increasingly honoring your thoughts and feelings from a level of your true, Higher Self, your trust in yourself will evolve to a level of surpassing your need for placing the opinions of any other above yourself.

Trusting in yourself is simply placing trust and faith in a Divine Super-Consciousness, which you verily are an integral part of.

HappyWise: Sharmilla 02/06/2018

Embrace the Freedom and Peace of Sometimes Not Understanding

Embrace the Freedom and Peace of Sometimes Not Understanding

Are you a person who seeks understanding – in more-or-less everything? Are you perhaps also a person whose entire world just doesn’t seem to make sense when there’s something / someone you don’t understand? Well then, it’s time you know that not understanding some things and / people out of the billions of things and / people in the world is wonderfully okay!

The Beauty in Not Understanding Some of the All:

There’s immense beauty to be recognized in, and extracted from, not understanding all! For this simply points to the presence of diversity to the extent of being graced with the opportunity to explore with lightness and curiosity, as well as to grow, to learn, to allow and to accept.

Accept the marvelous fortuity and gifts within dazzling variety; and peacefully and joyously accept your own unique role, points-of-view, and points-of-convergence-and-attraction in an incredibly dynamic and contrasted world.

After-all, what beauty would there be in the absence of contrast and difference? Does not the gloriousness of a sunrise or a sunset lie in its distinction – whether in hue or clarity – from the previous dawns and dusks? Is there not something charming about dimpled-cheeks or a crooked smile?

So why not of different mindsets, opinions, perceptions, behaviors, cultures, traditions, appearances, practices…?

How would you know your purpose and place in the world if all people were the same / were an exact copy of you? Would there be much fun, stimulation or fulfillment in that?

The Freedom and Peace of Not Understanding Some of the All:

What do you think would happen if you freed yourself of your need to comprehend all?

How might you feel – in your mind, in your body, in your heart, your spirit?

Would it affect your talk and self-talk in any way(s)?

Would it affect your responses, reactions and actions?

What effect might it have on your energy levels? How might it contribute to your health, vitality and overall wellbeing?

Might you in doing so choose to live your life in greater freedom, lightness-of-being, happiness, openness and compassion on many levels?

Could your acceptance of not understanding all, and the freedom which arises therefrom, be all the genuine understanding you require?

HappyWise: Sharmilla 12/05/2018

Take Care of Yourself

Take Care of Yourself

Caring for yourself may be one of the most selfless things you can do for yourself, or for any other. You’re your best when you’re cared for, loved, appreciated and valued. Who better to do this for you than you yourself? Looking externally to others or to circumstances to an extreme extent is inessential. Once you seek, find and express internally with yourself, the external will take care of itself, flowing automatically, naturally…

Your Primary Connection is With Yourself & The Divine:

Caring for yourself is an intimate dance of connecting with yourself. How you choose to connect with yourself or care for yourself is completely up to you. Do whatever makes you feel good. Do it often and in generous doses.

Connecting with yourself at a spirit / soul level may be your foundation for feeling at your best. Caring for yourself in this case may involve meditation, prayer or communication / communion with the Divine in whatever form this may take for you. Listen to guidance from within and talk to yourself with loving kindness. Grow into yourself with appreciation and gratitude for all that you are and for all that is.

At a different – yet interconnected – level, caring for your physical self plays a significant role in self-care. Nourishing your body with movement / exercise, wholesome delectable foods and water, love, touch, sunshine, relaxation and breathing with greater awareness may be a few of the ways you choose to value your physical self. Trusting your body and listening to it will also enhance your vitality. Be assured that your immaculate body is working for your ultimate health and wellbeing always – be kind and loving toward it. Rest sufficiently.

Exploring and discovering new, varied things – about yourself and about the world – may call out to your mind, body, spirit and heart. Engage in activities that soothe your soul, excite your being, add joy and living to your life and broaden your perspectives! Sing or whistle a tune arising spontaneously from your depths..

Perfection in caring for yourself is all about what’s perfect for you at a specific time and in a specific context. Have fun with it and listen always to your inner-guidance which arises from Source. Dance to your own rhythm.

Your Secondary Connection is With All Others:

All of Life is connected. You’re always at One with all.

Being in a state of peace, love and connection with yourself will bring to you the gift of all other connections in your life flowing with enhanced ease, freedom, harmony and grace.

You will marvel at fresh connections of synchronicity that present you with increasing opportunities of choice and decision. You will witness your path blossoming into one of undeniable fusion with self, with Source, with all.

Balance, connect and align within; you will assuredly balance, connect and align with All.

HappyWise: Sharmilla 05/05/2018