Life Is As Sweetly Indulgent As You Allow It To Be

Life Is As Sweetly Indulgent As You Allow It To Be:

Wellbeing and Divine All-That-Is is forever flowing to you. Whether you choose to see, feel, allow, experience and enjoy it, is your choice. Together with the Divine, you are a powerful co-creator of your life.

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FEEL AMAZING, LIVE AMAZING

FEEL AMAZING, LIVE AMAZING:

The thoughts and feelings that you have the FREEDOM TO CHOOSE are a precursor for your life experiences. Your life experiences should not control your thoughts and feelings. Be an active role-player in your life! Feel amazing to live an amazing life.

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Focus on Happiness

Focus on Happiness:

Focusing on something, anything, which brings a feeling of joy, ease and gratitude to your soul – in any situation or circumstance – is potentially one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself.

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Choosing Your Feelings Is Your Power

Choosing Your Feelings Is Your Power

You choose your emotions – in every moment. Regardless of what may be going on in your life or what you may be facing, know that the way you choose to feel about any situation whatsoever comes down to you.

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Your Strengths Are Unique

Your Strengths Are Unique
You’re, by your very nature of being human, magnificently wonderful and remarkable in all of your integrated dualities of strengths and ‘weaknesses’.
Free-will is yours. The choice of what you focus on and choose to give your energy to, is uniquely and powerfully yours.
Choose wisely.

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Surrender, Fly Free To Succeed

Control may be a positive quality when it comes to discipline, responsibility, focus and accountability, for instance. It may oftentimes be the fuel behind your perseverance and successes in life. Yet, have you ever noticed the difference in the quality of your feelings between achieving a goal:

• When you’ve been in a surrendered and trusting state and space
As opposed to:
• When you’ve been in an anxiety-filled, rigid and controlling state and space?

Does there seem to be a distinct difference in the quality of each?

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Trust Yourself

Trust Yourself:

How often do you find yourself looking to others for opinions, feedback, reassurance, or even approval on your life? Does it sometimes even occur indirectly when you don’t necessarily ask directly – such as by looking for and noting body-language, eye-contact and other reactionary clues as indicators of how you may have been received / perceived? This is perfectly okay and is a normal part of human relationship interactions. However, do you perhaps place more value and trust in what another thinks of you, than you do in yourself? Your Most Valuable Feedback Mechanism is you.

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Flow With the Highs and the Lows

Flow With the Highs and the Lows:

Ups and downs, highs and lows, ‘good’ and ‘bad’, ‘rights’ and ‘wrongs’ – all comprise some of the amazing richness of life. You may love for your experiences to be solely one-sided, skewed toward the wonderful and the joyous, yes. Yet, how then would you know what’s ‘wonderful’ and what’s ‘joyous’ unless you’ve also experienced its opposite? Trust and rest in the knowledge that there’s a place and a purpose in your life for the lows, just as much as for the highs.

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Your Spirit Is Invincible

Your Spirit Is Invincible

You’re going to be okay. Now. Tomorrow. Five days from now. Weeks, months, years from now. You verily are okay. Always. Forever. Regardless of what may be / will be going on in your life.

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Trust in the Flow

Trust in the Flow:
All is in Order. Perfect Order. Flowing with the current in trust, faith and relaxation is possibly one of the kindest, most loving things you can do for yourself. This means flowing always toward your greatest wellbeing and joy, regardless of the circumstances around you / the issues you may be facing. It means finding the best in every situation and flowing with the stream of those thoughts, ideas, feelings and actions that carry you toward the light and the blessings.

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Freedom and Joy is Yours

Freedom and Joy is Yours

At your core, you’re free. The essence of who you are is a spirit of joy and freedom. So, freedom is already a part of you, just like joy is. There’s no need to strive for it, search for it, or work toward it. All you have to do is recognize its presence, allow it to be as significant a part of your life as you desire, and enjoy it.

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Value Your Infinite Worth

Value Your Infinite Worth
You determine your worth: only and solely you. Your worth, which is vast, boundless and immeasurable, lies not in the hands or the eyes of what any other perceives you to be or values you as. Most significantly, your worth and your value is inherent; independent of anything you’ve done, anything you do, or anything anyone has done to you at any stage of your life.

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Embracing Freedom

Embracing Freedom
Aaaah, to be happy and free… The lightness and joy of just ‘being’ – a state available to you in every moment. Regardless of where you are, who you’re with, who and what your commitments and responsibilities are toward, how you may be perceived or judged by another, where you’ve come from or what you’ve done, it is you who is ultimately in control of your each and every moment. By the choices of your thoughts, yqour points of focus and your responses to situations, circumstances and experiences beyond your control, you hold within yourself the power of your freedom.

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‘Now’ Is Your Best Time

‘Now’ Is Your Best Time
How often do you find yourself putting-off something that you’d love to do / procrastinating, simply ‘cos a voice in your head whispers to you that all is not yet ideal and that you should wait? Clear priorities and responsible decision-making are a great way to go indeed; so too, there’s wisdom in solidly assessing any situation. Yet, all being situation and context-dependent of course, have you ever considered that ‘now’ may actually be your best time?!

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Stop Waiting, Start Living!

Stop Waiting, Start Living!
Ever consider how much time you spend ‘waiting’ on something or someone? Yet surely what’s going to happen will happen? So why procrastinate with your life in anticipation, doubt, worry, anxiety, uncertainty? Make a wise simple choice: embrace each moment of your life with purpose and focus, living every moment fully and joyfully, doing what brings you happiness! And while you’re ‘living’, those awaited ‘happenings’ will spontaneously transpire.

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Gifts in Rejection

Gifts in Rejection:
The feelings arising from being refused, unaccepted, dismissed or even simply unacknowledged usually make us feel imperfect, unworthy and small. It may even trigger feelings of abandonment. Yet, there are many a gift and blessing to be found in rejection, a few of which include: freedom; self-acceptance; and trusting the flow of life.

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Wisdom in Letting Go

Do you long to live and thrive in happiness more often? What’s holding you back? Possibly some of the things which you have in your life, rather than things you don’t have? By assessing your current space and determining your ‘nice’-space / your optimal-space, you have the power to choose whether letting go will feed your happiness.

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2 Universal Reasons Why Choosing to Be Happy Only Makes Sense

2 Universal facts of life: 1. Upsetting situations will constantly be around; 2. A moment is a moment that cannot be gotten back. Isn’t it therefore most logical a choice to make peace and let go; directing your focus toward your own wellbeing, contentment and happiness in as many moments as possible?

  1. Upsetting situations will constantly be around:

Make peace with it upfront, now, once-and-for-all: there’ll constantly be situations, experiences and people to upset you. Try as you may, you cannot control this; it’s just a (wonderfully cr*ppy!) part of life. 😌

Hehehehe, as an equalizer, sometimes you’re the one in the role of the ‘upsetter’ (the one doing something to result in another being upset) – unintentionally, of course; while someone else is the ‘upsetee’ (upset with you).

Either way, it’s just human nature that things sometimes don’t flow according to your vision or your plan; and you don’t always get your desires, wants and needs met (or sometimes you do, but not to the standards you expect).

So why not simply choose to laugh at the reality of a situation, accept it for what it is, let go and move on as care-freely and as peacefully as possible? After all, it’s almost certain that nobody else (certainly not the person upsetting you) is paying the situation as much attention as you yourself are. Neither is anyone else wasting any energy over it.

Make peace (even if it’s the best kind – just quietly internally with yourself). Let go, move on, be happy!

…Remember to press replay when the next situation rolls around. 😌

  1. A moment is a moment that cannot be gotten back:

You’re driving down a middle-lane of the highway, following all of the road-rules, and with your awareness in peak form. You’re merrily whistling along to your favorite tune and you’re in the flow while you’re maximizing your good feelings before arriving at the office for a crazy day ahead…

You made a conscious decision to be happy, well done! 😌

Then, another driver whizzes by you and honks his horn endlessly, sticking his middle-finger out of his car-window…

Of course, it’s a baffling and upsetting situation to say the least, ‘cos you obviously don’t know where his actions originated from.

How do you react? Do you instantly sign-language him also? Do you give chase? Do you allow the experience to consume you for the remainder of your drive? Do you perhaps vent to colleagues at work (which almost certainly spirals into at least a 20minute complaining-session about the state of the traffic in general)?

Or do you, in all of your wisdom and care for yourself, decide to give the situation the few seconds of attention that it deserves (albeit if only to get over the shock), and move on with the balanced flow of your life again?

Perhaps even wish the seemingly crazy guy well, in your heart and in your mind? After all, who knows what’s going on his life, or what that incident was really about? Or even if it was truly intended to be directed at you?

Challenging situations and experiences – sometimes heart-wrenching, mind-numbing, spirit-sapping and mind-boggling – will come along in life. It’s not like there’s going to be any shortage of cr*ppy moments for you to deal with.

So why choose anything other than peace and calm (if not outright happiness) in each other moment that you’re actually capable of doing so?

A moment spent in being upset, angry, disappointed or fearful is a moment of your life lost. All the moments of your life make up your lifetime. Given a choice, wouldn’t you choose to be in happiness and peace in each moment, rather?

Each moment is your moment. Choose how you feel in every moment. Brighten your thoughts and allow your emotions to automatically lighten.

Let go, choose you, it only makes sense! 😌

Sharmilla 24/11/2017

3 Valuably Amazing Things that You Already Have to Be Happy

It’s true, happiness is a subjective thing. What makes another happy may not necessarily make you happy. Yet, your happiness is truly not dependent on any other. Your perspective, your attitude and your action-choices are 3 valuably amazing things that you already have to be happy…

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3 Simply Wicked Reasons to Choose to Be Happy

We all want to be happy. Why? ‘Cos it feels sooOooo damn good. Being in happiness is your free choice. Choosing to be happy is wickedly and naughtily wise because: it revs your allure; it boosts your attraction-factor; it heightens your senses and sensuality…

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