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‘Heritage’ Celebrations

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Heritage Celebrations:

How one chooses to live one’s life today, is the ‘heritage’ of generations to come.

Consider choosing for ‘heritage’ to be about basics such as integrity, love, authenticity, simplicity, respect, kindness, appreciation, compassion, peace, unity and joy; rather than merely about clothing, food, music, etc.

Consider choosing a ‘human’ heritage of genuine integrity and solidarity; rather than a segregating national, cultural, or racial ‘heritage’.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

24/09/2020

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‘EXTRAORDINARY’ is a choice

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‘EXTRAORDINARY’ is a choice:

Never tell yourself to “Get used to” something that’s less-than optimal.

Life’s full of wondrous, beautiful, fantastical, magical opportunities and experiences – all simply awaiting your exploration and discovery.

It comes down to what you yourself are willing to do with it, and seeking enough to make of it, which contributes to that which you ultimately call your ‘life’.

‘Mediocre’ is a choice. ‘EXTRAORDINARY’ is also a choice – albeit, just less-chosen.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

05/09/2020

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Strong Enough to Walk…

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Strong Enough to Walk…

Having invested many years of your life in something – in terms of time, love, energy or finances – is no reason whatsoever to continue to stay in it, if it’s no longer working for your Highest Good.

Be strong enough to walk, at any moment in time!

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28/07/2020

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Trust Life

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Trust Life:

Upon birth, the transition of ‘death’ is assured. One may spend the moments of ones life – until inevitable death – boldly living, or fearfully hiding.

Consider, dear one, that ‘living’ in fear may be more akin to ‘dying’, than the natural transformation of death itself.

Trust Life.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

30/05/2020

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Authentic Evolution

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Authentic Evolution:

Life is about evolving. Evolving is about transformation and change. Sometimes life gives you no option but to evolve. Sometimes, you’re brave enough, faithful enough, ‘crazy enough’, wise enough and courageous enough to choose evolution and transformation on your own. When you do, you venture out from your pristine comfort-zone, into the vast unknown. Lots may be uncertain and unfamiliar. What is always, assuredly, constant though – is Divine Guidance. Trust It. Flow with It. Be happy in It. It will have you “live” more authentically, more fully, more magically and more holistically wholesomely, than staying in a predictable, routine, ‘safe’ comfort-zone ever would. …And then, get familiar with It, ‘cos It’s going to call out to you again, and again, and again…

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17/05/2020

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Higher Consciousness

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Higher Consciousness:

If someone is friendly, kind and loving toward you, after you’ve been unjust toward them, be assured that it’s not from a place of naivety or lack of self-esteem on their part; they’re merely operating from a level of consciousness, forgiveness, love, integrity, compassion and understanding toward you – which may be too high and unconditional for you to possibly come to be able to understand.

Be assured, though, that if you persist with your injustice toward them, they will one day quietly, humbly, and lovingly yet, walk away in integrity and with authenticity, bidding you a sweet adieu, while always still treating you with unconditional love, friendliness, respect and humanity…

Watch them flourish and thrive, ‘cos they know, as they have always known, who they are and what they’re worth.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

15/05/2020

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Eyes ‘Open’, Eyes Closed…

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Eyes ‘Open’, Eyes Closed…

In Simply Closing My Eyes And Looking Upon The Sun,

I Am Transported To Worlds More Real, More Magical, And More Supremely Powerful Than I Have Ever Seen Or Experienced With My Eyes Fully “Open”…

Is Your Clearest ‘Vision’ External, Or Is It Internal?

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11/05/2020

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Life In Transition

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Life In Transition…

Every moment is a transition into the next. The many moments of Life are transitory. The many moments leading up to, and the singular moment of ‘death’ are transitory.

Recognize and be aware of the Well-Being which is ever-present. Live every moment FOR LIFE – in faith, joy, appreciation, love, gratitude…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

19/04/2020

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Play Nice Together

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Play Nice Together:

Regardless of where you may be located geographically, or what you may be facing in your specific context, why not choose love, unity and global cooperation?

The human condition is common to you, to me, to all. Everyone smiles, everyone laughs, everyone cries, everyone hurts, everyone hopes, everyone dreams…

Let’s choose to see not the ‘other’, but One. Let’s choose to love as One, rather than to choose suffering and illusory ‘national’ or other separation. No policy or procedures required!

In a world where Divinity reigns, unity is a way of life.

🌀💚❤️Let’s play nice together.🌀💚❤️

HappyWise: Sharmilla

18/04/2020

Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Divinely-Imbued Gifts

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Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Divinely-Imbued Gifts:

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Body: Eat good, Exercise good, Listen to it good, Rest good, Trust that it knows your highest-good and is building your immunity good, while lovingly working on your behalf in every moment.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Physical Assets: Clean, maintain and repair your home, your garden, your vehicle and other physical blessings regularly, on a self-sufficient basis.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Not Only Your Personal Relationships, but All of Humanity: Treat the ‘other’ as you would love to be treated. All is One. One is All.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Nature and All Living Beings: Human life is but a small component of Life. Let’s be a cooperative partner.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Love, Respect and Honor your Work: Be purposeful, be inspiring, be of loving whole-hearted service, be of integrity and righteous values.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Love, Respect and Honor Your Mind: Think independently; learn continually; be of discernment, curiosity, imagination and virtuous innovation and creation.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Spirit: Regularly commune with the Divine and your Highest Self. Meditate. Create. Be in sacred silence.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

14/04/2020

Move Forward In Love, Not In Fear

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Move Forward In Love, Not In Fear:

Fear-based short-term approaches which only lead to delaying/postponing the effects of a problem, are not only completely illogical, but also creates numerous new problems.

Courageously and TIMOROUSLY being solution-oriented in the here-and-now, with the aim of MITIGATING long-term effects and impacts, is genuine wisdom and indeed truly commendable meritorious leadership!

Move forward in love, not in fear.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

12/04/2020

Context, Locality, Specificity

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Context, Locality, Specificity:

Context, locality, specificity – considering these is wisdom, common-sense and true leadership.

Good-luck with merely jumping on the bandwagon of thoughtlessly implementing blanket approaches, which are actually for misplaced short-term pleasures.

Be not surprised when what was stellar success for one, turns out to be dismal failure for another.

Always exercise your own power of thought, choices, decision-making and discretion.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

04/04/2020

Great Minds Think Uniquely, Autonomously!

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Great Minds Think Uniquely, Autonomously!

Everything and anything cutting-edge, leading-edge, authentic and magical comes from those souls who have the courage, will, purpose, intelligence and confidence to think uniquely, independently, autonomously, and what may even be initially seen by the ‘think-alike’ masses as “outrageously”!

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15/02/2020

Free-Will

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Free-Will:

🤣 (Repeat After Me…) 🤣

“I am a being of free-will.

I have been superbly blessed with my own mind, my own thoughts and my own feelings.

I have also been generously blessed with freedom and the power of choice.

I therefore will NOT blindly/automatically repeat/follow what someone/society/social media asks of me, without first applying my own inherent discernment, discretion and Divine guidance!”

(If I find this very message, for instance, to not be in alignment with who I am, I reject it, rather than repeat it!)

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29/01/2020

Victor, rather than victim!

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Victor, rather than victim!

Regardless of what you may have been through, you’re only a ‘victim’ if you allow yourself to be so.

In every situation, and through every experience, choose to be a ‘victor’ rather than a victim.

Belittle the injustices done unto you, simply by valuing yourself by yourself, for yourself. You are stronger and wiser than any injustice or any doer of injustice.

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25/01/2020

Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Future!

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Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Future!

All it takes to change your future, is to think a different thought! You, dear one, are the primary creator of your life! By your very thoughts, feelings and desires, you’re in a constant process of co-creation with Creation itself and with the Creator of All That Is.

A changed future is only a different thought away…

What do you choose to think?💕🌀

HappyWise: Sharmilla

21/01/2020

YOU ALREADY ARE…

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YOU ALREADY ARE…

Can you see yourself in all the ways you wish to be? Can you feel yourself as you’d like to be? Are you able to see yourself having the things that you (think you) want? Are you able to feel what it feels like to have everything that you (think you) want?

Isn’t it amazing that when you think back to ten-or-so years ago, you’ve already accomplished much of what you then set out to accomplish?

You already are everything you want to be… You already have everything you wish to have.

Let go of the concept of time.

Be…

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13/01/2020

Oasis Unto Yourself

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Oasis Unto Yourself:

Be an oasis unto yourself in the midst of chaos.

Much in life is not within your control. Much may not be of your choice or to your liking.

Yet, do choose to remember, regardless of how crazy a situation may be – you have the power within you, to consciously direct how you feel, under any circumstances/experiences you may find yourself in.

Be not overcome/swayed/swept up in any chaos which may be around you. Remember: it’s ‘around’ you – therefore, make it not a ‘part’ of you, by reacting to it.

Rise above. Always. You are the creator of your peace, your bliss.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

31/12/2019

Thanksgiving And Appreciation

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Thanksgiving And Appreciation:

Being able to feel thankful and appreciative is a gift which we’re all blessed with, every day of our lives.

No matter how small or big, luxurious or simple, near or distant, natural or artificial, wondrous or plain, easy or difficult, Divine or mortal – there’s always something to be thankful for.

Let’s grow increasingly aware of the magical blessings in our lives, through every moment of every day… Let’s celebrate every moment of every day… For, within the ordinary, seemingly mundane and even painful and challenging, lies magic to be discovered/transformed/created…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

30/12/2019

Make Love…With Life

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Make Love…With Life:

All of life is love. Make love, in every moment, with everything. ❤️💚

Be in love, with Life…with all.

Love is a state of being…If you view love as something to be directed at only a lover/friend/family member/pet, etc. – you’re missing the true essence of love.💚❤️

HappyWise: Sharmilla

28/12/2019

Home Is Where The Spirit Is

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Home Is Where The Spirit Is:

Be exactly ‘you’. Authentically you. Through the hype of the ‘holidays’, aim also to travel within. Savor a conversation with your Highest Self. Nurture that Divine connection. Meditate. Play. Look after your body. Dance. Jog. Kick a ball. Sit in silence. Be. Laugh. Appreciate. Work. Create. Make magic. Be happy. Make choices for ‘you’. Be in alignment with yourself. Love. Live…

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25/12/2019

Happily Whole

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Happily Whole:

🌀😉💋♥️🌎😉🌀

Qualities I value in a life-partner: Someone with his own thoughts, ideas, interests and inspirations; Someone stronger, braver, wiser, more spirit & worldly intelligent, more independent (with The Divine as foundational cornerstone) & more independently-capable than I am; Someone as equally compassionate, authentic, humble, simple, open-minded, heart/spirit-centred & spiritually awake, aware, conscious & evolving, as I am. Else, I’m genuinely, happily whole on my own & I’ve no reason to settle.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

08/12/2019

Agreeing To Disagree

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Agreeing To Disagree:

Deep, authentic love and respect can thrive in an environment which embraces differences…

It’s simple: Let’s agree to disagree.

And let’s continue to love, respect and learn from each other; while continually evolving and growing together!

Love and respect doesn’t always call for total and complete agreement with another. Instead, embracing different thoughts, ideas and points of view calls for maturity, which ultimately strengthens and transforms any relationship, because it’s authentic rather than based upon merely superficially pleasing each other.

Be happy… Know when to agree to disagree!💕

HappyWise: Sharmilla

27/11/2019

Guidance On Demand

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Guidance On Demand:

You’re always connected to All That Is. Your every question has an answer. To every seeming ‘problem’, is there a solution.

Ask, feel, be aware – and you shall receive.

G – Guidance

O – On

D – Demand

You’re now and eternally blessed. Receive in appreciation, love and trust.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

25/11/2019

Dance And Thrive With Each Other:

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Dance And Thrive With Each Other:

Your feelings, just like your thoughts, are a choice. You wield power over them, by your chosen perspectives, attention and attitudes.

Complement, co-create, evolve, grow, transform, support, play, dance and thrive together/with each other; or compete with and engage in mind games and power struggles against each other, resultantly dwelling in insecurities due to misaligned perceptions…

It’s simply and solely a matter of what you choose and what you focus upon.

If you feel emasculated, simply by me being me, and by you being you… You have a choice: 1) Step up, empower yourself; or 2) Step out, enjoy yourself.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

22/11/2019

GOD BLESS THE RAINDROPS…

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GOD BLESS THE RAINDROPS…

I feel raindrops…

Raindrops feel me…

God bless the raindrops!

God bless me!

You, me, the rain, the stars, the moon, the sun, the trees, the seas, the breeze, the birds, the fish, the frogs, the moody geese… We are all One… Made of the same energy, emerged from One Consciousness.

Revel, sometimes, in appreciation and the joy of being kissed by the raindrops, rather than always bolting toward sheltered protection (even though we remain so very appreciative of and thankful for the blessings of comfy sturdy homes, wholesome meals, piped water for hot refreshing showers, electricity, etc.)

…What if… The rain feels you, as much as you feel the rain? ☺️

Feel the blessings of your Divine connectedness with All That Is!

HappyWise: Sharmilla

20/11/2019

God: My Life-Partner

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God: My Life-Partner

Am I looking for marriage? Nope.

Am I looking for authentic connection? Yip, definitely!

What happens if I don’t find authentic connection with a man? I still win! I continue happily, blessedly walking my path with God as my Life-Partner, as I’ve always done…

(Do I think that God has authentic Divine connection with a man, in store for me? Yes, for sure!😉)

Let the basis be true connection, first and foremost, and then let marriage follow, if so be it. Then too, let it be rather a “celebration and declaration of the Sacred Union of togetherness, based upon freedom and mutual evolution”, rather than a “contract of stagnant obligations”.

A relationship-basis on a primary want/need for the ‘idea’ of “marriage”, as opposed to a genuine sacred spiritual foundation of heart-mind-body-soul-connection, just isn’t a turn-on for me 💕🌀💚

HappyWise: Sharmilla

04/11/2019

Leading-Edge Of Thought, Feeling and Creation

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Leading-Edge Of Thought, Feeling and Creation:

Learning from the brilliant, wondrous, magical, free-spirited minds and hearts of kids is some of the most terrific education around!

Observe, engage, celebrate, honor and take some lessons from these little beings who are on the leading-edge of thought, feeling and creation…

Sharmilla

23/10/2019

EVERYTHING’S OK…NOW, ALWAYS!

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EVERYTHING’S OK…NOW, ALWAYS!

I thought it would be nice to have a man tell me, “Everything’s gona be ok”…Then I felt my wise-old-all-knowing-perfectly-balanced inner-being say to me: “Aaah, sweetness! Everything’s ok…Now, Always!”

Remember that you are a whole, complete being. You have all necessary resources within yourself to live a loving, happy, supported, appreciative, rest-assured, re-assured, Divinely guided, blessed life.

All Is Well. Always. Forevermore…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

08/08/2019

DIRECT CONNECTION WITH THE DIVINE

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DIRECT CONNECTION WITH THE DIVINE:

You already have access to your most intimate relationship with the Divine, within you. The more often you connect with your inner being, the more you flow with the abundant, eternal well-being of All-That-Is.

Love, nurture and frolic with this most significant primary relationship in your life!

HappyWise: Sharmilla

31/07/2019

QUALITY SIMPLICITY

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QUALITY SIMPLICITY:

A person of the greatest simplicity may also often be a person of the finest quality.

A simple way of life and being in the world often flows in synchronized harmony with a sophisticated mind and intuition.

The greatest depths, insights and inspirations may be discovered and experienced in, from and with pure, authentic simplicity.

Should one underestimate the choice of simplicity to be indicative of shallowness / insignificance, (s)he may be in for a magnificent surprise☺️💜💚💙💕💛❤️🧡🦋🌞

HappyWise: Sharmilla

27/07/2019

Life Is As Sweetly Indulgent As You Allow It To Be

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Life Is As Sweetly Indulgent As You Allow It To Be:

Wellbeing and Divine All-That-Is is forever flowing to you. Whether you choose to see, feel, allow, experience and enjoy it, is your choice. Together with the Divine, you are a powerful co-creator of your life.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

13/07/2019

HIGH…On Life

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HIGH…On Life:

Inhale the intoxicating wellness of life. Dance to the ecstatic rhythm of the Universal beat. Flow in wild abandon with Divinity’s vibrant pulse. Saturate on Love’s transformational potion. Frolic with the magic of just ‘being’. Savor the sweet bliss of fulfillment’s joy. Be a creator for the sacred union of consciousness with Consciousness itself! Bow in appreciation of abundant blessings. And forever be, High…On Life!✨

HappyWise: Sharmilla

28/06/2019

FEEL AMAZING, LIVE AMAZING

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FEEL AMAZING, LIVE AMAZING:

The thoughts and feelings that you have the FREEDOM TO CHOOSE are a precursor for your life experiences. Your life experiences should not control your thoughts and feelings. Be an active role-player in your life! Feel amazing to live an amazing life.☺️

HappyWise: Sharmilla

01/06/2019

Why Settle?

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Why Settle?

Are you fulfilled, or are you settling ‘just because’? Do you believe that you’re worthy of everything that you desire? If so, it will come to you.

Be true to ‘you’. Trust. You’re an intentional creation of the Divine Creator. Take a decision now to live up to your value. Continue to take decisions and make choices which honor the divinity which is in you, of you and definitely for you.

You will be met with the standards you set for yourself. Every time. Step up. ‘Settle’ when it’s authentically you.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

18/02/2019

Trust Your Gut

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Trust Your Gut

As a divinely-created being, you’re indeed also a divinely-guided being. You have within your realm of consciousness everything you need to know, and more than you can imagine.

Trust yourself. Listen from within. Grow increasingly aware of your infinite access to wondrous divine knowledge.

You’re a receptor of Consciousness itself. Your feelings are your faithful indicator. Trust your gut. Always.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

16/02/2019

DIVERGENTLY YOU

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DIVERGENTLY YOU

If you’re a free-thinker, you may not be liked. This will have nothing to do with you, but more-so with the fact that you cannot be easily understood, controlled or manipulated.

CONTINUE BEING SPECTACULARLY, UNIQUELY, BOLDLY, AUTHENTICALLY, AMAZINGLY, DIVINELY, DIVERGENTLY ‘YOU’!

HappyWise: Sharmilla

07/02/2019

You’re Already Everything You’re Meant To Be

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You’re Already Everything You’re Meant To Be

Everything you desire, is already yours. Everything you want to be, you already are…

Think back to a few years ago. How far away are you now, from where you’ve wanted to be a few years ago? How many of your dreams have come true? How many of your desires have been fulfilled?

I’m guessing more than a few, right? … Yes, things are always working out for your best and highest good. Even when it seems that it isn’t. Choose always to focus on things that are working, rather than those that aren’t. This will ensure that you magnetize more of your desires into physical manifestation.

Remember to relax. You truly already are, and already have within you, everything that you long to be and that you’re meant to be. This can’t be taken away from you or from your experience.

In our physical, material world, things seem to take time to come into fruition. Not seeing the fruit though, doesn’t mean that it’s not already there. It surely is. Tend to yourself, care for yourself, live in increasing joy, happiness and ease… All is well.

Think on a seed, for instance. A seed is but a seed which grows into a mighty tree, or into a beautiful flower-blossom. The tree, the flower-blossom are already within the seed – even though it may take days / weeks / months / even years to become visible.

You’re right on your path. Be gentle with yourself. Trust yourself. Be in joy and in love with yourself. You’re already everything you’re meant to be.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

16/01/2019

Quality Time With You

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Quality Time With You

When last did you dedicate some good, quality time to the most significant person in your life – yourself?

Spending time with, and by yourself, doesn’t have to translate into being lonely or alone. Far from it… In your quietest moments, flow your deepest connections – with yourself, with the Divine, with all…

Take some down-time, get to know yourself again / better / deeper… Discover the parts of you which wait in patience and eager anticipation for your attention…

Savor the beauty, the magnificence, the magical splendor which is you. Connect and re-connect with yourself as often and as sincerely as possible. You’re, after-all, your most vital relationship – relationship with self, with Divine…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

08/01/2019

Find Your True Love In The Divine

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Find Your True Love In The Divine

Love is always with you, within you, of you, for you. Love is you, you are love. The Divine is love. And you’re one with the Divine – now, forevermore…

All is magically, magnificently, most naturally and simply inter-connected through love, by love, in love.

Look always to the Divine and to the divinity within yourself – it is here where love frolics and dances, eagerly and consistently awaiting your embrace.

Aloneness and separateness do not exist, but for its being a concept of your mind and imagination. Feel with your heart – you will genuinely and surely know that you’re the very essence of the great Essence itself – which is love, which is connection.

Celebrate the grand, simple, spontaneous yet never-ending abundant supply of love, joy and happiness available to you. Inhale it with your every breath.

Your true happily-ever-after love is in the Divine and in you… In each and every moment…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

29/12/2018

Trust The Contrast

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Trust The Contrast

Yes, it would indeed be wonderful if life were permanently rosy, beautiful and peaceful, wouldn’t it? It would be perfection indeed if things always went the way you wanted and desired, if you instantaneously got what you wanted, if you everlastingly floated on fluffy white clouds upon a blue sky… Right?

Yet, think about it for but a moment: if all were indeed exactly as you wanted, all of the time, how then would you be able to differentiate what it is that you like, from that which you dislike / like to a lesser extent?

You wouldn’t know the difference, would you? And in not having the contrasting experiences of that which you dislike, you also then wouldn’t fully be able to explore, appreciate and embrace the joy in the experiences of that which you do desire… Correct?

The less desired / undesirable parts of your life don’t have to be all doom and gloom, dear one. Those situations and experiences are there to point you onward, inward and upward toward what it is that you actually do desire.

Once you learn to use your every less-than-desirable instance to your benefit, by identifying from it that which your heart and spirit calls you to, you know you’re well on your way to living your best life.

There’s but a reason and a purpose to all under the sun – and in the midst of every seeming thunderstorm too.

Trust the contrast, dear one. Trust your self. Be in joy and in peace always. All is working out, always.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

19/12/2018

Everything Is Always Working Out

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Everything Is Always Working Out

Regardless of what’s going on in your life right now, or in any moment, trust and know that all is always working out for your best and highest good.

Adopting an attitude of trust in the Divine, and of actively making the choice to see and experience the best in any and all situations, will ensure that you’re consistently evolving toward what’s greatest for you.

As you continually evolve and attract what’s best for you, you move ever and ever closer to the Divinity which is already within you and all around you.

Be aware always of the blessings and joys which can come of any experience or situation. Your attitude, your choices, your decisions and your points-of-focus hold immeasurable power.

Remember, everything is always working out for your highest good…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

14/12/2018

Fall In Love…

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Fall In Love…

Think of your most beloved…

How do you feel when you’re in your beloveds presence? What effect does even a thought of your dearly beloved have upon your feelings? …

How do you treat your beloved? What special things do you do for, and with, your beloved? How do you love your beloved – in what ways, in what quantity? Is it even quantifiable?

What, specifically, are some of the things that you do to demonstrate the depths of your feelings for your beloved, to your beloved?

How do you encourage, love, support, value and treasure your beloved? How do you go out of your way to ensure that he / she is happy, healthy and joyful?

… Now, take a moment to deeply and intimately feel all of your feelings toward your beloved…

Bask in these feelings. Feel it’s purity, it’s self-creative happiness… And allow these feelings to expand and to grow from within you…

Know that these feelings are yours. Yes, you may indeed feel this magnificent, glorious and magical love toward your beloved, in connection with who he / she is – yet the feelings originate from within you.

The feelings of which your beloved is the blessed recipient of – is actually within you, flows from you and is perpetually available to you. You are its creator and its conduit – It is Divine Source energy, which is simply LOVE.

So: Love yourself just like you do / would love your most precious beloved.

Fall in love with yourself – now, and again and again, in every moment. Treasure yourself. Treat yourself. Celebrate yourself. Have fun with yourself. You are love itself.😌

HappyWise: Sharmilla

08/12/2018

Hurt-Proof Yourself With Self-Love

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Hurt-Proof Yourself With Self-Love:

You already have the greatest, truest, purest love of your life, ever.. You’ve always had it and with you shall it always remain.

It’s you. It’s within you. It’s a love Divine. A love that’s perfect, a love that’s true… whole, complete.

There’s no reason to feel dejected, rejected, hurt or despondent if another doesn’t reciprocate your love.

Your value is inherent. Your worth is eternal. Love yourself. And in loving yourself, trust and know that you magnetize love Divine.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

24/11/2018

You’re Eternally Loved, Guided, Cared-For

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You’re Eternally Loved, Guided, Cared-For

No matter what you’ve done, what you may be going through, what others’ think and say of you, or what another has done to you – one thing remains constant: you’re eternally loved, guided and cared for.

The Divine loves you for all of the perfection that you’ve been created to be, are, and always shall be.

Your untainted essence forever remains – regardless of externalities.

Thrive in being loved. Take pleasure in the Divine Guidance which is offered to you in every moment. Rest peacefully assured that you’re immensely, outrageously cared for!

Stay blissfully blessed.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

01/11/2018

Change Your Beliefs, Change Your Reality

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Change Your Beliefs, Change Your Reality

Think about it for a moment… Gaze upon your life – past and present – is there a possibility that your ‘reality’ could be but a mere reflection of your predominant, strongest-held beliefs?

Was there a time in your life, perhaps, when you believed that relationships were difficult? Was there then a correlation with you experiencing ‘difficult’ relationships in your life?

Was there a time, perhaps, when you believed that you were unworthy of love? What, then, were the types of romantic relationships – if any – that you consequently attracted?

Was there a time where you believed with all of your heart that you deserved something? Did you then get what you thought you deserved?

As you think and believe, so too do your feelings follow suit, attracting into your life and materializing that which you believe.

Should you be dissatisfied or feel unfulfilled with your current ‘reality’, consider simply changing your primary beliefs to transform and mold your reality into something closer to that which you desire.

You’re, beyond measure, a powerful co-creator with the Divine Creator.

Go ahead, amaze yourself! Energize yourself with love! Live happy! It’s your reality!

HappyWise: Sharmilla 19/10/2018

Harness Your Magic

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Harness Your Magic

Listen, to your own voice.

Hold, your own hand.

Gaze tenderly, into your own eyes.

Dance, with the brilliance of your Highest Self.

You’re magical. Phenomenal. Beautiful.

Everything you need is within you.

You have access to all answers, all solutions, all possibilities.

The love, acceptance, support, inspiration, acknowledgement, advice, approval, happiness which you seek – be it, and gift it from yourself unto yourself, first and foremost.

Naught which doesn’t first arise from within will purely come from without.

Trust in your magic. Dance with the brilliance of your Highest Self.

HappyWise: Sharmilla 13/10/2018

Do What Fills Your Cup With Joy

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Do What Fills Your Cup With Joy

Ponder your life but for a moment… In your mind’s eye, see the activities and actions which you primarily engage in; feel the feelings which are predominant to your experiences; hear the thoughts, words, sounds and noises which you’re either by choice or circumstance most exposing yourself to…

If you were to metaphorically put all of these into a vessel such a cup, would you choose to then drink the contents of the cup?

What effect, do you think, this potion would have upon you?

Would it be an elixir of enhancement and sweet fulfillment? Life-sustaining and pure?

… Or perchance, might it be a substance of toxicity and contamination, draining to your body, energy and life-force?

Remember that you’re blessed to in most instances choose what you feed yourself with – mind, body, spirit, heart.

Seize your power of freedom of choice. Love yourself, nourish yourself, nurture yourself.

Love yourself – more, nourish yourself – more, nurture yourself – more… Always.

Then, savor the aromatic fragrance and the delectable taste of your joyous creations; drink from your cup in trust, freedom and faith – honoring yourself in wisdom, as Divinely intended.

HappyWise: Sharmilla 06/10/2018