God: My Life-Partner

God: My Life-Partner

Am I looking for marriage? Nope.

Am I looking for authentic connection? Yip, definitely!

What happens if I don’t find authentic connection with a man? I still win! I continue happily, blessedly walking my path with God as my Life-Partner, as I’ve always done…

(Do I think that God has authentic Divine connection with a man, in store for me? Yes, for sure!😉)

Let the basis be true connection, first and foremost, and then let marriage follow, if so be it. Then too, let it be rather a “celebration and declaration of the Sacred Union of togetherness, based upon freedom and mutual evolution”, rather than a “contract of stagnant obligations”.

A relationship-basis on a primary want/need for the ‘idea’ of “marriage”, as opposed to a genuine sacred spiritual foundation of heart-mind-body-soul-connection, just isn’t a turn-on for me 💕🌀💚

HappyWise: Sharmilla

04/11/2019

All You Ever Have To Be Is You

All You Ever Have To Be Is You

Love you. Adore you. Be you.

You’re enough.

Dedicate your energy to the true you. Not to anybody else’s version of you, and most especially not to your version of someone else you believe is ‘better’ than you.

You’re wholly you for a reason.

If you were meant to be anybody else, you’d be them… Do you truly, genuinely wish to be someone else?

If you do, then you simply haven’t yet discovered your own extraordinary magnificence. And all you’d have to do to conceive your splendor, is to pay foremost and ultimate attention to yourself for a while.

You being you, is your purpose.

Be true to your purpose. Live your purpose. Thrive in joy in every moment with your Divinely ordained purpose.

Be simply you.

 

HappyWise: Sharmilla 21/07/2018

All Is Perfection

All Is Perfection

Trust that all’s working out for your best and highest, always.

There’s much in the bigger picture of the Divine Plan, which you may not be able to clearly see at any point in time.

Yet all is well. It always will be well.

You’re a magnificent child of the Universe. It’s a given that you’re taken care of, always. You’re loved, supported, deeply cared for…

Most significantly, you’re Divinely Guided in every moment of your life.

Rest, relax and have faith in the knowledge that everything is always working out for your Highest Good – especially when it seems to you, from your limited human perspective, that it isn’t.

In your surrender, trust and faith, you allow Universal energy to work with you, rather than you striving on your own.

All is Perfection.

HappyWise: Sharmilla 07/07/2018

Surrender, Fly Free To Succeed

Surrender, Fly Free To Succeed

Control may be a positive quality when it comes to discipline, responsibility, focus and accountability, for instance. It may oftentimes be the fuel behind your perseverance and successes in life. Yet, have you ever noticed the difference in the quality of your feelings between achieving a goal:

When you’ve been in a surrendered and trusting state and space

As opposed to:

• When you’ve been in an anxiety-filled, rigid and controlling state and space?

Does there seem to be a distinct difference in the quality of each?

Controlling Your Way To Success:

How does aiming to be in control all of the time, make you feel? Does it relax you? Does it make you feel like you’re conquering the world in an ordered, prepared and sequential way?

Does it stress you out? Does it leave you feeling like you’re living on-edge?

A fact of life is that we cannot control everything. It’s in the nature of things to be changing.

As much as one may succeed at controlling a very large portion of his / her life, one still cannot predict absolutely everything. A reasonably large portion of life is unknown – dependent upon various factors aside from oneself.

What happens then, when you encounter something that’s beyond your control? How do you feel? How do you react? Do you clamor to make sense of things and to restore ‘order’ and ‘control’ as you know it? Or, are you able to easily accept, adapt and go with the flow?

Surrendering Your Way To Success:

There’s great strength and power in intentionally choosing to surrender. It calls for deep trust – in yourself, in the Universe.

Surrender is one of the most amazing gifts you will ever bestow on yourself.

Allowing you to be in the moment, to live fully and wholly, and to experience life from a space and state of freedom, joy and relief – surrender is being at one with Divine Grace.

Living from a place of surrender will ensure that you always succeed – for from such a place of trust and faith, all is and always will be well. You know, for a fact, that you will always be Divinely Guided.

As an added bonus, you – in wisdom – allow yourself the opportunity to live your life in a continual state of ease and bliss, minus having to be perfect or to have all be perfect. Thriving from a feeling-space of ease and bliss will surely attract greater quantities and qualities of the same to you, as you gently perfect the art of surrendering…

HappyWise: Sharmilla 12/06/2018

Love Yourself, More, Always

Love Yourself, More, Always

When’s a good time to love you? How often do you shower yourself with just as much love as you do your dearly beloved ones? When is it okay, ‘good’ or even ‘acceptable’ to love yourself truly, deeply, genuinely, abundantly?

… Now. In every moment. Always. Your greatest, deepest and most constant love lives and thrives within you. As much as your love is for sharing, caring and healing of others’, your love is also one of your greatest, simplest gifts to you.

Treasure this Love of Divine Source energy which sings, dances and celebrates Life within your soul, within every molecule and cell of your being.

This phenomenal support, strength and caring is permanently with you, for you – and shall remain with you in every moment, through eternity.

In times of feeling lost, alone or not understood, your spirit calls out to you more than ever for you to be there for you – to reach for your Higher Self, your Spirit Self.

Regardless of what may be going on in your life – trust, know and rest assured that love-essence is your blessing, your grace.

Love yourself, more, always…

 

HappyWise: Sharmilla: 08/06/2018

It Is What It Is… Or, Is It?

It Is What It Is… Or, Is It?

So yeah, things are what they are. That much is true. Not much can be done to change anything. … Is this also true? Naah… Things may indeed be as they are in the current moment, yet you always have a choice to influence the direction and outcome from its current point, forward – don’t you think?

It Is What It Is:

What it is now is merely a culmination of past thoughts, words, actions, behaviors… All which is currently behind you has led up to this moment in time in your life’s reality. Your situation and experience in this moment of time is precisely what it is – yet, it’s still but a moment in time; and but a moment in the entirety of your life.

Your future lies ahead of you, eagerly anticipating you and your joy. What you choose to do with your now moment, sets the scene for that which unfolds before you.

Choosing to Influence the Highest Direction and Outcome:

At any given time, and within any situation or experience of it being what it is, you hold a magnificent power of choice.

Are you going to plainly accept a less-than-great situation for what it appears to be?

Or shall you influence it for the highest good of yourself and for the highest good of all? “How?”, you ask? By simply choosing to courageously rise from, for instance, a state of despondency, despair and complacency to a happier state of faith, trust, gratitude, peace and contentment.

You see, by the simple action of choosing different thoughts and feelings about any situation, you play a mighty role in shaping the direction it unfolds in and the outcomes you get to play with.

There’s always magic hidden within anything that seems to be plainly ‘it is what it is’. Discover the magic! Have fun with the magic! Create your world to be a world of yes, it is what it is, yet there’s also so very much more – love, wonder, discovery, joy, growth, abundance, peace!

HappyWise: Sharmilla 14/04/2018

Your Ultimate Judge is You!

Opinions and judgments of others’ will always be there. Be they communicated to you directly or indirectly, by a look or an expression, or even by way of you being the subject of some type of formal ‘assessment’, know that these are the perceptions of another human being. Who, after-all, has the authority to decide whether something is ‘acceptable’ / ‘valuable’ / ‘favorable’ / ‘good’ / ‘nice’, ‘of worth’ or not? Not only is this ever-changing and subjective, but it’s also time and context-dependent.

• Opinions & Judgements of Others:

Every individual sees the same thing differently. Every individual feels differently about a specific thing. Every individual takes a different message from a common message communicated.

The interpretation and experience of each person varies. People filter and interpret information based upon their own experiences, beliefs, values, wants, desires and needs.

Therefore, it only makes sense that people will have different opinions of you / a thing. A person’s judgement of something / you is not solely about you, it’s also about the person doing the judging and what’s going on in his / her world.

So, smile and be happy regardless of what another thinks of you / how another views you / the manner in which a person chooses to interpret your communications or actions.

Know in your awareness that each person’s reality is different! And therefore it’s okay for a person to feel toward you the way they do / to think of you the way they do / to take from your message / action precisely what they do.

• Security in Yourself:

Nobody knows you as profoundly as you yourself do. (And if you don’t know yourself as well as you should, then you open yourself up to others’ telling you who you are – which is possibly who they would like you to be).

Your life is unique, based upon your own experiences, choices, values, beliefs, desires and dreams.

Once you know exactly who you are, you’re able to smile and settle into knowing that you’re the ultimate judge in your life, regardless of any other opinion / judgement. There is great power there.

The key is being true to your authentic self. And in being true to your authentic self, you value yourself for all that you are; you love yourself for all that you are; you take joy and pleasure in being, sharing and expressing all that you magnificently are!

It’s a great time to start upgrading your opinion of yourself and passing wholesome, loving, kind, forgiving judgments of yourself, is it not?

Sharmilla 17/03/2018

All is Well

Know, trust and rest assured in the knowledge that no matter what may be going on in your life at this time, all is well. All is in Divine Order. You’re at this space and place in your life in this very moment not by coincidence, accident or mistake, but for a reason. Feel exactly as you need to feel, do exactly what you need to do, change whatever you desire to change. If needs be, simply take a moment to relax, to breathe in life and to absorb the lull of the unknown, of the seeming ‘imperfections’ and of non-action, while you re-calibrate to the readiness and to the excitement of swinging back into your groove again.

• All Answers Are Within You:

Confusion, uncertainty and doubt are a part of life; they seem to come when you least expect them. You may not be able to banish them completely, yet it’s most certainly within your power and choice to minimize them and any effects they may have upon you.

In your darkest, most trying times, do you more often than not look to another human being for answers? Either for validation of your own thoughts and feelings, or for new direction and input?

Looking to another for guidance and for different varied perspectives may be invaluable when integrated into your decision-making process. Your decisions, however, are ultimately yours. You have within yourself all of the resources and all of God’s Guiding Light that you need in order to make decisions of wisdom.

Listen to yourself, even more than you listen to any other. Trust yourself, even more than you trust any other. Maintain flexibility – with yourself, with situations. Re-visit and / revise anything you may need to. All of life is a learning-curve of growth and evolution.

Smile, be easy on yourself, be your greatest comforter and supporter in life. All is perfect even in imperfection.

• All is Perfection:

Freedom, joy, love, acceptance and light abounds in perfect imperfection! You will find that there’s nothing quite as liberating and as ‘human’ as embracing the messiness in life, in yourself and in others. It’s a space that magnificence springs forth from.

Flow with it, love it, maintain it as is, or change / re-configure it – it’s your opportunity to do with it whatever you wish.

Just as your values and beliefs may not be stagnant throughout life or in all contexts, so too that which seems ‘imperfect’ today may very well lead to and result in the most beautiful amazing perfection you discover in your tomorrow…

And it is then that you’ll find that all indeed is well, just as is.

Sharmilla 10/02/2018