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Smiling…

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Smiling…

It’s a CHOICE every time, remember…

All is well, always…

All is in Perfect Divine Order, always…

Choose to make the best of every moment – regardless. Once you do this naturally, all will always continually flow toward your best and highest wellbeing and happiness.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

01/01/2021

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Giving Thanks

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Giving Thanks:

Thank You, Dearest Divine, for all of Your Blessings in 2020…

Many Gifts of insight, internal reflection, prioritization, re-prioritization, valuation, worth, appreciation, faith, trust, gratitude, wisdom, discernment, love, choice, free-will, affirmation, simplicity, light, grace, humility, Divine Connection, Sacred Union, joy, etc. were so very generously Showered upon us all.

We are thankful and appreciative.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

31/12/2020

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Sun

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Sun:

ALL under the SUN is ONE.

Feel your connectedness. Know your connectedness… To All under the Sun, to the Sun itself.

Make it a bright, sunshiny day every day – regardless of the weather or of what you may be experiencing which is beyond your control.

All is Perfect Order. You’re infinitely Divinely supported, nourished, loved, guided, cared for…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

20/12/2020

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May the Basis of Commitment be Freedom

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May the Basis of Commitment be Freedom:

May the basis of commitment be freedom.

Commit to being with me, for as long as you’re happiest with me. Commit to loving me, for as long as you genuinely continue to. Commit to growing with me, for as long as we continue to be stimulating, both individually and together. Commit to exploring and discovering with me, for as long as we continue to play and thrive together. Commit to evolving with me, for as long as we continue to appreciate and transcend the physical and the material and all of its associated blisses and contrasting ‘challenges’, toward greater spiritual depths of integration, inspiration, transmutation and transformation.

Commit to being faithful to Divine and to yourself, first and foremost, for as long as you’re faithful to me. Commit to honoring Divine and yourself, first and foremost, for as long as you honor me. Commit to being ever-true to yourself, first and foremost, for as long as you continually choose to be with me.

…May the essence of your commitment to me, forever be freedom, which in itself is love…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

30/11/2020

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Discerning Integral Authenticity

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Discerning Integral Authenticity:

There’s a difference between being ‘discerning’ and ‘authentic’, and what some may describe as being ‘stuck-up’.

If one chooses to perceive another’s discernment, intuitive guidance, integrity, authenticity and wisdom as being ‘stuck-up’, it’s okay – everyone’s allowed an opinion to be respected.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

27/11/2020

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Options and Choices Determine Outcomes

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Options and choices determine outcomes.

Significantly, though, what starting-point are you establishing for yourself?

Is your starting-point negative (as in a case of ‘loves me not‘); or is your starting-point itself already positive (as in a case of ‘loves me’), moving toward even greater and deeper degrees of positivity (as in cases of ‘loves me more‘ and ‘loves me most’)?

It’s you, yourself, who lays the foundation…

🌀☀️💕Choose wisely. And remember that life is very much a mirror☀️💕🌀

HappyWise: Sharmilla

21/11/2020

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Unity and Oneness

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Unity and Oneness:

If you send me an invitation to a ‘women’s group’ and I decline, it’s not ‘cos I don’t support women, it’s rather ‘cos I support “PEOPLE” – regardless of man, woman or child.

If you see me not supporting causes such as ‘black lives matter’, it’s not ‘cos I’m racist, it’s rather ‘cos I love all – “ALL” lives matter.

If you expect me to support a cause ‘against’ something, you will be disappointed in me, simply ‘cos I don’t do ‘against’ – I do “FOR” – I’M ‘FOR’ UNITY. I’M ‘FOR’ LOVE. I’M ‘FOR’ ONENESS. I’M ‘FOR’ DIGNITY. I’M ‘FOR’ HEALTH. I’M ‘FOR’ INTEGRITY. I’M ‘FOR’ FREEDOM. I’M ‘FOR’ JUSTICE. I’M ‘FOR’ AUTHENTICITY. …

When one draws distinctions, separation is perpetuated, not halted. Nothing can be solved from a space of separation.

Everything is possible from a space of inherent unity and Oneness.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

18/11/2020

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Thankfulness

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Thankfulness:

We may feel that we have to be thankful only for something specific.

However, can’t we simply be thankful for All-That-Is? Can’t we be thankful in general? How about being thankful for all the little things we may have come to take for granted?

There’s undoubtedly, always, so very much to be thankful for!

So, let’s take a moment here and there, whenever, wherever and ‘why-ever’, just to pause, genuinely feel, and say: “Thank You, Divine!!!”

HappyWise: Sharmilla

11/11/2020

‘Heritage’ Celebrations

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Heritage Celebrations:

How one chooses to live one’s life today, is the ‘heritage’ of generations to come.

Consider choosing for ‘heritage’ to be about basics such as integrity, love, authenticity, simplicity, respect, kindness, appreciation, compassion, peace, unity and joy; rather than merely about clothing, food, music, etc.

Consider choosing a ‘human’ heritage of genuine integrity and solidarity; rather than a segregating national, cultural, or racial ‘heritage’.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

24/09/2020

‘EXTRAORDINARY’ is a choice

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‘EXTRAORDINARY’ is a choice:

Never tell yourself to “Get used to” something that’s less-than optimal.

Life’s full of wondrous, beautiful, fantastical, magical opportunities and experiences – all simply awaiting your exploration and discovery.

It comes down to what you yourself are willing to do with it, and seeking enough to make of it, which contributes to that which you ultimately call your ‘life’.

‘Mediocre’ is a choice. ‘EXTRAORDINARY’ is also a choice – albeit, just less-chosen.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

05/09/2020

Trust Life

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Trust Life:

Upon birth, the transition of ‘death’ is assured. One may spend the moments of ones life – until inevitable death – boldly living, or fearfully hiding.

Consider, dear one, that ‘living’ in fear may be more akin to ‘dying’, than the natural transformation of death itself.

Trust Life.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

30/05/2020

Authentic Evolution

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Authentic Evolution:

Life is about evolving. Evolving is about transformation and change. Sometimes life gives you no option but to evolve. Sometimes, you’re brave enough, faithful enough, ‘crazy enough’, wise enough and courageous enough to choose evolution and transformation on your own. When you do, you venture out from your pristine comfort-zone, into the vast unknown. Lots may be uncertain and unfamiliar. What is always, assuredly, constant though – is Divine Guidance. Trust It. Flow with It. Be happy in It. It will have you “live” more authentically, more fully, more magically and more holistically wholesomely, than staying in a predictable, routine, ‘safe’ comfort-zone ever would. …And then, get familiar with It, ‘cos It’s going to call out to you again, and again, and again…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

17/05/2020

Eyes ‘Open’, Eyes Closed…

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Eyes ‘Open’, Eyes Closed…

In Simply Closing My Eyes And Looking Upon The Sun,

I Am Transported To Worlds More Real, More Magical, And More Supremely Powerful Than I Have Ever Seen Or Experienced With My Eyes Fully “Open”…

Is Your Clearest ‘Vision’ External, Or Is It Internal?

HappyWise: Sharmilla

11/05/2020

Life In Transition

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Life In Transition…

Every moment is a transition into the next. The many moments of Life are transitory. The many moments leading up to, and the singular moment of ‘death’ are transitory.

Recognize and be aware of the Well-Being which is ever-present. Live every moment FOR LIFE – in faith, joy, appreciation, love, gratitude…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

19/04/2020

Play Nice Together

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Play Nice Together:

Regardless of where you may be located geographically, or what you may be facing in your specific context, why not choose love, unity and global cooperation?

The human condition is common to you, to me, to all. Everyone smiles, everyone laughs, everyone cries, everyone hurts, everyone hopes, everyone dreams…

Let’s choose to see not the ‘other’, but One. Let’s choose to love as One, rather than to choose suffering and illusory ‘national’ or other separation. No policy or procedures required!

In a world where Divinity reigns, unity is a way of life.

🌀💚❤️Let’s play nice together.🌀💚❤️

HappyWise: Sharmilla

18/04/2020

Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Divinely-Imbued Gifts

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Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Divinely-Imbued Gifts:

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Body: Eat good, Exercise good, Listen to it good, Rest good, Trust that it knows your highest-good and is building your immunity good, while lovingly working on your behalf in every moment.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Physical Assets: Clean, maintain and repair your home, your garden, your vehicle and other physical blessings regularly, on a self-sufficient basis.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Not Only Your Personal Relationships, but All of Humanity: Treat the ‘other’ as you would love to be treated. All is One. One is All.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Nature and All Living Beings: Human life is but a small component of Life. Let’s be a cooperative partner.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Love, Respect and Honor your Work: Be purposeful, be inspiring, be of loving whole-hearted service, be of integrity and righteous values.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Love, Respect and Honor Your Mind: Think independently; learn continually; be of discernment, curiosity, imagination and virtuous innovation and creation.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Spirit: Regularly commune with the Divine and your Highest Self. Meditate. Create. Be in sacred silence.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

14/04/2020

Move Forward In Love, Not In Fear

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Move Forward In Love, Not In Fear:

Fear-based short-term approaches which only lead to delaying/postponing the effects of a problem, are not only completely illogical, but also creates numerous new problems.

Courageously and TIMOROUSLY being solution-oriented in the here-and-now, with the aim of MITIGATING long-term effects and impacts, is genuine wisdom and indeed truly commendable meritorious leadership!

Move forward in love, not in fear.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

12/04/2020

Context, Locality, Specificity

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Context, Locality, Specificity:

Context, locality, specificity – considering these is wisdom, common-sense and true leadership.

Good-luck with merely jumping on the bandwagon of thoughtlessly implementing blanket approaches, which are actually for misplaced short-term pleasures.

Be not surprised when what was stellar success for one, turns out to be dismal failure for another.

Always exercise your own power of thought, choices, decision-making and discretion.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

04/04/2020

Free-Will

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Free-Will:

🤣 (Repeat After Me…) 🤣

“I am a being of free-will.

I have been superbly blessed with my own mind, my own thoughts and my own feelings.

I have also been generously blessed with freedom and the power of choice.

I therefore will NOT blindly/automatically repeat/follow what someone/society/social media asks of me, without first applying my own inherent discernment, discretion and Divine guidance!”

(If I find this very message, for instance, to not be in alignment with who I am, I reject it, rather than repeat it!)

HappyWise: Sharmilla

29/01/2020

Victor, rather than victim!

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Victor, rather than victim!

Regardless of what you may have been through, you’re only a ‘victim’ if you allow yourself to be so.

In every situation, and through every experience, choose to be a ‘victor’ rather than a victim.

Belittle the injustices done unto you, simply by valuing yourself by yourself, for yourself. You are stronger and wiser than any injustice or any doer of injustice.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

25/01/2020

Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Future!

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Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Future!

All it takes to change your future, is to think a different thought! You, dear one, are the primary creator of your life! By your very thoughts, feelings and desires, you’re in a constant process of co-creation with Creation itself and with the Creator of All That Is.

A changed future is only a different thought away…

What do you choose to think?💕🌀

HappyWise: Sharmilla

21/01/2020

YOU ALREADY ARE…

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YOU ALREADY ARE…

Can you see yourself in all the ways you wish to be? Can you feel yourself as you’d like to be? Are you able to see yourself having the things that you (think you) want? Are you able to feel what it feels like to have everything that you (think you) want?

Isn’t it amazing that when you think back to ten-or-so years ago, you’ve already accomplished much of what you then set out to accomplish?

You already are everything you want to be… You already have everything you wish to have.

Let go of the concept of time.

Be…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

13/01/2020

Oasis Unto Yourself

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Oasis Unto Yourself:

Be an oasis unto yourself in the midst of chaos.

Much in life is not within your control. Much may not be of your choice or to your liking.

Yet, do choose to remember, regardless of how crazy a situation may be – you have the power within you, to consciously direct how you feel, under any circumstances/experiences you may find yourself in.

Be not overcome/swayed/swept up in any chaos which may be around you. Remember: it’s ‘around’ you – therefore, make it not a ‘part’ of you, by reacting to it.

Rise above. Always. You are the creator of your peace, your bliss.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

31/12/2019

Thanksgiving And Appreciation

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Thanksgiving And Appreciation:

Being able to feel thankful and appreciative is a gift which we’re all blessed with, every day of our lives.

No matter how small or big, luxurious or simple, near or distant, natural or artificial, wondrous or plain, easy or difficult, Divine or mortal – there’s always something to be thankful for.

Let’s grow increasingly aware of the magical blessings in our lives, through every moment of every day… Let’s celebrate every moment of every day… For, within the ordinary, seemingly mundane and even painful and challenging, lies magic to be discovered/transformed/created…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

30/12/2019

Make Love…With Life

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Make Love…With Life:

All of life is love. Make love, in every moment, with everything. ❤️💚

Be in love, with Life…with all.

Love is a state of being…If you view love as something to be directed at only a lover/friend/family member/pet, etc. – you’re missing the true essence of love.💚❤️

HappyWise: Sharmilla

28/12/2019

Home Is Where The Spirit Is

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Home Is Where The Spirit Is:

Be exactly ‘you’. Authentically you. Through the hype of the ‘holidays’, aim also to travel within. Savor a conversation with your Highest Self. Nurture that Divine connection. Meditate. Play. Look after your body. Dance. Jog. Kick a ball. Sit in silence. Be. Laugh. Appreciate. Work. Create. Make magic. Be happy. Make choices for ‘you’. Be in alignment with yourself. Love. Live…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

25/12/2019

Happily Whole

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Happily Whole:

🌀😉💋♥️🌎😉🌀

Qualities I value in a life-partner: Someone with his own thoughts, ideas, interests and inspirations; Someone stronger, braver, wiser, more spirit & worldly intelligent, more independent (with The Divine as foundational cornerstone) & more independently-capable than I am; Someone as equally compassionate, authentic, humble, simple, open-minded, heart/spirit-centred & spiritually awake, aware, conscious & evolving, as I am. Else, I’m genuinely, happily whole on my own & I’ve no reason to settle.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

08/12/2019