Create Your Highest Path:
See the ‘reality’ for what it is.
Find/Create your Highest Path.
Move forward in trust, faith, love and joy.
New and different doesn’t have to be feared or hidden-away from.
All things transform.
All is well.
You are free.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
07/04/2020
Context, Locality, Specificity:
Context, locality, specificity – considering these is wisdom, common-sense and true leadership.
Good-luck with merely jumping on the bandwagon of thoughtlessly implementing blanket approaches, which are actually for misplaced short-term pleasures.
Be not surprised when what was stellar success for one, turns out to be dismal failure for another.
Always exercise your own power of thought, choices, decision-making and discretion.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
04/04/2020
Crank Up The Volume On Silence!
It’s the weekend!
Crank up the volume on sacred silence!
Sync to the rhythm of your soul!
HappyWise: Sharmilla
03/04/2020
SACRED SILENCE:
Potentialities…
Probabilities…
Power.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
02/04/2020
You Are Eternal:
Yes, you are🌀💚❤️🌀
HappyWise: Sharmilla
30/03/2020
TRANSCEND:
Transcend outer conditions and social conditioning.
Listen to, trust and honor the core of your being.
You’re divinely loved, guided, cared-for.
All is so well.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
29/03/2020
More…
Less is more.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
28/03/2020
You Win:
You can’t lose what’s yours.
You can’t lose what’s not yours.
You always win.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
27/03/2020
TRUST YOUR BODY:
Trust your body.
Love your body.
Respect your body.
Direct your mind.
Nurture and align with your spirit.
All is so well.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
22/03/2020
CO-OPERATION, SOLITUDE…
Co-operation, not competition.
Solitude, not isolation.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
21/03/2020
Focus Triumphs:
Spread: Love, peace, joy, calm, kindness, smiles.
Remember, what you focus upon triumphs.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
16/03/2020
Empty And Re-Fill:
It matters not how big or how small your bowl is… It can be emptied and re-filled as often as you like.
There’s enough for all.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
13/03/2020
Highest Perspective:
How would Source view it?
View all situations and experiences from your Highest Perspective.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
04/03/2020
Experience. Now. Fully:
Experience. Now. Fully.
That which you choose to do with your now, creates your future.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
01/03/2020
Your Life Is Certain:
Your life is certain, for it’s what you determine.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
27/02/2020
Mellowing On…
All is in Divine Order.
Let your busy-ness be to chill, relax and flow…
Keep on mellowing on…
HappyWise: Sharmilla
22/02/2020
“Just Because”:
Who: Divine
What: Love
Where: Everywhere
When: In every moment
Why: “Just because”
How: BEing
HappyWise: Sharmilla
20/02/2020
Great Minds Think Uniquely, Autonomously!
Everything and anything cutting-edge, leading-edge, authentic and magical comes from those souls who have the courage, will, purpose, intelligence and confidence to think uniquely, independently, autonomously, and what may even be initially seen by the ‘think-alike’ masses as “outrageously”!
HappyWise: Sharmilla
15/02/2020
Celebrate Love:
Feel a love Divine…
Celebrate love in every moment, of every day!
HappyWise: Sharmilla
14/02/2020
Freedom…
I Am Freedom At My Most Powerful I Am Lovingly Betroth To Responsibility And Accountability.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
13/02/2020
Much Love To The Hilarity Of Stereotypical Assumptions:
Explore beyond your five senses… Expand your mind…
HappyWise: Sharmilla
12/02/2020
‘BE’ The Turning-Point You Seek:
If you’re waiting for someone/something to be the Turning-Point in your life… STOP. ‘BE’ the Turning-Point you seek.
Everything you seek is inside of you.
HappyWise:Sharmilla
03/02/2020
Your Essence Is Permanent And True:
Let nothing pain you so, that you may be falsely led to forget the essence of Who You Are. For your essence, dear one, is permanent and true; while all else is temporary and fleeting.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
03/02/2020
Life’s An Echo…
If life were to give back to you exactly what you gave out…
What would you choose to think, say, feel, do…?
HappyWise: Sharmilla
02/02/2020
Free-Will:
🤣 (Repeat After Me…) 🤣
“I am a being of free-will.
I have been superbly blessed with my own mind, my own thoughts and my own feelings.
I have also been generously blessed with freedom and the power of choice.
I therefore will NOT blindly/automatically repeat/follow what someone/society/social media asks of me, without first applying my own inherent discernment, discretion and Divine guidance!”
(If I find this very message, for instance, to not be in alignment with who I am, I reject it, rather than repeat it!)
HappyWise: Sharmilla
29/01/2020
Victor, rather than victim!
Regardless of what you may have been through, you’re only a ‘victim’ if you allow yourself to be so.
In every situation, and through every experience, choose to be a ‘victor’ rather than a victim.
Belittle the injustices done unto you, simply by valuing yourself by yourself, for yourself. You are stronger and wiser than any injustice or any doer of injustice.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
25/01/2020
Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Future!
All it takes to change your future, is to think a different thought! You, dear one, are the primary creator of your life! By your very thoughts, feelings and desires, you’re in a constant process of co-creation with Creation itself and with the Creator of All That Is.
A changed future is only a different thought away…
What do you choose to think?💕🌀
HappyWise: Sharmilla
21/01/2020
YOU ALREADY ARE…
Can you see yourself in all the ways you wish to be? Can you feel yourself as you’d like to be? Are you able to see yourself having the things that you (think you) want? Are you able to feel what it feels like to have everything that you (think you) want?
Isn’t it amazing that when you think back to ten-or-so years ago, you’ve already accomplished much of what you then set out to accomplish?
You already are everything you want to be… You already have everything you wish to have.
Let go of the concept of time.
Be…
HappyWise: Sharmilla
13/01/2020
INTEGRITY, SIMPLICITY, PURPOSE, FUNCTIONALITY, SUSTAINABILITY:
Any project worth undertaking has these elements at its core.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
12/01/2020
Life-Partner Blessings And Appreciations…
Know thyself… So that you may be able to know what you desire.
Be able to be, and to give, what you expect/desire.
Blessed be, and appreciate that which you verily summon and create through love and trust.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
02/01/2020
Oasis Unto Yourself:
Be an oasis unto yourself in the midst of chaos.
Much in life is not within your control. Much may not be of your choice or to your liking.
Yet, do choose to remember, regardless of how crazy a situation may be – you have the power within you, to consciously direct how you feel, under any circumstances/experiences you may find yourself in.
Be not overcome/swayed/swept up in any chaos which may be around you. Remember: it’s ‘around’ you – therefore, make it not a ‘part’ of you, by reacting to it.
Rise above. Always. You are the creator of your peace, your bliss.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
31/12/2019
Thanksgiving And Appreciation:
Being able to feel thankful and appreciative is a gift which we’re all blessed with, every day of our lives.
No matter how small or big, luxurious or simple, near or distant, natural or artificial, wondrous or plain, easy or difficult, Divine or mortal – there’s always something to be thankful for.
Let’s grow increasingly aware of the magical blessings in our lives, through every moment of every day… Let’s celebrate every moment of every day… For, within the ordinary, seemingly mundane and even painful and challenging, lies magic to be discovered/transformed/created…
HappyWise: Sharmilla
30/12/2019
Make Love…With Life:
All of life is love. Make love, in every moment, with everything. ❤️💚
Be in love, with Life…with all.
Love is a state of being…If you view love as something to be directed at only a lover/friend/family member/pet, etc. – you’re missing the true essence of love.💚❤️
HappyWise: Sharmilla
28/12/2019
Home Is Where The Spirit Is:
Be exactly ‘you’. Authentically you. Through the hype of the ‘holidays’, aim also to travel within. Savor a conversation with your Highest Self. Nurture that Divine connection. Meditate. Play. Look after your body. Dance. Jog. Kick a ball. Sit in silence. Be. Laugh. Appreciate. Work. Create. Make magic. Be happy. Make choices for ‘you’. Be in alignment with yourself. Love. Live…
HappyWise: Sharmilla
25/12/2019
Options And Choices:
We live in a gorgeous, beautiful, limitless world. Your available options are endless. Raise your awareness… Embrace the freedom-filled gift of choice and free-will!
HappyWise: Sharmilla
15/12/2019
All You Ever Need Is…
… A mind awakened by a courageous heart and spirit.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
12/12/2019
Happily Whole:
🌀😉💋♥️🌎😉🌀
Qualities I value in a life-partner: Someone with his own thoughts, ideas, interests and inspirations; Someone stronger, braver, wiser, more spirit & worldly intelligent, more independent (with The Divine as foundational cornerstone) & more independently-capable than I am; Someone as equally compassionate, authentic, humble, simple, open-minded, heart/spirit-centred & spiritually awake, aware, conscious & evolving, as I am. Else, I’m genuinely, happily whole on my own & I’ve no reason to settle.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
08/12/2019
LOVE:
…The Essence Of All…
🌀❤️💚💙💛💜🧡🌀
HappyWise: Sharmilla
05/12/2019
You’re Always Granted The Essence Of Your Deepest Desires:
Be assured that you’re always, most definitely, granted the essence of your deepest-felt-desires!
The Divine is listening…
Ask. Believe. Receive. Appreciate.❤️💚💙💜
HappyWise: Sharmilla
02/12/2019
Happy Colourful Friday!
Happy colourful Friday!
Be sure to stock-up on lotsa: fun, love, hugs, smiles, joy, appreciation…
Remember… The things of the greatest value are available all day, every day, all year round!
HappyWise: Sharmilla
29/11/2019
Agreeing To Disagree:
Deep, authentic love and respect can thrive in an environment which embraces differences…
It’s simple: Let’s agree to disagree.
And let’s continue to love, respect and learn from each other; while continually evolving and growing together!
Love and respect doesn’t always call for total and complete agreement with another. Instead, embracing different thoughts, ideas and points of view calls for maturity, which ultimately strengthens and transforms any relationship, because it’s authentic rather than based upon merely superficially pleasing each other.
Be happy… Know when to agree to disagree!💕
HappyWise: Sharmilla
27/11/2019
Blessed With The Best:
The BEST exists in everything… Yes, even in the seemingly worst.
When you’re someone who makes the best of anything and everything, you’re a creator of your own destiny.
Be blessed with the best!
Sharmilla: HappyWise
25/11/2019
Guidance On Demand:
You’re always connected to All That Is. Your every question has an answer. To every seeming ‘problem’, is there a solution.
Ask, feel, be aware – and you shall receive.
G – Guidance
O – On
D – Demand
You’re now and eternally blessed. Receive in appreciation, love and trust.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
25/11/2019
Dance And Thrive With Each Other:
Your feelings, just like your thoughts, are a choice. You wield power over them, by your chosen perspectives, attention and attitudes.
Complement, co-create, evolve, grow, transform, support, play, dance and thrive together/with each other; or compete with and engage in mind games and power struggles against each other, resultantly dwelling in insecurities due to misaligned perceptions…
It’s simply and solely a matter of what you choose and what you focus upon.
If you feel emasculated, simply by me being me, and by you being you… You have a choice: 1) Step up, empower yourself; or 2) Step out, enjoy yourself.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
22/11/2019
GOD BLESS THE RAINDROPS…
I feel raindrops…
Raindrops feel me…
God bless the raindrops!
God bless me!
You, me, the rain, the stars, the moon, the sun, the trees, the seas, the breeze, the birds, the fish, the frogs, the moody geese… We are all One… Made of the same energy, emerged from One Consciousness.
Revel, sometimes, in appreciation and the joy of being kissed by the raindrops, rather than always bolting toward sheltered protection (even though we remain so very appreciative of and thankful for the blessings of comfy sturdy homes, wholesome meals, piped water for hot refreshing showers, electricity, etc.)
…What if… The rain feels you, as much as you feel the rain? ☺️
Feel the blessings of your Divine connectedness with All That Is!
HappyWise: Sharmilla
20/11/2019
It Is What You Make Of It:
All anything ever is, is what you make of it…
Your interpretations…
Your perceptions…
Your choices of attributed meanings…
Make it work for your best and for your highest well-being!!!
HappyWise: Sharmilla
16/11/2019
Live Your Best:
Saving your best for last?
Why?
Live your best in every moment!
And expect it to only get better…and better!
HappyWise: Sharmilla
11/11/2019
God: My Life-Partner
Am I looking for marriage? Nope.
Am I looking for authentic connection? Yip, definitely!
What happens if I don’t find authentic connection with a man? I still win! I continue happily, blessedly walking my path with God as my Life-Partner, as I’ve always done…
(Do I think that God has authentic Divine connection with a man, in store for me? Yes, for sure!😉)
Let the basis be true connection, first and foremost, and then let marriage follow, if so be it. Then too, let it be rather a “celebration and declaration of the Sacred Union of togetherness, based upon freedom and mutual evolution”, rather than a “contract of stagnant obligations”.
A relationship-basis on a primary want/need for the ‘idea’ of “marriage”, as opposed to a genuine sacred spiritual foundation of heart-mind-body-soul-connection, just isn’t a turn-on for me 💕🌀💚
HappyWise: Sharmilla
04/11/2019
Happy Days…
Blessed to be working with the most amazing, wondrous, beautiful people!
And SO appreciative too!
Find and live your joys in as many ways and in as many moments as you can! Beauty, grace and wonder abounds!
HappyWise: Sharmilla
01/11/2019
CLARITY:
Your power is in your clarity!
HappyWise: Sharmilla
30/10/2019
Re-Align With Your Highest Value-Adding Priorities:
Live your best life.
Assess and re-align with your highest value-adding priorities.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
29/10/2019
FREEDOM, LOVE; LOVE, FREEDOM…
May the spirit of love be freedom, may the spirit of freedom be love…
HappyWise: Sharmilla
28/10/2019
Leading-Edge Of Thought, Feeling and Creation:
Learning from the brilliant, wondrous, magical, free-spirited minds and hearts of kids is some of the most terrific education around!
Observe, engage, celebrate, honor and take some lessons from these little beings who are on the leading-edge of thought, feeling and creation…
Sharmilla
23/10/2019
Diversity, Authenticity, Freedom…
Change yourself for nobody but yourself.
Change nobody for yourself.
Diversity, authenticity and freedom are Divine Gifts to be honored.
Sharmilla
22/10/2019
You’re Loved:
If I’m no longer around, know u’re loved. If I’m always around, know u’re loved. If u never hear from me again, know u’re loved. If u hear from me to no end, know u’re loved. If u hate me, know u’re loved. If u love me, know u’re loved.🌀🐋
HappyWise: Sharmilla
22/09/2019
Take Action From A Point Of Happiness:
Move on/do something new/make changes when you’re at your happiest. This will ensure that you’re forever growing toward your Light, not running from darkness.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
22/08/2019
EVERYTHING’S OK…NOW, ALWAYS!
I thought it would be nice to have a man tell me, “Everything’s gona be ok”…Then I felt my wise-old-all-knowing-perfectly-balanced inner-being say to me: “Aaah, sweetness! Everything’s ok…Now, Always!”
Remember that you are a whole, complete being. You have all necessary resources within yourself to live a loving, happy, supported, appreciative, rest-assured, re-assured, Divinely guided, blessed life.
All Is Well. Always. Forevermore…
HappyWise: Sharmilla
08/08/2019
DIRECT CONNECTION WITH THE DIVINE:
You already have access to your most intimate relationship with the Divine, within you. The more often you connect with your inner being, the more you flow with the abundant, eternal well-being of All-That-Is.
Love, nurture and frolic with this most significant primary relationship in your life!
HappyWise: Sharmilla
31/07/2019
QUALITY SIMPLICITY:
A person of the greatest simplicity may also often be a person of the finest quality.
A simple way of life and being in the world often flows in synchronized harmony with a sophisticated mind and intuition.
The greatest depths, insights and inspirations may be discovered and experienced in, from and with pure, authentic simplicity.
Should one underestimate the choice of simplicity to be indicative of shallowness / insignificance, (s)he may be in for a magnificent surprise☺️💜💚💙💕💛❤️🧡🦋🌞
HappyWise: Sharmilla
27/07/2019
Blessed And Appreciative…
Embrace all of the blessings and great experiences in your life. Focus on, and appreciate, what feels exhilarating to you. It can only get better…and better✨
HappyWise: Sharmilla
17/07/2019
Life Is As Sweetly Indulgent As You Allow It To Be:
Wellbeing and Divine All-That-Is is forever flowing to you. Whether you choose to see, feel, allow, experience and enjoy it, is your choice. Together with the Divine, you are a powerful co-creator of your life.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
13/07/2019
HIGH…On Life:
Inhale the intoxicating wellness of life. Dance to the ecstatic rhythm of the Universal beat. Flow in wild abandon with Divinity’s vibrant pulse. Saturate on Love’s transformational potion. Frolic with the magic of just ‘being’. Savor the sweet bliss of fulfillment’s joy. Be a creator for the sacred union of consciousness with Consciousness itself! Bow in appreciation of abundant blessings. And forever be, High…On Life!✨
HappyWise: Sharmilla
28/06/2019
APPRECIATION:
So immensely much to appreciate in life! For instance, a polygamous relationship with: Divine Blessings, Faith, Trust, Joy, Peace, Love, Play!💕
HappyWise: Sharmilla
22/06/2019
CHOOSE TO LOOK TO THE GOOD:
Choose to look to the good. Anything that you choose to focus upon, will increase in momentum, until it comes in waves…
HappyWise: Sharmilla
19/06/2019
FEEL AMAZING, LIVE AMAZING:
The thoughts and feelings that you have the FREEDOM TO CHOOSE are a precursor for your life experiences. Your life experiences should not control your thoughts and feelings. Be an active role-player in your life! Feel amazing to live an amazing life.☺️
HappyWise: Sharmilla
01/06/2019
You Script Your Life:
You are a most powerful co-creator, together with the Divine, of your life-story. Write, re-write and edit your story as you choose, and as often as you choose.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
29/05/2019
VALUE YOURSELF:
Know your worth. Trust yourself. Honor yourself.
Value yourself enough to walk away from crap. Do not look back.
You’re Divinely guided and taken care of – now, eternally.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
23/05/2019
BLESSED:
Feel it.
Live it.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
19/05/2019
In The Silence, Everything Pulses Life…
Discover your deepest pleasures in the precious treasure of silence…
HappyWise: Sharmilla
26/04/2019
Fulfillment Is Downstream:
Flowing in harmony with the current of your Divine Guidance, will always carry you to fulfillment. You have a choice: flow effortlessly and joyously downstream, or struggle upstream… The Universe will support you, either way.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
09/04/2019
Opportunity for Growth:
No matter the season, where you’re at, or what you may be facing or feeling – each new moment is a blessed opportunity for growth. Choose to blossom, bloom and shine! Only you hold the power! Be magically you always!🌈✨🌞
HappyWise: Sharmilla
30/03/2019
YOU DETERMINE YOUR FATE:
It is you who determines your fate. Remember, freedom of choice is a choice – make of it what you will. The Universe will support you.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
08/03/2019
Why Settle?
Are you fulfilled, or are you settling ‘just because’? Do you believe that you’re worthy of everything that you desire? If so, it will come to you.
Be true to ‘you’. Trust. You’re an intentional creation of the Divine Creator. Take a decision now to live up to your value. Continue to take decisions and make choices which honor the divinity which is in you, of you and definitely for you.
You will be met with the standards you set for yourself. Every time. Step up. ‘Settle’ when it’s authentically you.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
18/02/2019
Trust Your Gut
As a divinely-created being, you’re indeed also a divinely-guided being. You have within your realm of consciousness everything you need to know, and more than you can imagine.
Trust yourself. Listen from within. Grow increasingly aware of your infinite access to wondrous divine knowledge.
You’re a receptor of Consciousness itself. Your feelings are your faithful indicator. Trust your gut. Always.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
16/02/2019
DIVERGENTLY YOU
If you’re a free-thinker, you may not be liked. This will have nothing to do with you, but more-so with the fact that you cannot be easily understood, controlled or manipulated.
CONTINUE BEING SPECTACULARLY, UNIQUELY, BOLDLY, AUTHENTICALLY, AMAZINGLY, DIVINELY, DIVERGENTLY ‘YOU’!
HappyWise: Sharmilla
07/02/2019
You’re Already Everything You’re Meant To Be
Everything you desire, is already yours. Everything you want to be, you already are…
Think back to a few years ago. How far away are you now, from where you’ve wanted to be a few years ago? How many of your dreams have come true? How many of your desires have been fulfilled?
I’m guessing more than a few, right? … Yes, things are always working out for your best and highest good. Even when it seems that it isn’t. Choose always to focus on things that are working, rather than those that aren’t. This will ensure that you magnetize more of your desires into physical manifestation.
Remember to relax. You truly already are, and already have within you, everything that you long to be and that you’re meant to be. This can’t be taken away from you or from your experience.
In our physical, material world, things seem to take time to come into fruition. Not seeing the fruit though, doesn’t mean that it’s not already there. It surely is. Tend to yourself, care for yourself, live in increasing joy, happiness and ease… All is well.
Think on a seed, for instance. A seed is but a seed which grows into a mighty tree, or into a beautiful flower-blossom. The tree, the flower-blossom are already within the seed – even though it may take days / weeks / months / even years to become visible.
You’re right on your path. Be gentle with yourself. Trust yourself. Be in joy and in love with yourself. You’re already everything you’re meant to be.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
16/01/2019
Quality Time With You
When last did you dedicate some good, quality time to the most significant person in your life – yourself?
Spending time with, and by yourself, doesn’t have to translate into being lonely or alone. Far from it… In your quietest moments, flow your deepest connections – with yourself, with the Divine, with all…
Take some down-time, get to know yourself again / better / deeper… Discover the parts of you which wait in patience and eager anticipation for your attention…
Savor the beauty, the magnificence, the magical splendor which is you. Connect and re-connect with yourself as often and as sincerely as possible. You’re, after-all, your most vital relationship – relationship with self, with Divine…
HappyWise: Sharmilla
08/01/2019
Find Your True Love In The Divine
Love is always with you, within you, of you, for you. Love is you, you are love. The Divine is love. And you’re one with the Divine – now, forevermore…
All is magically, magnificently, most naturally and simply inter-connected through love, by love, in love.
Look always to the Divine and to the divinity within yourself – it is here where love frolics and dances, eagerly and consistently awaiting your embrace.
Aloneness and separateness do not exist, but for its being a concept of your mind and imagination. Feel with your heart – you will genuinely and surely know that you’re the very essence of the great Essence itself – which is love, which is connection.
Celebrate the grand, simple, spontaneous yet never-ending abundant supply of love, joy and happiness available to you. Inhale it with your every breath.
Your true happily-ever-after love is in the Divine and in you… In each and every moment…
HappyWise: Sharmilla
29/12/2018
Trust The Contrast
Yes, it would indeed be wonderful if life were permanently rosy, beautiful and peaceful, wouldn’t it? It would be perfection indeed if things always went the way you wanted and desired, if you instantaneously got what you wanted, if you everlastingly floated on fluffy white clouds upon a blue sky… Right?
Yet, think about it for but a moment: if all were indeed exactly as you wanted, all of the time, how then would you be able to differentiate what it is that you like, from that which you dislike / like to a lesser extent?
You wouldn’t know the difference, would you? And in not having the contrasting experiences of that which you dislike, you also then wouldn’t fully be able to explore, appreciate and embrace the joy in the experiences of that which you do desire… Correct?
The less desired / undesirable parts of your life don’t have to be all doom and gloom, dear one. Those situations and experiences are there to point you onward, inward and upward toward what it is that you actually do desire.
Once you learn to use your every less-than-desirable instance to your benefit, by identifying from it that which your heart and spirit calls you to, you know you’re well on your way to living your best life.
There’s but a reason and a purpose to all under the sun – and in the midst of every seeming thunderstorm too.
Trust the contrast, dear one. Trust your self. Be in joy and in peace always. All is working out, always.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
19/12/2018
Everything Is Always Working Out
Regardless of what’s going on in your life right now, or in any moment, trust and know that all is always working out for your best and highest good.
Adopting an attitude of trust in the Divine, and of actively making the choice to see and experience the best in any and all situations, will ensure that you’re consistently evolving toward what’s greatest for you.
As you continually evolve and attract what’s best for you, you move ever and ever closer to the Divinity which is already within you and all around you.
Be aware always of the blessings and joys which can come of any experience or situation. Your attitude, your choices, your decisions and your points-of-focus hold immeasurable power.
Remember, everything is always working out for your highest good…
HappyWise: Sharmilla
14/12/2018
Fall In Love…
Think of your most beloved…
How do you feel when you’re in your beloveds presence? What effect does even a thought of your dearly beloved have upon your feelings? …
How do you treat your beloved? What special things do you do for, and with, your beloved? How do you love your beloved – in what ways, in what quantity? Is it even quantifiable?
What, specifically, are some of the things that you do to demonstrate the depths of your feelings for your beloved, to your beloved?
How do you encourage, love, support, value and treasure your beloved? How do you go out of your way to ensure that he / she is happy, healthy and joyful?
… Now, take a moment to deeply and intimately feel all of your feelings toward your beloved…
Bask in these feelings. Feel it’s purity, it’s self-creative happiness… And allow these feelings to expand and to grow from within you…
Know that these feelings are yours. Yes, you may indeed feel this magnificent, glorious and magical love toward your beloved, in connection with who he / she is – yet the feelings originate from within you.
The feelings of which your beloved is the blessed recipient of – is actually within you, flows from you and is perpetually available to you. You are its creator and its conduit – It is Divine Source energy, which is simply LOVE.
So: Love yourself just like you do / would love your most precious beloved.
Fall in love with yourself – now, and again and again, in every moment. Treasure yourself. Treat yourself. Celebrate yourself. Have fun with yourself. You are love itself.😌
HappyWise: Sharmilla
08/12/2018
Hurt-Proof Yourself With Self-Love:
You already have the greatest, truest, purest love of your life, ever.. You’ve always had it and with you shall it always remain.
It’s you. It’s within you. It’s a love Divine. A love that’s perfect, a love that’s true… whole, complete.
There’s no reason to feel dejected, rejected, hurt or despondent if another doesn’t reciprocate your love.
Your value is inherent. Your worth is eternal. Love yourself. And in loving yourself, trust and know that you magnetize love Divine.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
24/11/2018
You’re Eternally Loved, Guided, Cared-For
No matter what you’ve done, what you may be going through, what others’ think and say of you, or what another has done to you – one thing remains constant: you’re eternally loved, guided and cared for.
The Divine loves you for all of the perfection that you’ve been created to be, are, and always shall be.
Your untainted essence forever remains – regardless of externalities.
Thrive in being loved. Take pleasure in the Divine Guidance which is offered to you in every moment. Rest peacefully assured that you’re immensely, outrageously cared for!
Stay blissfully blessed.
HappyWise: Sharmilla
01/11/2018
Change Your Beliefs, Change Your Reality
Think about it for a moment… Gaze upon your life – past and present – is there a possibility that your ‘reality’ could be but a mere reflection of your predominant, strongest-held beliefs?
Was there a time in your life, perhaps, when you believed that relationships were difficult? Was there then a correlation with you experiencing ‘difficult’ relationships in your life?
Was there a time, perhaps, when you believed that you were unworthy of love? What, then, were the types of romantic relationships – if any – that you consequently attracted?
Was there a time where you believed with all of your heart that you deserved something? Did you then get what you thought you deserved?
As you think and believe, so too do your feelings follow suit, attracting into your life and materializing that which you believe.
You’re, beyond measure, a powerful co-creator with the Divine Creator.
Go ahead, amaze yourself! Energize yourself with love! Live happy! It’s your reality!
HappyWise: Sharmilla 19/10/2018
Harness Your Magic
Listen, to your own voice.
Hold, your own hand.
Gaze tenderly, into your own eyes.
Dance, with the brilliance of your Highest Self.
You’re magical. Phenomenal. Beautiful.
Everything you need is within you.
You have access to all answers, all solutions, all possibilities.
The love, acceptance, support, inspiration, acknowledgement, advice, approval, happiness which you seek – be it, and gift it from yourself unto yourself, first and foremost.
Naught which doesn’t first arise from within will purely come from without.
Trust in your magic. Dance with the brilliance of your Highest Self.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 13/10/2018
Do What Fills Your Cup With Joy
Ponder your life but for a moment… In your mind’s eye, see the activities and actions which you primarily engage in; feel the feelings which are predominant to your experiences; hear the thoughts, words, sounds and noises which you’re either by choice or circumstance most exposing yourself to…
If you were to metaphorically put all of these into a vessel such a cup, would you choose to then drink the contents of the cup?
What effect, do you think, this potion would have upon you?
Would it be an elixir of enhancement and sweet fulfillment? Life-sustaining and pure?
… Or perchance, might it be a substance of toxicity and contamination, draining to your body, energy and life-force?
Remember that you’re blessed to in most instances choose what you feed yourself with – mind, body, spirit, heart.
Seize your power of freedom of choice. Love yourself, nourish yourself, nurture yourself.
Love yourself – more, nourish yourself – more, nurture yourself – more… Always.
Then, savor the aromatic fragrance and the delectable taste of your joyous creations; drink from your cup in trust, freedom and faith – honoring yourself in wisdom, as Divinely intended.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 06/10/2018
Be True, To You
You’re a creation of the Divine – beautiful, wise, significant, perfect exactly as you are. Your value is infinite.
Embrace yourself in confidence, peace, joy, respect and freedom. There is none other exactly like you.
Your uniqueness is a gift. … So why, perhaps, do you strive to ‘fit-in’ more? Why do you doubt yourself, your magnificence, even when at your core you know who you gloriously are?
Be naught else but genuinely, truly, wholly, authentically you. You’re you for a divine purpose. Rise up in your power to all of who you are.
Let go of external expectations and obligations. Set yourself free. Honor your choices, your decisions, your feelings. Allow yourself to be led by the Divine.
Walking in harmony with yourself is honoring the inherent eternal divinity in, and of, yourself.
Trust that the moment you decide to be true to you, first and foremost, all else will seemingly magically fall into place.
Have fun and be in happiness with you. As such, you will create an energy which will attract to you all that is for your best and highest good.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 29/09/2018
Letting Go Allows You To Move On To Where You Belong
Nothing is ever lost. All is energy. Energy is only transformed. Be at ease with that which no longer serves your highest purpose.
Make peace. In acceptance, and in surrender to Divine Grace and Guidance, know that you’re now effortlessly on your path to where you belong.
Forcing / prolonging a situation / the inevitable doesn’t change your having to ultimately progress forward in happiness. The sooner you do, the more you allow yourself to unite with, and in, love, joy, peace and fulfillment – both internally and externally.
You’re loved, you already belong- you always have, you always shall… Even if it may not be in the materially-manifested, and probably somewhat limited, ways you expect.
You may perceive letting-go of someone or something as a ‘loss’; however oftentimes, it’s just a path on your life-journey – providing opportunities for greater levels of self-appreciation, worth and esteem. You’re constantly evolving, and with it will come change.
View letting-go and flowing with change as upping your game, rather than as a cause for pain. Embrace your freedom, dance in joyous ecstasy with your authentic self…
The Universe is boundless and eternal Wisdom. You’re on track, supported, and Guided by Spirit in every moment.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 22/09/2018
Align With Love And Joy To Live Your Purpose
Living your best life is simpler, and way more fun, than you may imagine. By aligning with the love and joy which is already within you, you can be assured that all of your desires will naturally and effortlessly flow to you…
The greater your awareness of, and gratitude for, the love and joy in your life – the more you attract energies of similar frequencies into your life. These ‘energies’ may be people, experiences, things, or even just more enhanced feelings of alignment and peace.
Your purpose is love and happiness – to be it, to experience it, to share it. So anytime you do anything to attune yourself with feelings of love and happiness – trust and know that you’re uplifting not only yourself, but also countless others and consciousness as a whole.
By living your life from a space and a place of joy and love, you’re not only gifting yourself with precious treasures, but you’re also simultaneously engaging in selfless service to humanity.
Yes, selfless service… If, perhaps, you hold a belief that feeling happiness and love is ‘selfish’ or that for some reason you’re ‘undeserving’, then choose in this moment to change that restrictive conditioned belief and replace it with a more wholesome belief – you were created to live a beautiful, joyous, love-filled life. This is your purpose, first and foremost.
When you’re in love and joy yourself, you automatically share it with others and it’s also infused into everything you do. The more you come into alignment with who you genuinely are – love and joy – the more in-tune you will grow with your other purposes and passions in life.
And the more you’re in alignment, the more you shine your light on others’ – even if simply by being an example of authenticity.
So become aware of, feel and express love and joy!
… And then simply do more of it, over and over again – to deeper and expanded levels!
And in this, know that you’re on purpose…
HappyWise: Sharmilla 15/09/2018
‘You’ Are Your Competitive Edge
Being authentically you is all you need and all you need to be. Your unique combination of qualities, experiences, skills, desires and talents ensures that you’re unmatched.
You’re already your strongest competitive edge. There’s nothing more to do or to be. You already are.
Value yourself for all that you are. Recognize the gifts in the exclusive package of magnificence which is you.
The need for external competition and comparisons instantly drop away when you realize, accept and embrace the reality that you’re already exceptionally you.
Your happiness, your abundance, your fulfillment, your service, your purpose – are all inherent parts of you. All that’s required is your awareness, a flow with Divine Guidance and a gratitude for yourself.
You are your competitive edge. Seek, find, embrace and express from within; you will surely shine and succeed.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 08/09/2018
Being True To You, Is Honoring Divinity
There’s nothing more or nothing less for you to do, other than being true to the highest and the best which is already vibrantly alive and thriving within you.
Relax, trust and have faith in the knowledge that Source is pleased and ecstatic when you live your life in being aware of, listening to, and implementing the deepest truest parts of yourself. For, your essence, is Essence itself.
Allowing yourself to flow in Divine Guidance and Grace is a blessing relished in gratitude and joy. Creator and creation co-exist and dance together in a most intricate, beautiful, intimate, gentle yet powerful rhythmic relationship.
Honor your consciousness, and Consciousness itself is venerated and celebrated!
HappyWise: Sharmilla 01/09/2018
Focus on Happiness
Focusing on something, anything, which brings a feeling of joy, ease and gratitude to your soul – in any situation or circumstance – is potentially one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself.
Whether you recall the feelings of a past happy moment / experience, whether you dream up / imagine / create a future happy experience with blissful feelings associated, or whether you actually live your bliss in a now moment in your life, trust that the happy feelings you recall / create / live – attract similar energies to you, thereby summoning a future of similar delightful, fulfilling energy vibrations and experiences to your reality.
Focusing on happiness, regardless of what may be going on around you, will ensure that you maximize your life by making the best of any and every situation.
The magical power of shaping your present and your future lies in your hands. By your outlook, choices, decisions and resultant focus, you design and actualize your life-experiences.
One of the wisest, most powerful actions you can take to ensure a life of peace and bliss is to focus on happiness in as many instances as possible.
So focus… On happiness…
HappyWise: Sharmilla 24/08/2018
Your Decisions Are Powerfully Potent
Your life up to this point in time is a perfect reflection of the choices and decisions you’ve taken / made upon your life-path.
As difficult as it may be to sometimes recognize or acknowledge, your life is majorly influenced by your own choices and decisions. Yes, even in situations where you may possibly feel ‘stuck’.
Is it possible in such a scenario, for instance, that you may be ‘stuck’ simply because as unbearable as it sometimes feels, it’s still a space wherein you ‘enjoy’ the greatest amount of security and / or comfort? And therefore, by avoiding / stalling making a decision to change, due to the perceived ‘risks’ which may accompany such change, you yourself perpetuate your own ‘stuckness’? But why choose to remain in less-than-fulfilling experiences and / or environments?
Know that at any given moment whatsoever, you hold the power to transform a situation. All it requires is for you to make a decision. In taking just one decision, you potentially powerfully change the course of the rest of your entire life.
Oftentimes, the toughest part is the time leading up to taking the decision – everything that goes into your decision-making process. Yet, once you’ve made your decision by consulting with the Divine within and around you for Guidance, all you have to do is faithfully follow-through and rest in clarity and peace.
Your decisions are powerfully potent. Continue making decisions which bring you joy, forever aligning with your true-self, purpose and intentions.
Simply: be true to yourself in your decision-making, thereby creating and living a life of empowered freedom which Divinity always intended for you.
And remember, there are no ‘wrong’ decisions – consult with the Divine within you and trust that you will so be Divinely Guided. The Universe flows with your intentions, choices and decisions…
HappyWise: Sharmilla 18/08/2018
Your Ultimate Life-Partner is The Divine
The one constant in human physical life may be that all is ever-changing, indefinite and temporary. Yet, the other most magnificently assured constant is that Divine Source is always with you, within you, around you, for you.
Regardless of the inconsistencies, uncertainties and challenges (sometimes even seeming chaos) you may find yourself momentarily engulfed in in the physical world – trust, know and rest-assured that Spirit is always Guiding you.
The wisdom, strength, understanding, purpose, support, love, encouragement, peace, joy, direction and light which you seek is eternal, enduring and is eternally available to you. It’s verily an integral part of you, within you.
In every moment – trust, know and celebrate the beautiful truth that you’re perfectly paired with your ultimate life-partner, the Divine, for now and for always!
HappyWise: Sharmilla 11/08/2018
Author Your Life
Yes, it’s the nature of life for you to experience things which you may have no, or limited, control over. Yet, remember that you always have a choice as to how you respond to such situations / circumstances.
When you choose your responses to a current situation, know that it’s not only the current situation which you’re responding to, but you’re also setting the scene for that which will unfold on your path forward in your life.
You thereby script your own life by the choices you make and the actions you take.
There’s no lack of people or structures willing to prescribe to you how to live your life. If you’re not writing your own script for your life, it’s easy to be overcome by the directions, determinations, decisions and conditions of another / others.
Authoring your life translates into knowing yourself and knowing what’s best for you in the now-moment and in the long-term. It means respecting your choices, decisions and desires – following Divine Guidance.
When you honor yourself for the unique being that you are, you’re able to remain respectful to all, while simultaneously ensuring that you’re not a mere clone or robot of somebody else’s making.
Stand and rise confidently in your power to be the creator and the author of your life – co-creating with Spirit. Embrace your freedom with love and gratitude.
Your free-will is a Divinely ordained faculty, which Source intended for you to make full use of!
HappyWise: Sharmilla 04/08/2018
You’re A Light, Even When Shadows Fall
By your very nature, a child of the Creator, you’re a light. Life has moments and times of darkness and shadows, yet this doesn’t alter your inherent nature of purity and luminescence.
You’ve been birthed from the supreme Light of the Divine. Regardless of what you or another does, or regardless of what you may experience, the genuine permanent nature of your being is radiance.
Shadows pass. And by their very nature, they require light to enable them to even be cast in the first instance.
Think, for instance, of a lunar eclipse – the earth may cast its shadow, yet it’s but only temporary. And behind the shadow, the moon continues to glow as brightly and as iridescently as ever. In fact, both the earth and the moon are in ultimate perfect harmony, each on their own, as well as with one another.
You are perfection exactly as and where you are. Remember this in every moment. Glow, as you’ve been created to glow. It’s only by your own thoughts and feelings that you can feel any less.
Your power, your freedom is in your choices. You’re an integral, amazing part of the Celestial Dance of Life.
Choose in wisdom, living the brightest you. You’re glorious!
HappyWise: Sharmilla 27/07/2018
All You Ever Have To Be Is You
Love you. Adore you. Be you.
You’re enough.
Dedicate your energy to the true you. Not to anybody else’s version of you, and most especially not to your version of someone else you believe is ‘better’ than you.
You’re wholly you for a reason.
If you were meant to be anybody else, you’d be them… Do you truly, genuinely wish to be someone else?
If you do, then you simply haven’t yet discovered your own extraordinary magnificence. And all you’d have to do to conceive your splendor, is to pay foremost and ultimate attention to yourself for a while.
You being you, is your purpose.
Be true to your purpose. Live your purpose. Thrive in joy in every moment with your Divinely ordained purpose.
Be simply you.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 21/07/2018
You’re Perfectly Where You’re Supposed To Be
All is well, dear one. You’re doing great. You’re on your path. If perhaps you’re not precisely where you envisaged yourself being – trust that you’re still perfectly where you’re supposed to be.
Love being where you are.
Appreciate yourself for exactly where you are.
Play and have fun, where you are!
You’ve come a long way, indeed.
You’re amazingly phenomenally on track in the Bigger Scheme of Divinity’s Plan.
Relax. Breathe. Dance free.
Flow with ease and gratitude in your every now moment.
Trust that you will eternally continue moving effortlessly forward on your wondrous life journey…
HappyWise: Sharmilla 14/07/2018
All Is Perfection
Trust that all’s working out for your best and highest, always.
Yet all is well. It always will be well.
You’re a magnificent child of the Universe. It’s a given that you’re taken care of, always. You’re loved, supported, deeply cared for…
Most significantly, you’re Divinely Guided in every moment of your life.
Rest, relax and have faith in the knowledge that everything is always working out for your Highest Good – especially when it seems to you, from your limited human perspective, that it isn’t.
In your surrender, trust and faith, you allow Universal energy to work with you, rather than you striving on your own.
All is Perfection.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 07/07/2018
Choosing Your Feelings Is Your Power
You choose your emotions – in every moment. Regardless of what may be going on in your life or what you may be facing, know that the way you choose to feel about any situation whatsoever comes down to you.
Nobody and nothing holds more power, sway or influence in determining your emotions than you yourself do.
Seize this blessing and gift as your opportunity – either to continue feeling the way you do, or to change the way you feel.
Your emotions are your guide – they indicate to you when you’re in-tune with your highest self, or when you may need to come back into your place of authenticity.
They are your strength. You’re not ever at the mercy of your emotions. Neither do your emotions control your life.
You command your emotions.
And as you command, so you attract. When you choose to rise above a situation / feeling, forever reaching higher toward a better feeling, know and trust that you’re well on your way to the highest and best for yourself.
Fulfillment, love, trust, freedom, peace, faith, inspiration, joy… these are eternally there – waiting for you to take a hold of… to let into the very fibre of your being and life.
Why choose otherwise, when you hold the power to choose the best feelings for yourself in each and every moment!
HappyWise: Sharmilla 30/06/2018
Your Strengths Are Unique
Dear one, do you tend to single-yourself-out when it comes to your weaknesses / things which you may think you’re not the greatest at? Do you tell yourself over and over that you’re the only person on this planet with these ‘issues’, ‘defects’, ‘inadequacies’?
… Okay.
How about, from this very moment on, you commit to taking this very same approach and applying it to all of your strengths?!
How about you tell yourself over and over that you’re the only person on this planet with the exclusive combination of all of the unique strengths, gifts and capabilities that you have?
Even better, how about you fully believe it?!
For it’s verily true. It may be the so-called ‘weaknesses’, ‘shortcomings’ or ‘imperfections’ which make you uniquely you, yet so too do your vast gifts and talents, no matter how dazzling or simple they may be.
In fact, some of the things you perceive to be your ‘weaknesses’ / ‘inadequacies’ may actually turn out to be your greatest assets – particularly in combination with your competencies, skills, talents and expertise.
You’re, by your very nature of being human, magnificently wonderful and remarkable in all of your integrated dualities of strengths and ‘weaknesses’.
Free-will is yours. The choice of what you focus on and choose to give your energy to, is uniquely and powerfully yours.
Choose wisely.
Focus on the great stuff about yourself. Take pleasure in watching it flourish, blossom and bloom.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 22/06/2018
You’re Your Wisest Guide
Trust yourself, dear one. Travel within to your core. Therein lies all answers and solutions to everything.
You’ve been created magnificent by an Omniscient Being. Just as your children are made of your genes / you’re born from the genes of your parents, so too do you carry within your very self the energy of your Divine Creator.
You’re wiser than you give yourself credit for. Become increasingly aware of who you really are – a remarkable being, pulsating Divine Source energy.
All you seek from the Divine, you already have within you. Trust yourself. Love yourself. Allow and accept the best for yourself.
Have fun and be in joy, as you allow the Divine to flow within you, and from you, forever Guiding you through your very own inspired thoughts, dreams, feelings, prayers, wishes, visions, invocations…
Be with you. You’re enchantingly wise.
Sharmilla: HappyWise 19/06/2018
Set Your Default to ‘Happy’
Remember that regardless of what may be going on in your life, you always have the freedom and power to actively choose how you feel.
Grow and train yourself into a habit of feeling peace, contentment and happiness. This will ensure that even and especially in tougher, trying times, it will be easy and automatic for you to gravitate toward happiness.
Sometimes when you experience equilibrium in your feelings, you may find it easier to move toward less-than-affirming emotions such as worry or anxiety. A reason for this is that you crave feeling something.
Have you considered, however, why it may be more effortless for you to sway toward a feeling of emptiness rather than fulfillment, or a feeling of anxiousness rather than trust, for instance?
Yes, it’s simply an outcome of the way you’ve trained your mind.
Know that it’s just as simple for you to re-train your mind, to suite and serve your own purposes and intentions.
Given a choice – and it indeed is given –choose affirming feelings of wellbeing, vitality, peace, trust, freedom, joy… Make it your go-to response and behavior.
It’s about time you set your default to happiness, isn’t it?!
HappyWise: Sharmilla: 16/06/2018
You Hold All Solutions and Answers
Within yourself, you hold splendid solutions to all challenges you may face. You also hold informing answers to all questions you may have. As an integral and indispensable fragment of Source-energy and all of Life, you are graced with enduring access to infinite Divine Intelligence.
•Accessing Solutions And Answers:
Ask and you shall receive. A simple, yet magnificently potent, truth.
By your very thoughts, self-talk and beliefs, you set the scene for determining your manifestations in life. You play a supremely fundamental role in ordaining your successes and your triumphs.
Gear your thoughts to reach your desired outcomes, place yourself in a position of feeling the feelings of peace, joy, fulfilment and relief associated with your desired end-results, and trust that you will enjoy your outcome.
Keep yourself from getting lost in the details of how exactly things will play out to get you to where you want to be.
Trust in the knowledge that your asking with clarity and intentional purpose, and your continually relaxing in a space of feeling it as already done, will get you to where you need to be.
You’re an awesome co-creator with the Divine.
You’re Divinely cared for.
You’re eternally and infinitely loved.
All is well.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 15/06/2018
Surrender, Fly Free To Succeed
Control may be a positive quality when it comes to discipline, responsibility, focus and accountability, for instance. It may oftentimes be the fuel behind your perseverance and successes in life. Yet, have you ever noticed the difference in the quality of your feelings between achieving a goal:
• When you’ve been in a surrendered and trusting state and space
As opposed to:
• When you’ve been in an anxiety-filled, rigid and controlling state and space?
Does there seem to be a distinct difference in the quality of each?
•Controlling Your Way To Success:
How does aiming to be in control all of the time, make you feel? Does it relax you? Does it make you feel like you’re conquering the world in an ordered, prepared and sequential way?
Does it stress you out? Does it leave you feeling like you’re living on-edge?
A fact of life is that we cannot control everything. It’s in the nature of things to be changing.
As much as one may succeed at controlling a very large portion of his / her life, one still cannot predict absolutely everything. A reasonably large portion of life is unknown – dependent upon various factors aside from oneself.
What happens then, when you encounter something that’s beyond your control? How do you feel? How do you react? Do you clamor to make sense of things and to restore ‘order’ and ‘control’ as you know it? Or, are you able to easily accept, adapt and go with the flow?
•Surrendering Your Way To Success:
There’s great strength and power in intentionally choosing to surrender. It calls for deep trust – in yourself, in the Universe.
Surrender is one of the most amazing gifts you will ever bestow on yourself.
Allowing you to be in the moment, to live fully and wholly, and to experience life from a space and state of freedom, joy and relief – surrender is being at one with Divine Grace.
Living from a place of surrender will ensure that you always succeed – for from such a place of trust and faith, all is and always will be well. You know, for a fact, that you will always be Divinely Guided.
As an added bonus, you – in wisdom – allow yourself the opportunity to live your life in a continual state of ease and bliss, minus having to be perfect or to have all be perfect. Thriving from a feeling-space of ease and bliss will surely attract greater quantities and qualities of the same to you, as you gently perfect the art of surrendering…
HappyWise: Sharmilla 12/06/2018
Love Yourself, More, Always
When’s a good time to love you? How often do you shower yourself with just as much love as you do your dearly beloved ones? When is it okay, ‘good’ or even ‘acceptable’ to love yourself truly, deeply, genuinely, abundantly?
… Now. In every moment. Always. Your greatest, deepest and most constant love lives and thrives within you. As much as your love is for sharing, caring and healing of others’, your love is also one of your greatest, simplest gifts to you.
Treasure this Love of Divine Source energy which sings, dances and celebrates Life within your soul, within every molecule and cell of your being.
This phenomenal support, strength and caring is permanently with you, for you – and shall remain with you in every moment, through eternity.
In times of feeling lost, alone or not understood, your spirit calls out to you more than ever for you to be there for you – to reach for your Higher Self, your Spirit Self.
Regardless of what may be going on in your life – trust, know and rest assured that love-essence is your blessing, your grace.
Love yourself, more, always…
HappyWise: Sharmilla: 08/06/2018
How often do you find yourself looking to others for opinions, feedback, reassurance, or even approval on your life? Does it sometimes even occur indirectly when you don’t necessarily ask directly – such as by looking for and noting body-language, eye-contact and other reactionary clues as indicators of how you may have been received / perceived? This is perfectly okay and is a normal part of human relationship interactions. However, do you perhaps place more value and trust in what another thinks of you, than you do in yourself? Your Most Valuable Feedback Mechanism is you.
• The Value of Your Source-Inspired Thoughts:
Your first and foremost source of feedback regarding anything in your life is you, yourself.
As an extension of infinite Source energy, you hold within your being an endless vastness of knowledge, insight, solutions, answers and inspiration. The magnificence of the resources in your personal domain is phenomenal.
Quieting your mind and relaxing your body while traveling within in openness and receptivity allows you, through your Higher Self, to access thoughts aligned to Infinite Divine Intelligence.
Together with your feelings / intuition, the observations and understandings you receive through your quieted mind is one of your most credible sources of resolution, breakthrough, momentum and advancement.
•The Value of Your Feelings:
Regardless of what anyone may have told you, regardless of what you may have heard, regardless of how you may have been judged, regardless of how you may judge yourself – know that your feelings are a gift.
There is no clearer or more precise indicator of your wellbeing than the feedback you receive from your feelings.
Whenever you feel something, particularly strongly so, your Higher Self is communicating with you on a most intimate level. Give attention to your feelings like you would to an intriguing lover.
Whether you’re being true to yourself or not comes through by the way you feel. Whether you’re loving yourself / valuing yourself / honoring yourself as you rightly should be or not, is indicated by your feelings.
When you’re in alignment with your true self, you experience feelings of happiness, peace and calm. Such a feeling-state is natural and is divinely intended. Feelings of unease, discomfort, sadness, etc. are simply indicators that you may not be honoring your true self.
In awareness of your feelings, you have the option to consciously examine the cause(s) of the way you feel. This allows you to actively make choices geared toward raising your vibration to your natural state of peace, calm and bliss.
In increasingly honoring your thoughts and feelings from a level of your true, Higher Self, your trust in yourself will evolve to a level of surpassing your need for placing the opinions of any other above yourself.
Trusting in yourself is simply placing trust and faith in a Divine Super-Consciousness, which you verily are an integral part of.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 02/06/2018
Ups and downs, highs and lows, ‘good’ and ‘bad’, ‘rights’ and ‘wrongs’ – all comprise some of the amazing richness of life. You may love for your experiences to be solely one-sided, skewed toward the wonderful and the joyous, yes. Yet, how then would you know what’s ‘wonderful’ and what’s ‘joyous’ unless you’ve also experienced its opposite? Trust and rest in the knowledge that there’s a place and a purpose in your life for the lows, just as much as for the highs.
•Flowing With The Contrasts:
Contrast is a natural and a vital part of the human experience. It allows you to identify and to sort that which you like from that which you don’t. It also provides you an opportunity for experiencing and living your life in all of it’s vibrant diversity.
Flowing with, rather than resisting, the assorted realities of life, will ensure that you walk your path gracefully and purposefully.
Remember that ‘experiencing’ doesn’t entail or necessitate becoming ‘stuck’ or embroiled in a situation or experience. It simply means being aware of, acknowledging, doing what needs to be done if so required, and moving along… Flowing…
•Flourishing Unhindered:
The contrast of the ‘goods’ from the ‘not-so-goods’ or downright painful and challenging, affords you the freedom not only for identifying your preferences, but also for then choosing to hone your attention and focus upon your own favored choices.
So, in any experience, it is primarily by your own perceptions, outlooks, focus of attention, decisions and choices that your life is shaped.
Your choices and focal-points of awareness and attention become your magnets of attraction for drawing you toward your future experiences; and similarly for drawing your future experiences toward you.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 26/05/2018
A Season To Sow and A Season To Reap
Everything is accounted for. All of your actions and endeavors are recognized and incredibly valued in and by the Universe. Things done now-seemingly ‘lifetimes ago’ which once-upon-a-time ignited your heart with inspiration and passion, still remain a living, vibrant part of your being. Naught is lost. Naught has been, is, or ever shall be in vain.
• A Season to Sow:
Sometimes the pace may seem slow and your mind may be fooled into thinking you’re toiling without getting anywhere. When this happens, know and trust that all of life is flowing in accordance with a perfect natural rhythm.
So long as whatever you engage in is in alignment with who you truly are, bringing you peace and joy, you’re definitely on the ‘right’ track. Your contributions to your soul-growth and evolutionary journey are artfully incremental. It does after-all require each step to reach your destination. Every step along your path is as significant as the destination itself.
Take pleasure in your energy outputs of enthusiastic perseverance. Nurture, comfort and love yourself through your every creative endeavor, no matter how large or small. Celebrate your mini-successes, even if just by taking a quiet moment to breathe deeper and fuller, inhaling your triumphs in appreciation, gratitude and gladness.
• A Season to Reap:
Having sown your seeds and walked your route with intentional purpose, clarity, and focused actions, now rest, relax and anticipate harvest and fruition.
Fulfillment must only be a natural consequence of seeds well-nourished and tended with caring delight…
Bask in the realization and gratification of coming full circle through time… Soak it all in…
… And then grab your soil-tilling instruments and your walking-shoes again… For life and your continual expansion is but a beautiful eternal process of sowing and reaping, reaping and sowing, walking and reaching, reaching and walking…
Be gentle with yourself. You’re perfectly exactly where you’re supposed to be.
Have fun!
HappyWise: Sharmilla 19/05/2018
Embrace the Freedom and Peace of Sometimes Not Understanding
Are you a person who seeks understanding – in more-or-less everything? Are you perhaps also a person whose entire world just doesn’t seem to make sense when there’s something / someone you don’t understand? Well then, it’s time you know that not understanding some things and / people out of the billions of things and / people in the world is wonderfully okay!
•The Beauty in Not Understanding Some of the All:
There’s immense beauty to be recognized in, and extracted from, not understanding all! For this simply points to the presence of diversity to the extent of being graced with the opportunity to explore with lightness and curiosity, as well as to grow, to learn, to allow and to accept.
Accept the marvelous fortuity and gifts within dazzling variety; and peacefully and joyously accept your own unique role, points-of-view, and points-of-convergence-and-attraction in an incredibly dynamic and contrasted world.
After-all, what beauty would there be in the absence of contrast and difference? Does not the gloriousness of a sunrise or a sunset lie in its distinction – whether in hue or clarity – from the previous dawns and dusks? Is there not something charming about dimpled-cheeks or a crooked smile?
So why not of different mindsets, opinions, perceptions, behaviors, cultures, traditions, appearances, practices…?
How would you know your purpose and place in the world if all people were the same / were an exact copy of you? Would there be much fun, stimulation or fulfillment in that?
•The Freedom and Peace of Not Understanding Some of the All:
What do you think would happen if you freed yourself of your need to comprehend all?
How might you feel – in your mind, in your body, in your heart, your spirit?
Would it affect your talk and self-talk in any way(s)?
Would it affect your responses, reactions and actions?
What effect might it have on your energy levels? How might it contribute to your health, vitality and overall wellbeing?
Might you in doing so choose to live your life in greater freedom, lightness-of-being, happiness, openness and compassion on many levels?
Could your acceptance of not understanding all, and the freedom which arises therefrom, be all the genuine understanding you require?
HappyWise: Sharmilla 12/05/2018
Take Care of Yourself
Caring for yourself may be one of the most selfless things you can do for yourself, or for any other. You’re your best when you’re cared for, loved, appreciated and valued. Who better to do this for you than you yourself? Looking externally to others or to circumstances to an extreme extent is inessential. Once you seek, find and express internally with yourself, the external will take care of itself, flowing automatically, naturally…
•Your Primary Connection is With Yourself & The Divine:
Caring for yourself is an intimate dance of connecting with yourself. How you choose to connect with yourself or care for yourself is completely up to you. Do whatever makes you feel good. Do it often and in generous doses.
Connecting with yourself at a spirit / soul level may be your foundation for feeling at your best. Caring for yourself in this case may involve meditation, prayer or communication / communion with the Divine in whatever form this may take for you. Listen to guidance from within and talk to yourself with loving kindness. Grow into yourself with appreciation and gratitude for all that you are and for all that is.
At a different – yet interconnected – level, caring for your physical self plays a significant role in self-care. Nourishing your body with movement / exercise, wholesome delectable foods and water, love, touch, sunshine, relaxation and breathing with greater awareness may be a few of the ways you choose to value your physical self. Trusting your body and listening to it will also enhance your vitality. Be assured that your immaculate body is working for your ultimate health and wellbeing always – be kind and loving toward it. Rest sufficiently.
Exploring and discovering new, varied things – about yourself and about the world – may call out to your mind, body, spirit and heart. Engage in activities that soothe your soul, excite your being, add joy and living to your life and broaden your perspectives! Sing or whistle a tune arising spontaneously from your depths..
Perfection in caring for yourself is all about what’s perfect for you at a specific time and in a specific context. Have fun with it and listen always to your inner-guidance which arises from Source. Dance to your own rhythm.
•Your Secondary Connection is With All Others:
All of Life is connected. You’re always at One with all.
Being in a state of peace, love and connection with yourself will bring to you the gift of all other connections in your life flowing with enhanced ease, freedom, harmony and grace.
You will marvel at fresh connections of synchronicity that present you with increasing opportunities of choice and decision. You will witness your path blossoming into one of undeniable fusion with self, with Source, with all.
Balance, connect and align within; you will assuredly balance, connect and align with All.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 05/05/2018
You Play A Significant Role In “What Will Be, Will Be”
Is your life completely ruled and determined by fate and destiny, you think? Your own choices, decisions, desires – where do they fit into the picture of your life if everything were indeed already pre-ordained? Would the Divine have a reason for creating you, the uniquely wondrous being which you are, if you had no role whatsoever to play in your own life?
Do you believe that Source would intend for His Will to be the sole force in your life, with no consideration for your feelings, thoughts, plans and dreams?
Surely as the Divine’s pristinely precious creation, the Creator wholly joyfully, lovingly and benevolently intended for you to embrace, play with and (responsibly) have fun with the magnificent co-creating power of free-will and choice which you have been Graced with?
• The Creator’s Role:
The Divine’s role is Creation – supremely responsible for orchestrating and overseeing All in the Grand Scheme.
The Grand Scheme is unlimited and eternal. It includes all planes and levels of being, including beyond the earthly plane of life and existence. Divine Source is all-seeing, all-hearing, all-knowing – in your life, in all lives, and in all life-forms.
As Creator, HE makes all abundantly available to you; presents you with choices and opportunities; showers you with genuine infinite love, forgiveness, kindness, protection, guidance and caring; and HE supports you explicitly.
The Divine is flexible and dynamic – following, and generously responding to, your every pure will and desire unconditionally.
• Your Role: Co-creator:
Your role is active co-creation in your life.
Your ability to influence your life, and that of the world, is marvelously potent. You therefore play an immensely significant role in “what will be, will be”.
By the power of your thoughts, words, actions, behaviors, patterns, choices and decisions, you guide and direct how the Universe responds to you. This in turn drives the experiences, circumstances and situations which come into your life, and which you enter into.
So, how do you make the best of, and maximize, your co-creative power in your life and in the universe? Simple: by being fully true to yourself, and by living up to your best and highest self in conscious awareness.
You do this by living in trust and faith, and from a place of balance and alignment with who you are; by making decisions in consultation with Source and your higher-self and by simply living joyfully, happily, in gratitude and in freedom, seeking the best and the most wholesome in every situation.
You may find prayer, meditation, cultivating a state of lightness and fun, being in nature or simply retreating within yourself in connection with the Divine within to be invaluable.
You do it also by loving, by caring, by forgiving and by showering kindness lavishly – upon yourself and upon all others.
And so shall you see, hear, experience and feel the peace, magic and awe of your role in “what will be, will be”.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 28/04/2018
Your Spirit Is Invincible
You’re going to be okay. Now. Tomorrow. Five days from now. Weeks, months, years from now. You verily are okay. Always. Forever. Regardless of what may be / will be going on in your life.
You always have been okay. In the past, when you thought you weren’t okay…. You came through, didn’t you? The beautiful you has been gently, lovingly and preciously held and Guided by a Divine force in every moment.
Your body, your mind, your emotions – they’re all fundamental and significantly glorious parts of you. It’s what makes you so wholly wonderfully, beautifully, magnificently human.
Yet, who / what do you think the ‘you’ actually is? For instance, when you say, “My body”, or “My mind”, or “I feel so-and-so”? Who is the ‘my’, who is the ‘I’?
When you feel less-than-perfect in your body, in your thoughts, in your feelings – what / which part of you / who is actually perceiving all of this information?
It’s the perfect you, the intangible you, the ‘you’ that is spirit in essence, the you that knows that All Is Well and always will be well, the you that’s communicating to you that by feeling illness, negativity or ‘less-than-perfection’, you’re merely out of alignment / balance with the natural health, joy, vibrancy and peace that you in essence are; the you that can never be destroyed regardless of external circumstances or bodily / mental / emotional imbalance or illness.
You’re in spirit an invincible you. A you that allows every cell in your body to function brilliantly superbly, without you having to do a thing. The you that’s always reaching to greater heights. The you who desires for better, brighter, happier simply because at your core you know that you deserve the highest and the best, and that all truly is available to you.
You’re in spirit all-peaceful, all-knowing, all-loved, all-loving, invincible – beyond hurt, pain, confusion, chaos, illness or physical death.
The you in spirit is verily an integral, unconquerable, eternal part of the Great Spirit of the Universe.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 21/04/2018
It Is What It Is… Or, Is It?
So yeah, things are what they are. That much is true. Not much can be done to change anything. … Is this also true? Naah… Things may indeed be as they are in the current moment, yet you always have a choice to influence the direction and outcome from its current point, forward – don’t you think?
•It Is What It Is:
What it is now is merely a culmination of past thoughts, words, actions, behaviors… All which is currently behind you has led up to this moment in time in your life’s reality. Your situation and experience in this moment of time is precisely what it is – yet, it’s still but a moment in time; and but a moment in the entirety of your life.
Your future lies ahead of you, eagerly anticipating you and your joy. What you choose to do with your now moment, sets the scene for that which unfolds before you.
•Choosing to Influence the Highest Direction and Outcome:
At any given time, and within any situation or experience of it being what it is, you hold a magnificent power of choice.
Are you going to plainly accept a less-than-great situation for what it appears to be?
Or shall you influence it for the highest good of yourself and for the highest good of all? “How?”, you ask? By simply choosing to courageously rise from, for instance, a state of despondency, despair and complacency to a happier state of faith, trust, gratitude, peace and contentment.
You see, by the simple action of choosing different thoughts and feelings about any situation, you play a mighty role in shaping the direction it unfolds in and the outcomes you get to play with.
There’s always magic hidden within anything that seems to be plainly ‘it is what it is’. Discover the magic! Have fun with the magic! Create your world to be a world of yes, it is what it is, yet there’s also so very much more – love, wonder, discovery, joy, growth, abundance, peace!
HappyWise: Sharmilla 14/04/2018
When You’re Put Down, Rise Up and Beyond!
Sometimes, not everyone in life supports you. Sometimes the one(s) you think ‘should’ understand you the most may be the very one(s) who seemingly wage battle against you. It’s not always easy to feel good about yourself when the one(s) you care for the most and hold dearest to your heart, put you down. Yet, it’s up to you whether you allow your spirit to be crushed – wallowing in sadness, self-pity and low esteem; or whether you gloriously rise up – meeting your true God-graced self in joyous acceptance and living your life authentic to your vision, calling and expression!
• Choosing to Stay Down:
Consider for a moment that you have no genuine idea of the true reason(s) which contributed to another suppressing you / mocking you / patronizing you. It could have very little to do with you.
Perhaps you being true to yourself triggered a state of unease / discomfort in the other person based on something completely unrelated to you. Or perhaps it brought up feelings of fear or insecurity in the other.
Whatever the reason, know that it’s always your choice whether you choose to stay where another ‘puts you’; or whether you choose to rise up in making a decision on your own path of forward and upward momentum. How about choosing to believe in yourself and supporting yourself in living your best, highest and happiest life?
• Choosing to Rise Up and Beyond!
Think about it for a moment – do you truly believe that the person who put you down was in their best, most aligned state when they minimized you? Or could they perhaps have been dealing with their own feelings – stress, insecurity, guilt, fear…?
Would a person in true peace, alignment and contentment with themselves derogate another? Especially if the person was a loved-one simply living their life in respect and consideration for all? … Most probably not.
Is it not a freeing thought to believe that each person is doing the best that (s)he is able to with the resources they have available, at any specific time, and in any particular situation?
So, how about simply letting go of the criticisms?
Rise up and BE! You have a God-Ordained purpose. The sooner you realize that remaining in a conflicted space due to the actions of another toward you is not worth it, the quicker you can get on with living and expressing your true Divine purpose.
Your Divine purpose beckons you in every moment to rising over, above and beyond any defeat; toward victory, peace, happiness, expression and love.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 07/04/2018
All is in Order. Perfect Order. Flowing with the current in trust, faith and relaxation is possibly one of the kindest, most loving things you can do for yourself. This means flowing always toward your greatest wellbeing and joy, regardless of the circumstances around you / the issues you may be facing. It means finding the best in every situation and flowing with the stream of those thoughts, ideas, feelings and actions that carry you toward the light and the blessings.
• All is in Perfect Order:
Think about it for a moment… How much that happens is out of your control – in your own life, in society, in the world? Lots, right? And yet how much of your life has worked out quite amazingly well for you, notwithstanding all that’s happened and may be happening, would you say?
So long as you continue to choose your thoughts for your highest wellbeing and guide yourself constantly toward reaching for feelings of happiness and peace, all will always be well.
• Finding the Best in Every Situation:
Life is change. One of the constants is your inherent value as a human being.
Whatever may be going on, the potential for its opposite is also there. Duality is a natural part of life.
In every situation which you find challenging, there’s always a solution. It will come to you easiest when you bring into your awareness the possibility of a solution existing. Then simply relax in trust and faith, allowing yourself to be open to receiving.
Life is movement. Going with the flow of the movement is natural, easier and uses immensely less energy than pushing against the flow.
Know that you’re Guided always by Source / God / the Universe. Trust in the flow. Glide along your path in lightness and happiness of being…
Sharmilla 31/03/2018
“Energy cannot be created or destroyed”: remember this ‘First Law of Thermodynamics’ (Albert Einstein)? It’s truly amazingly comforting, is it not? It goes on to state, “Energy can only be transferred or changed from one form to another”. Bottom-line is that energy is always available. It comes down to what you choose to do with it. The power to empower yourself by your choices and decisions is in your hands!
• Energy Cannot Be Created or Destroyed:
Think about the sun, for example. It’s always shining gloriously bright. Even at midnight; and yes, even on the cloudiest, foggiest wintry day. It’s just that due to the earth’s rotating motion, we seemingly experience the sun as ‘setting’, ‘rising’, or as having disappeared. The sun is constantly and everlastingly beaming radiantly. So while it appears ‘dark’ at one location, it’s fantastically bright at another location.
Energy is energy. Universal Source energy is always there; abundantly, freely and equally available to all. There’s always more magnificence to what we as humans are able to perceive, experience or see with our eyes at any specific point in time. This is a gift indeed, as light is perpetual and eternal; while ‘darkness’ is merely the absence of light which still exists.
• Your Power to Transform:
If you happen to think of yourself, or any situation in your life, considering the fact that everything is just energy and energy is available bountifully… Isn’t it wonderful to know that within you is an immense natural force and potential to instantaneously transform any state of being from one to another?
You can transform boredom instantly, for example, into motivation and excitement. All you would have to do is change your thoughts. As soon as you think of something new and different to do, your energy of boredom and stagnation triggers to inspiration and action.
Or you can similarly catalyze a state of worry to a state of calm trust and contentment wherein you know that all is okay and in order, simply by choosing your thoughts differently. By the very simple action of altering your thoughts to serve the best in yourself and that which you desire, you literally and physically change the chemical composition of every cell of your being, thereby transforming your energy.
By transforming your energy, you re-direct your life-path.
In each moment, use your God-graced gift to wield your thoughts for your ultimate purpose and outcome.
Sharmilla 24/03/2018
Opinions and judgments of others’ will always be there. Be they communicated to you directly or indirectly, by a look or an expression, or even by way of you being the subject of some type of formal ‘assessment’, know that these are the perceptions of another human being. Who, after-all, has the authority to decide whether something is ‘acceptable’ / ‘valuable’ / ‘favorable’ / ‘good’ / ‘nice’, ‘of worth’ or not? Not only is this ever-changing and subjective, but it’s also time and context-dependent.
• Opinions & Judgements of Others:
Every individual sees the same thing differently. Every individual feels differently about a specific thing. Every individual takes a different message from a common message communicated.
The interpretation and experience of each person varies. People filter and interpret information based upon their own experiences, beliefs, values, wants, desires and needs.
Therefore, it only makes sense that people will have different opinions of you / a thing. A person’s judgement of something / you is not solely about you, it’s also about the person doing the judging and what’s going on in his / her world.
So, smile and be happy regardless of what another thinks of you / how another views you / the manner in which a person chooses to interpret your communications or actions.
Know in your awareness that each person’s reality is different! And therefore it’s okay for a person to feel toward you the way they do / to think of you the way they do / to take from your message / action precisely what they do.
• Security in Yourself:
Nobody knows you as profoundly as you yourself do. (And if you don’t know yourself as well as you should, then you open yourself up to others’ telling you who you are – which is possibly who they would like you to be).
Your life is unique, based upon your own experiences, choices, values, beliefs, desires and dreams.
Once you know exactly who you are, you’re able to smile and settle into knowing that you’re the ultimate judge in your life, regardless of any other opinion / judgement. There is great power there.
The key is being true to your authentic self. And in being true to your authentic self, you value yourself for all that you are; you love yourself for all that you are; you take joy and pleasure in being, sharing and expressing all that you magnificently are!
It’s a great time to start upgrading your opinion of yourself and passing wholesome, loving, kind, forgiving judgments of yourself, is it not?
Sharmilla 17/03/2018
You Were Born to Thrive
Life is meant to be happy. Feeling a sense of peace, love, wholeness and contentment with yourself and life is natural. Excitement, wonder, carefreeness and enjoyment are vital states of your being. It only looks wonderful, makes sense and feels amazing for you to thrive, and not merely survive, does it not?
Life is Meant to Be Happy:
• Do you believe that it was the Creator’s intention for you to be happy?
…For sure!
• When you feel worry / anxiety / hurt / pain / doubt / insecurity / boredom, can you identify a state that you were in before?
…Was your mood perhaps one of peace / contentment / joy / acceptance / love / excitement?
• What initiated a change in your state?
…Your thoughts, perhaps?
• How do you feel when you allow all less-than-pleasant thoughts to drift away, even in trying situations?
…Don’t you feel free, happy and in control of your life?
• What stops you from choosing this in every possible moment?
…Remember, every situation is multi-dimensional having multiple perspectives; take what is best for you from any situation and move forward with your empowered choice!
It’s Only Natural for You To Thrive:
• The world is abundant with all things you need, want and desire.
• Source / God intended for you to thrive in fulfillment.
• All is well.
• Being happy, having fun and maintaining a state of calm lightness will ensure you’re moving ever deeper into alignment with your purpose(s) and choices.
Sharmilla 10/03/2017
Play to Achieve Your Dreams:
Whatever you do, ensure that you have fun on your way to reaching your dreams and fulfilling your desires. Balance your seriousness and focused determination with hearty playfulness and relaxation. You’ll easily and effortlessly be well on your way to attaining, maintaining and thriving in the life of your dreams.
The BusYness of Seriousness:
Think about it… Do your best ideas arise during times of seriousness? Or, do they breeze-in naturally floating-by on waves of moments of lightness and freedom?
Planning, diligence and discipline are significant. Temper this with wholesome breaks for rejuvenation and you will be well on your way to success.
The Joy of Fun:
A sure route to optimal performance includes playing, relaxing and resting sufficiently.
Your mind and your body will thrive when you allow yourself comforting and alternatively stimulating down-time also.
Have fun!
The Wisdom of Balance:
Embrace relaxed, enjoyable focus.
See, hear and feel yourself happily and ‘funtastically’ having achieved your dreams!
Sharmilla 03/03/2018
A magnificently amazing potent co-creator with Divine Source is who you are. By your very thoughts, words, intentions, focus and behaviors, you set the scene for the outcomes in your life. Each of these, and each and all of your longings and desires carry with them energy. This energy determines the vibrations you emit, which in turn determines what you attract into your life. The more clear and focused you are, and the more congruent your thoughts, words and behaviors, the greater the influence and impact on your results.
Focus:
Your focus determines where your energy flows. Where your energy flows is a consequence of what you decide to give your attention to and place your awareness on.
As you increasingly choose to rid yourself of distractions, interruptions, doubts and insecurities, so you enhance the power of the actualization of your desires by your trust, faith and targeted attention.
Congruency:
Your targeted attention coupled with genuine feelings of ease and belief in your outcome holds the potential of bringing into you the force of untainted alignment.
Alignment, both within yourself and with Source / God / the Universe, is magic in your hands.
Sharmilla 24/02/2018
You hold a magnificent power within you to influence your world and the world itself. All that’s required is for you to recognize, grasp and carve this capability to suit your intentions and purpose. You will find that the outcomes yielding you maximum happiness, peace and fulfilment are achievable, regardless of what may be going on around you. Listen to your own voice; deliberately guide and steer your results by your own decisions, priorities and focus.
• Voices of Others’ and External Happenings:
Getting caught-up in the chatter and the voices of others’ may be all too easy. This could be a great thing when such voices are in harmony with your own internal voice of wisdom.
Be aware of, and continually actively assess, whether the voices you allow yourself to tune in to are in alignment with your highest good and the outcome(s) you wish to achieve.
Does going with the flow of gloominess, especially during periods of transition or change, for instance, serve your wellbeing in any way? The opinions, judgements and criticisms of others’ will always be there.
You have within you the facility of discernment and reasoning. Choose to embrace, value and exercise it for obtaining the most wholesome harvests in your life!
• Your Voice:
Yes, your internal voice may sometimes seem quieter than the external loud vocalizations of those around you. Yet your internal voice of wisdom is perhaps one of your greatest and most powerful gifts and connections to Source.
It knows you. It’s been with you throughout your life and through all of your life-experiences. It’s gotten you through some pretty trying circumstances and situations.
Trust your internal voice of wisdom and encouragement. Make it one of the primary guiding authorities in your life.
That gentle voice which comes to you in your quietest calmest moments is your thoughts of trust, faith and sunshine. It is the foundational key by which you may deliberately guide and steer your results.
Take your decisions, and establish your priorities and focus from it. The potential for change as you would like it is within you at each and every moment.
Effortlessly and freely choose, moment by moment, to transform any situation or experience for reaping your happiest life.
Sharmilla 17/02/2018
Know, trust and rest assured in the knowledge that no matter what may be going on in your life at this time, all is well. All is in Divine Order. You’re at this space and place in your life in this very moment not by coincidence, accident or mistake, but for a reason. Feel exactly as you need to feel, do exactly what you need to do, change whatever you desire to change. If needs be, simply take a moment to relax, to breathe in life and to absorb the lull of the unknown, of the seeming ‘imperfections’ and of non-action, while you re-calibrate to the readiness and to the excitement of swinging back into your groove again.
• All Answers Are Within You:
Confusion, uncertainty and doubt are a part of life; they seem to come when you least expect them. You may not be able to banish them completely, yet it’s most certainly within your power and choice to minimize them and any effects they may have upon you.
In your darkest, most trying times, do you more often than not look to another human being for answers? Either for validation of your own thoughts and feelings, or for new direction and input?
Looking to another for guidance and for different varied perspectives may be invaluable when integrated into your decision-making process. Your decisions, however, are ultimately yours. You have within yourself all of the resources and all of God’s Guiding Light that you need in order to make decisions of wisdom.
Listen to yourself, even more than you listen to any other. Trust yourself, even more than you trust any other. Maintain flexibility – with yourself, with situations. Re-visit and / revise anything you may need to. All of life is a learning-curve of growth and evolution.
Smile, be easy on yourself, be your greatest comforter and supporter in life. All is perfect even in imperfection.
• All is Perfection:
Freedom, joy, love, acceptance and light abounds in perfect imperfection! You will find that there’s nothing quite as liberating and as ‘human’ as embracing the messiness in life, in yourself and in others. It’s a space that magnificence springs forth from.
Flow with it, love it, maintain it as is, or change / re-configure it – it’s your opportunity to do with it whatever you wish.
Just as your values and beliefs may not be stagnant throughout life or in all contexts, so too that which seems ‘imperfect’ today may very well lead to and result in the most beautiful amazing perfection you discover in your tomorrow…
And it is then that you’ll find that all indeed is well, just as is.
Sharmilla 10/02/2018
Freedom and Joy is Yours
At your core, you’re free. The essence of who you are is a spirit of joy and freedom. So, freedom is already a part of you, just like joy is. There’s no need to strive for it, search for it, or work toward it. All you have to do is recognize its presence, allow it to be as significant a part of your life as you desire, and enjoy it.
• Freedom:
What are you truly? Are you your career, or your relationship-status? Perhaps a mum, a dad, a sibling, a manager, an employee, a sports(wo)man, a politician, a student, a leader, a man, a woman? Yes, you may be one or more of these; however, minus the labels you’re simply a human being.
In your pure human state, before the labels of what you do, how you’re defined, or what you’ve accumulated through your life, you’re simply a human being. A spirit with a body, doing your best to thrive in a human-conditioned experience.
And in your core immaculate human state, you’re a light free being of love and bliss. You may sometimes tend to think that just as you’ve had to acquire and accrue all in your life, that you also have to endeavor toward freedom or joy.
Yet the absolute glorious beauty is that freedom and joy are both already yours. It’s what was there at the very beginning; it’s what will always remain once all the layers of identity have been peeled away.
Your amazing power lies in being aware of, recognizing and embracing the constant eternal availability of this flexibility and liberty in your life. Bring it into your awareness, truly feel it, and live it in any situation and experience your desire. It’s simply your choice.
• Joy:
Freedom of choice is yours. It is you who ultimately determines what you want to make of a situation. You choose how to respond and proceed from any given point.
Your feelings are actually within your control. They arise with your thoughts. Steer and guide your thoughts in a favorable direction in any situation, and you simultaneously successfully shift your emotions.
Your natural state is joy, so you don’t have to chase after it. It’s already with you, within you.
Let go of the worry, the doubt, the anxiety – you will find that all that remains is peace, calm, love and happiness. Flow with its beauty, dance with its energy, laugh with its frivolity – for as long as you fancy.
Sharmilla 03/02/2018
Maneuver Your Attention to Maximize Your Intention
Identify that which you desire / which you hope to achieve. Align your thoughts, feelings and attention to having that / those thing(s). Allow all things that do not match the state you desire to drift past your awareness. Focus on the joy and fulfilment of accomplishing the outcomes you desire. You, being naturally one with the Universal Creator, are the primary creator in your life.
Your intention is your purpose, your seed, your starting-point, the core of your desire.
Craft your intention. Personalize it. Be sure that it’s what you really want and that it’s what will serve your best overall interests.
Most significantly, allow and encourage yourself to feel the fulfilment, the happiness, the joy, the exhilaration, the peace and the comfort of having your intention / purpose achieved, even while it’s still germinating.
Nourish your intention and purpose with all of the care and love it needs to flourish, blossom, bloom and thrive.
A plant requires adequate water, sunlight and fertile soil to grow healthily and beautifully. Feed your awareness, your mind, your body and your emotions only with those things that progress your outcome.
Ignore / eliminate those things (thoughts, feelings, doubts, judgements, perceptions) that don’t positively contribute toward the achievement of your outcome. Snip away distractions that may move you out of alignment with your purpose.
Act with your energy and your attention directed and focused on trust, faith and belief in the fulfilment of your desire and the achievement of your purpose.
Having aligned your thoughts, feelings, awareness, focus and actions with your desired purpose and intent, relax into welcoming wondrous creations into your life. You’re a powerful creator in your life.
Sharmilla 27/01/2018
Value Your Infinite Worth
You determine your worth: only and solely you. Your worth, which is vast, boundless and immeasurable, lies not in the hands or the eyes of what any other perceives you to be or values you as. Most significantly, your worth and your value is inherent; independent of anything you’ve done, anything you do, or anything anyone has done to you at any stage of your life.
See yourself for all of the immense goodness that you are. Engage in loving, kind and encouraging thoughts and conversations with yourself.
Give yourself the benefit of the doubt more often, trusting yourself. Absorb the comforting, supportive energy in the simple action of holding your own hand.
Even though you may be blessed in having abundant love, support, caring and understanding in your life; you’re still ultimately the only human who knows yourself so completely, so fully, so truly.
Acknowledge yourself. Trust yourself. Forgive yourself. Love yourself. Be true in every moment to the best in yourself.
Shine in happiness 😌
How often do you value the opinions of another more than your own? How often are your feelings, thoughts and actions swayed by what another thinks (of you) / feels (toward you) / says (about you); or by how another treats you?
Regardless of what another may think of you / do to you, know that none other but yourself determines your worth.
Each person has his / her own story. Each person is coming forth into your life with his / her own pre-conditionings, wants, needs, desires, experiences, beliefs and insecurities perhaps.
Pegging your value on what any other deems you to be worth means that your sense-of-self will never be constant but will fluctuate as per the ever-evolving dictations, judgements and estimations of others.
You hold the power of determining and interpreting the role that you’d like somebody to play in your life-story (if any).
Continue to grow in valuing yourself first, as much as you’d value any other human being.
Do you perhaps gain your sense-of-worth and value based upon what you do to earn a living? Or perhaps based upon who loves you and / or who is dependent on you for love and care?
If so, what happens if these things no longer hold true in your life? For instance, if you no longer have a job to define yourself by? Or if your primary significant relationships are no more for some reason?
Does your worth decline? Should it decline?
God has Created you in perfection, dear one (regardless of how imperfect you may be in your human-conditioned experience). If you must look to another, aside from yourself, either for approval, or to determine your value and worth, look to Him, who is nonetheless integrated with you.
You will find that you’re stronger, braver, more beautiful and more magnificent than you’ve ever allowed yourself to imagine or experience.
Sharmilla 20/01/2018
Embracing Freedom
Aaaah, to be happy and free… The lightness and joy of just ‘being’ – a state available to you in every moment. Regardless of where you are, who you’re with, who and what your commitments and responsibilities are toward, how you may be perceived or judged by another, where you’ve come from or what you’ve done, it is you who is ultimately in control of your each and every moment. By the choices of your thoughts, your points of focus and your responses to situations, circumstances and experiences beyond your control, you hold within yourself the power of your freedom.
Your Thoughts:
Your thoughts… oh, the immensity and the elation of the creative power which lies therein! Yes, by your very thoughts you mold your world. Focus on uplifting, happy thoughts in any circumstance, and you naturally set the scene for the unfoldment of your wellbeing. If things could go wrong, they could also go right!
Allow your thoughts to flow in the direction of your inspiration, and experience yourself gravitate toward exhilaration and fulfilment. Similarly, allow any less-than-satisfying thoughts to drift over, across and past your mind… freely, effortlessly…
Your choices now and in every moment in where you choose to take your mind, lays the foundation for determining the direction of your future and the path you walk forward. The selection of freedom over imprisonment is yours to embrace; choose wisely.
Your Points of Focus:
Blessings abound. You have total and complete freedom of choice in terms of where you place your attention and what you choose to focus upon.
Remember, what you dedicate your energy toward is what and where your life will move toward. Focusing upon the blessings, opportunities, joys and wholesomeness in any situation will ensure that you’re consistently moving along your highest life-path.
Make the best of the rest, permitting yourself a growth of freedom and a freedom of growth.
Your Responses to Situations, Circumstances and Experiences:
Be a victor over the situations, circumstances and experiences you find yourself within. Take the time you need (even, and perhaps especially, when you feel driven to act immediately).
Respond with action after consideration where possible, having guided your thoughts and points of focus intentionally and in awareness for your greatest good.
Trust that there is perfection to be found in even the most challenging of times. All is in Order. Float free in your knowingness and trust in the Greater Plan of Life.
Sharmilla 12/01/2018
‘Now’ Is Your Best Time
How often do you find yourself putting-off something that you’d love to do / procrastinating, simply ‘cos a voice in your head whispers to you that all is not yet ideal and that you should wait? Clear priorities and responsible decision-making are a great way to go indeed; so too, there’s wisdom in solidly assessing any situation. Yet, all being situation and context-dependent of course, have you ever considered that ‘now’ may actually be your best time?!
There’s Perfection in Your Now
This moment is your most valuable time. The past is done, the future is variable, now is the time most in your power. Accept your now, maximizing it for your wellbeing and happiness – even if this means contentedly accepting things which are beyond your control. Remember, the sh*t is not going to last for forever. By finding your peace in the now, you set the scene for the unfoldment of your future moments…and so it goes.
There’s fragments of perfection in your now, regardless of what may be going on. Embrace feeling good in the moment, no matter how ‘small’ or large a blessing you may have been granted. Absorbing and appreciating the feeling of an invigorating shower, or the fresh scent of rains upon the earth, or the happy sound of crickets chirping, or the free-flow of energy after a good workout – all magnificent ways of sensing, embracing perfection in your present.
Do what you want to, get active in your now; what will come, will come – let the future be. Be not afraid of what could go wrong; imagine, think and focus upon all the wonderful things that could go right. Wait not on the ‘perfect moment’; make it, create it, for yourself – now and in each moment that you so choose! Gifts and blessings abound for your taking.
Right Now, You’re the Youngest You’ll Ever Again Be
Do you sometimes think, “I’m too old for that!”? Whether it relates to something you’d like to do / experience, or perhaps an item of clothing you know in your heart (and skin) you’d feel fabulous in, or possibly even a long-term relationship that you’d like to change in some way?
Has the ‘age factor’ ever stopped you from doing what you might’ve otherwise done? If so, ponder on this: in this very moment, you’re the youngest you’ll ever again be!
Yes, in this moment, you’re the youngest you’ll ever again be!
And so it goes from this moment to your next, and your next…
So really – do you still think it’s a good idea to wait? Or to not now joyously and bravely do what your spirit sings to you to do?
Sharmilla 05/01/2018
Inhale Magnificent Life
Your time, dear one, is now,
You’re the Creator of what you let go of and what you allow;
Inhale Magnificent Life,
Bid sweet farewell to the strife.
You’re divinely connected to Source,
On immaculate course with the Universe;
Feel the Love: the love that is yours, the love that is you,
Be the love: a love that you crave, a love so true.
Dance, smile, laugh, play, fly free,
Be all and even more of who you long to be;
You’re amazing, blessed, perfect,
Of your own life, you’re the chief architect.
You’re peace at your core,
Now even more-so than before;
Become aware of the miracles,
Embrace with abandon the abundant gifts in your life physical,
Intellectual, emotional, spiritual.
Sharmilla (29/12/2017)
Stop Waiting, Start Living!
Ever consider how much time you spend ‘waiting’ on something or someone? Yet surely what’s going to happen will happen? So why procrastinate with your life in anticipation, doubt, worry, anxiety, uncertainty? Make a wise simple choice: embrace each moment of your life with purpose and focus, living every moment fully and joyfully, doing what brings you happiness! And while you’re ‘living’, those awaited ‘happenings’ will spontaneously transpire.
Embrace Each Moment of Your Life with Purpose:
A moment is but an instant in your life, true. Yet each and every moment adds up. Does waiting and obsessing on an outcome make the awaited happen sooner? Nope. In fact, it possibly makes the time appear more drawn-out and burdensome, prolonging your agony.
Dedicating yourself to happy, fulfilling and purposeful activities, however, will ensure calmness of your being and a natural flow with the Universe. Once you’ve achieved clarity of your outcome, actioned your intentions and done what’s needed to be done, let it go. The rest will follow without any action and stressing on your part.
Continue living your life fully, on purpose and with purpose. There is much loving, experiencing, playing and working to be done in the moment, in now. It requires your presence, your participation, your energy!
You will find that creating and living purposefully is a part of the bigger-picture of joyously and inevitably manifesting that which you may be waiting on.
Embrace Each Moment of Your Life with Focus:
Focus not on what you don’t yet have (the ‘awaited’); focus upon what you do have. Your life is already brimming with blessings and love (it is!). Recognize the blessings for that which they are; savor the fruit in gratitude and appreciation.
You will find that while you’re living from a space of fulfilment and joy in embracing your current abundance, more will flow – naturally, freely, bountifully.
Turn your attention happily and effortlessly toward trust, faith, knowingness. Your attitude of being cheerfully focused on each present moment will stimulate an energy of positivity around and within you.
Consciously decide to live each moment of your life with purpose and focus; be assured that goodness, happiness and fulfilment will ripple and flow. The world is full of goodness and bliss, just ‘waiting’ on your taking 😌
Sharmilla 21/12/2017
Gifts in Rejection
The feelings arising from being refused, unaccepted, dismissed or even simply unacknowledged usually make us feel imperfect, unworthy and small. It may even trigger feelings of abandonment. Yet, there are many a gift and blessing to be found in rejection, a few of which include: freedom; self-acceptance; and trusting the flow of life.
Freedom:
In any relationship situation, whether personal or professional, your acceptance or not is usually dependent upon the judgements and perceptions of another human being toward you. I say ‘human being’ ‘cos we often tend to place the value of the person doing the rejecting at a higher level than we value ourselves. Yet yes, he / she too is human.
Equally so, every person / organization has preferences and needs. These are most probably based on their own past experiences, as well as on their current desires and needs. Should you not fit into their plans, accept it with contentment for what it is; in the knowledge and trust that both you and the other party will find a match.
After all, you want to be wanted, needed, valued and loved for all that ‘you’ are, right? If you’re not that fit for somebody, allow them to move on to their fit. Your own fit definitely exists and is more wonderful than you currently imagine. He / she / they will love, accept, value and adore you (mostly) for all that you are, as you are – and you will know it and feel it.
In the interim, embrace the glorious feelings of lightness and abandonment which can blossom and bloom from rejection. A definite positive is that you now know where you stand. Bid farewell to simmering in uncertainty or to waiting on the approval of another.
Focus. On yourself. Create your own path. You may choose to change something learned from your experience, or you may simply move forward with accepting yourself wholly and fully for all of the Spirit-created wonder which you are. The choice and decision is completely yours – to move forward in freedom from this point onward.
Self-Acceptance:
Your rejection by someone is not a reflection of your value or your worth. Neither is it a reflection of your lovability.
Nothing external (mistakes made, shortcomings, foibles) changes the being that you are. Everyone is on a learning path. It’s a continual process of growth and evolution. And regardless of how ‘perfect’ another may seem to be, know that he / she is no more ‘perfect’ than you yourself are. Just as you don’t know their full story, so too, they don’t know your full story.
You’re the writer of your own story. Take the lead, be the lead and script your story your way. Generously include all of the awesomeness and magnificence which is already you!
You’re lovable. You’re so very valuable. Perfectly as you are. Yes, in all of your imperfections and humanness. It’s up to ‘you’ to accept you: in your heart, in your mind, at your core.
Embrace yourself; in joy, in confidence, in love. Shine.
Trusting the Flow:
When rejected, trust that it’s okay. And that it’s most possibly even a part of the Greater Plan for your life, which you cannot clearly see at this moment in time.
Life is about change, this too shall pass.
Hold on to the best in yourself; let all else go.
Flow with the current of the river, allow it to guide and carry you; battle not against it. Surely, in its Greater Natural Wisdom, it will carry you to a space and to a place which is optimally peaceful, happy and fulfilling for you.
When you glance back upon your life later down the line, trust that perfection is what you will see and feel 😌
Sharmilla 16/12/2017
What is happiness? Where does it come from? How do you get more of it, more of the time? It’s mostly a choice of an attitude and a perspective, while there are several things which you can do on a practical level to boost your happiness. By these 6 simple indulgent actions, you’ll be on your way: 1) Simplify; 2) Do an activity you enjoy; 3) Love your Body; 4) Stimulate your Mind; 5) Merge with Purpose; 6) Celebrate!
Simplify your life by eliminating things and routines which no longer contribute toward your overall wellbeing. Sometimes we hold on to things, behaviors and familiar ways of being and doing simply ‘cos it’s what we know and it’s the way “it’s always been done”, even if it may not optimally serve our current purposes and lifestyle.
The more you de-clutter, the more energy and free-flow you will naturally experience in your life.
Playing is wonderful for your heart, mind, body and spirit.
What this entails to you, how you do it, where or with whom is of no consequence – just make sure that you do it; and that you do it often!
Time is limited, true; you have serious responsibilities, also true. So if you must, schedule time(s) to engage in activities which you enjoy. The power of its renewal-factor upon your energy-levels and enthusiasm will most probably also override the procrastination-factor to engage in those activities you don’t enjoy as much.
Your natural state of life is flow and happiness. Therefore, why not spend as much, or (logically) more, time on activities that truly make your heart sing?
Your body registers and responds superbly to your thoughts, emotions, the foods you nourish it with, the air-temperature and atmospheric pressure, amongst an array of other things.
The sights of your dearest ones or a glorious sunrise, the scent of raindrops freshly spattered upon the earth, the playful chirping of the birds in the trees, the tantalizing dance of flavors upon your tongue, the glorious feel of warm sunshine on your skin, the explosiveness of tender raw orgasm…
Intuitive healing of wounds and of disease, the creation of inflammation to protect your body from further injury, the production of pain to alert you of something not-so-right, the regeneration of cells…
These are but some of the innumerable gifts of your body to you. It works miraculously all on its own, without reminders from anyone and in perfect harmony and unison with what needs to be done moment to moment. It re-balances, heals and restores.
Keep your body happy by luxuriating it in a few simple things: care, nourishment, exercise, ample rest and relaxation. Pay heed to it too when it whispers to you (preferably so that it doesn’t have to reach a stage of having to scream at you to bring your attention to what’s going on).
Your body’s your greatest gift and anchor in this lifetime; guiding you always toward wholesome wellbeing and happiness. Love your body.
A supple and agile mind is the core of your happiness and wellbeing. Your experiences may sometimes be beyond your control; yet the perspectives you decide to choose about your experiences determine your path forward.
An engaged mind with a curiosity about the wonders of life will ensure that you’re always at your peak, regardless of what may come your way.
Remember also to sufficiently rest your mind though.
There’s great joy to be found in engaging purposefully. Your sense of fulfilment will be proportionate to the meaning you attribute to your undertakings.
Happiness gained from purpose fulfilled is of a different quality to happiness gained from activities engaged in solely to quell boredom, to pass time, or to fulfil routine without exactly remembering ‘why’.
Things to be thankful for and appreciative of are many. Embrace them; celebrate them!
They don’t have to be mind-blowing super-successes, or even traditional occasions such as birthdays, anniversaries or the New Year. Neither do ‘celebrations’ have to be elaborate undertakings.
Honor the first rains of the season with a mug of hot-chocolate, celebrating the cozy comfort of your home, for instance.
It’s your awareness of the gifts present all around in your everyday life, coupled with your intention of purposeful gratitude, which will forever guide you toward more meaningful happy celebrations…
Sharmilla 07/12/2017
Do you long to live and thrive in happiness more often? What’s holding you back? Possibly some of the things which you have in your life, rather than things you don’t have? By assessing your current space and determining your ‘nice’-space / your optimal-space, you have the power to choose whether letting go will feed your happiness.
What sorts of thoughts, feelings, situations and experiences are you predominantly keeping for company these days?
Freedom, lightness, joy, living-in-the-moment? A passion for life? A sense of fulfilment, peace and calm? Love, trust, faith, inner quiet, knowingness and serenity? Are you primarily maintaining these thoughts, feelings and outlooks regardless of the circumstances, situations and experiences which come your way?
Or might you perhaps be leaning primarily toward anxiety, fear, anger, disappointment, sadness, doubt, envy, jealousy? Rejection? Hurt? Pain? Doubt? Uncertainty? Betrayal? Judgement? Worthlessness? Guilt?
Are you perhaps being weighed down by the burden of a secret? Insecurity? Loneliness? Tension? Stress? A need to be perfect? The approval of another? Responsibility that isn’t yours to bear? Being caged in preconceptions? Drama? A mistake made? The past? The future (in your ‘waiting’)?
Your status? Your position? Your title? Your salary?
Are you holding on to a gorgeous pair of shoes that pinch at your little-toe with every step you take? A luxurious coat which you haven’t worn in years ‘cos there hasn’t been a ‘special’ enough occasion to wear it to yet?
With contemplation and an enhanced awareness of the types of thoughts and feelings you predominantly experience, comes your power to choose what type of space you would actually like to be in.
Your thoughts may be random and may also often be based upon subconscious influences, true. Yet it is you who ultimately commands the power and free-will choice of what you hold on to and what you let go of on a conscious level.
By nature’s law, that which you choose to focus on is usually strengthened, while that which you diminish significance toward slackens its power to influence you.
What do you want to strengthen and grow in your life? Your happiness and your freedom? Perhaps your trust and your faith? Peace and calm? If so, that’s where you would do best focusing your attention.
Let the worry and anxiety go; ease up on the doubt (particularly on the self-doubt); and stay clear of the path of being swept up in, or contributing to, chaos and clutter.
Keep in mind that situations and circumstances can change in an instant by factors either within or beyond your control – both whether you choose to hold on to things or whether you choose to let go.
Yet now that you know what benefits your life positively and places you in a ‘nice’-space, it should be easier to let go of those things which don’t; or at least to loosen you attachment to, and the level of significance you attribute to, certain things.
Remember that you choose to hold onto something when it serves a purpose in your life. Only you can determine if the qualities of that purpose and the impact it has upon your life benefits you in the long-term on a human level.
By ‘human level’ I mean that sometimes when you don’t have much / are at rock-bottom, you realize how blessed you are with the simple things which you do have in life. If you lose your job which you placed much significance on, for instance, you come to realize that who you inherently are is not dependent upon the work you did, or upon what others thought of you in your position regardless of how much in others’ esteem you may have been held.
If an illness befalls you, or if you’re involved in an accident and lose a limb; you’re still the same person. Your capabilities may shift, yet your value and your lovability remains. And under such circumstances you may even develop abilities of previously-latent potentials.
Things change. Life changes. The superficial attributions of what society considers to be ‘valuable’ fluctuate from moment to moment, and may even be dependent on what is ‘fashionable’ at a specific time. Your genuine worth and value always remains.
The more often you choose to let go of / reduce the value of non-beneficial elements, the easier it is to do. Your thoughts, attitudes and behaviors sculpt neural pathways in your mind. When you repeat something often enough (for instance, a thought or an action), it becomes easier and easier for your mind to identify with and a pattern is developed. These dominant patterns become your go-to responses in situations.
Why not nurture your go-to-response to being that of letting-go of that which doesn’t impact your life to genuine happiness and joy 😌
Don’t wait on the ‘special’ moments; your every ‘now’ moment is a special moment; choose to make it so, and so will it be 😌
Choose wisely. Let go, breathe, flow free, smile 😌
Sharmilla 01/12/2017
2 Universal facts of life: 1. Upsetting situations will constantly be around; 2. A moment is a moment that cannot be gotten back. Isn’t it therefore most logical a choice to make peace and let go; directing your focus toward your own wellbeing, contentment and happiness in as many moments as possible?
Make peace with it upfront, now, once-and-for-all: there’ll constantly be situations, experiences and people to upset you. Try as you may, you cannot control this; it’s just a (wonderfully cr*ppy!) part of life. 😌
Hehehehe, as an equalizer, sometimes you’re the one in the role of the ‘upsetter’ (the one doing something to result in another being upset) – unintentionally, of course; while someone else is the ‘upsetee’ (upset with you).
Either way, it’s just human nature that things sometimes don’t flow according to your vision or your plan; and you don’t always get your desires, wants and needs met (or sometimes you do, but not to the standards you expect).
So why not simply choose to laugh at the reality of a situation, accept it for what it is, let go and move on as care-freely and as peacefully as possible? After all, it’s almost certain that nobody else (certainly not the person upsetting you) is paying the situation as much attention as you yourself are. Neither is anyone else wasting any energy over it.
Make peace (even if it’s the best kind – just quietly internally with yourself). Let go, move on, be happy!
…Remember to press replay when the next situation rolls around. 😌
You’re driving down a middle-lane of the highway, following all of the road-rules, and with your awareness in peak form. You’re merrily whistling along to your favorite tune and you’re in the flow while you’re maximizing your good feelings before arriving at the office for a crazy day ahead…
You made a conscious decision to be happy, well done! 😌
Then, another driver whizzes by you and honks his horn endlessly, sticking his middle-finger out of his car-window…
Of course, it’s a baffling and upsetting situation to say the least, ‘cos you obviously don’t know where his actions originated from.
How do you react? Do you instantly sign-language him also? Do you give chase? Do you allow the experience to consume you for the remainder of your drive? Do you perhaps vent to colleagues at work (which almost certainly spirals into at least a 20minute complaining-session about the state of the traffic in general)?
Or do you, in all of your wisdom and care for yourself, decide to give the situation the few seconds of attention that it deserves (albeit if only to get over the shock), and move on with the balanced flow of your life again?
Perhaps even wish the seemingly crazy guy well, in your heart and in your mind? After all, who knows what’s going on his life, or what that incident was really about? Or even if it was truly intended to be directed at you?
Challenging situations and experiences – sometimes heart-wrenching, mind-numbing, spirit-sapping and mind-boggling – will come along in life. It’s not like there’s going to be any shortage of cr*ppy moments for you to deal with.
So why choose anything other than peace and calm (if not outright happiness) in each other moment that you’re actually capable of doing so?
A moment spent in being upset, angry, disappointed or fearful is a moment of your life lost. All the moments of your life make up your lifetime. Given a choice, wouldn’t you choose to be in happiness and peace in each moment, rather?
Each moment is your moment. Choose how you feel in every moment. Brighten your thoughts and allow your emotions to automatically lighten.
Let go, choose you, it only makes sense! 😌
Sharmilla 24/11/2017
It’s true, happiness is a subjective thing. What makes another happy may not necessarily make you happy. Yet, your happiness is truly not dependent on any other. Your perspective, your attitude and your action-choices are 3 valuably amazing things that you already have to be happy…
Have you ever noticed how different things look when you’re standing at a point, or even driving from one point to another; as opposed to the way they look when you scan the picture from an aeroplane or from the vantage point of a high building?
This is just a matter of perspective. From one point, your vision is somewhat limited; from the other, your vision is vastly expanded.
When you’re engulfed in a situation or an experience which doesn’t feel good, gently remind yourself that you’re in a limited-perspective space.
Regardless of what’s going on or how much you may be able to see, know that there’s a bigger picture and more at work than you may be aware of at a certain point in time. And even though all you may see is the dark gloomy clouds, the magnificent sun surely is there!
Choose a perspective which brings you peace and happiness. Trust. Surely from this, light will flow.
Aaaaah yes, the amazing power of your thoughts! Why not choose to use them wisely, for your own maximum wellbeing and happiness?!
It’s not easy to control your thoughts, I agree; particularly when circumstances challenge. Yet, have you ever considered that you don’t have to control them? Let yourself off the hook, breathe deeeep and eeeasy. Allow your thoughts to flow; while you merely direct them toward a happier outlook and chosen outcome for yourself.
Creating more and deeper levels of happiness and contentment in your life doesn’t have to be an instant thing. Embrace it for what it is – a process of gradual, conscious transformation.
With an attitude of happiness, what quality of experiences will follow, do you think?
Seeing things with an expanded awareness (your perspective) and thinking more positively (your attitude) over a sustained period of time, should have the automatic and joyous side-effect of generating different actions.
The action-choices you make are then but the gifts of your evolved perspective and attitude. And when your action-choices change, know for certain that your experiences will change!
How amazingly and wonderfully powerful is it to know for a fact that you already possess the primary things that you need to be happy?! 😌
Sharmilla 19/11/2017
