Dance And Thrive With Each Other:

Dance And Thrive With Each Other:

Your feelings, just like your thoughts, are a choice. You wield power over them, by your chosen perspectives, attention and attitudes.

Complement, co-create, evolve, grow, transform, support, play, dance and thrive together/with each other; or compete with and engage in mind games and power struggles against each other, resultantly dwelling in insecurities due to misaligned perceptions…

It’s simply and solely a matter of what you choose and what you focus upon.

If you feel emasculated, simply by me being me, and by you being you… You have a choice: 1) Step up, empower yourself; or 2) Step out, enjoy yourself.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

22/11/2019

God: My Life-Partner

God: My Life-Partner

Am I looking for marriage? Nope.

Am I looking for authentic connection? Yip, definitely!

What happens if I don’t find authentic connection with a man? I still win! I continue happily, blessedly walking my path with God as my Life-Partner, as I’ve always done…

(Do I think that God has authentic Divine connection with a man, in store for me? Yes, for sure!😉)

Let the basis be true connection, first and foremost, and then let marriage follow, if so be it. Then too, let it be rather a “celebration and declaration of the Sacred Union of togetherness, based upon freedom and mutual evolution”, rather than a “contract of stagnant obligations”.

A relationship-basis on a primary want/need for the ‘idea’ of “marriage”, as opposed to a genuine sacred spiritual foundation of heart-mind-body-soul-connection, just isn’t a turn-on for me 💕🌀💚

HappyWise: Sharmilla

04/11/2019

Align With Love And Joy To Live Your Purpose

Align With Love And Joy To Live Your Purpose

Living your best life is simpler, and way more fun, than you may imagine. By aligning with the love and joy which is already within you, you can be assured that all of your desires will naturally and effortlessly flow to you…

The greater your awareness of, and gratitude for, the love and joy in your life – the more you attract energies of similar frequencies into your life. These ‘energies’ may be people, experiences, things, or even just more enhanced feelings of alignment and peace.

Your purpose is love and happinessto be it, to experience it, to share it. So anytime you do anything to attune yourself with feelings of love and happiness – trust and know that you’re uplifting not only yourself, but also countless others and consciousness as a whole.

By living your life from a space and a place of joy and love, you’re not only gifting yourself with precious treasures, but you’re also simultaneously engaging in selfless service to humanity.

Yes, selfless service… If, perhaps, you hold a belief that feeling happiness and love is ‘selfish’ or that for some reason you’re ‘undeserving’, then choose in this moment to change that restrictive conditioned belief and replace it with a more wholesome belief – you were created to live a beautiful, joyous, love-filled life. This is your purpose, first and foremost.

When you’re in love and joy yourself, you automatically share it with others and it’s also infused into everything you do. The more you come into alignment with who you genuinely are – love and joy – the more in-tune you will grow with your other purposes and passions in life.

And the more you’re in alignment, the more you shine your light on others’ – even if simply by being an example of authenticity.

So become aware of, feel and express love and joy!

… And then simply do more of it, over and over again – to deeper and expanded levels!

And in this, know that you’re on purpose…

 

HappyWise: Sharmilla 15/09/2018

Surrender, Fly Free To Succeed

Surrender, Fly Free To Succeed

Control may be a positive quality when it comes to discipline, responsibility, focus and accountability, for instance. It may oftentimes be the fuel behind your perseverance and successes in life. Yet, have you ever noticed the difference in the quality of your feelings between achieving a goal:

When you’ve been in a surrendered and trusting state and space

As opposed to:

• When you’ve been in an anxiety-filled, rigid and controlling state and space?

Does there seem to be a distinct difference in the quality of each?

Controlling Your Way To Success:

How does aiming to be in control all of the time, make you feel? Does it relax you? Does it make you feel like you’re conquering the world in an ordered, prepared and sequential way?

Does it stress you out? Does it leave you feeling like you’re living on-edge?

A fact of life is that we cannot control everything. It’s in the nature of things to be changing.

As much as one may succeed at controlling a very large portion of his / her life, one still cannot predict absolutely everything. A reasonably large portion of life is unknown – dependent upon various factors aside from oneself.

What happens then, when you encounter something that’s beyond your control? How do you feel? How do you react? Do you clamor to make sense of things and to restore ‘order’ and ‘control’ as you know it? Or, are you able to easily accept, adapt and go with the flow?

Surrendering Your Way To Success:

There’s great strength and power in intentionally choosing to surrender. It calls for deep trust – in yourself, in the Universe.

Surrender is one of the most amazing gifts you will ever bestow on yourself.

Allowing you to be in the moment, to live fully and wholly, and to experience life from a space and state of freedom, joy and relief – surrender is being at one with Divine Grace.

Living from a place of surrender will ensure that you always succeed – for from such a place of trust and faith, all is and always will be well. You know, for a fact, that you will always be Divinely Guided.

As an added bonus, you – in wisdom – allow yourself the opportunity to live your life in a continual state of ease and bliss, minus having to be perfect or to have all be perfect. Thriving from a feeling-space of ease and bliss will surely attract greater quantities and qualities of the same to you, as you gently perfect the art of surrendering…

HappyWise: Sharmilla 12/06/2018

All is Well

Know, trust and rest assured in the knowledge that no matter what may be going on in your life at this time, all is well. All is in Divine Order. You’re at this space and place in your life in this very moment not by coincidence, accident or mistake, but for a reason. Feel exactly as you need to feel, do exactly what you need to do, change whatever you desire to change. If needs be, simply take a moment to relax, to breathe in life and to absorb the lull of the unknown, of the seeming ‘imperfections’ and of non-action, while you re-calibrate to the readiness and to the excitement of swinging back into your groove again.

• All Answers Are Within You:

Confusion, uncertainty and doubt are a part of life; they seem to come when you least expect them. You may not be able to banish them completely, yet it’s most certainly within your power and choice to minimize them and any effects they may have upon you.

In your darkest, most trying times, do you more often than not look to another human being for answers? Either for validation of your own thoughts and feelings, or for new direction and input?

Looking to another for guidance and for different varied perspectives may be invaluable when integrated into your decision-making process. Your decisions, however, are ultimately yours. You have within yourself all of the resources and all of God’s Guiding Light that you need in order to make decisions of wisdom.

Listen to yourself, even more than you listen to any other. Trust yourself, even more than you trust any other. Maintain flexibility – with yourself, with situations. Re-visit and / revise anything you may need to. All of life is a learning-curve of growth and evolution.

Smile, be easy on yourself, be your greatest comforter and supporter in life. All is perfect even in imperfection.

• All is Perfection:

Freedom, joy, love, acceptance and light abounds in perfect imperfection! You will find that there’s nothing quite as liberating and as ‘human’ as embracing the messiness in life, in yourself and in others. It’s a space that magnificence springs forth from.

Flow with it, love it, maintain it as is, or change / re-configure it – it’s your opportunity to do with it whatever you wish.

Just as your values and beliefs may not be stagnant throughout life or in all contexts, so too that which seems ‘imperfect’ today may very well lead to and result in the most beautiful amazing perfection you discover in your tomorrow…

And it is then that you’ll find that all indeed is well, just as is.

Sharmilla 10/02/2018

Freedom and Joy is Yours

Freedom and Joy is Yours

At your core, you’re free. The essence of who you are is a spirit of joy and freedom. So, freedom is already a part of you, just like joy is. There’s no need to strive for it, search for it, or work toward it. All you have to do is recognize its presence, allow it to be as significant a part of your life as you desire, and enjoy it.

• Freedom:

What are you truly? Are you your career, or your relationship-status? Perhaps a mum, a dad, a sibling, a manager, an employee, a sports(wo)man, a politician, a student, a leader, a man, a woman? Yes, you may be one or more of these; however, minus the labels you’re simply a human being.

In your pure human state, before the labels of what you do, how you’re defined, or what you’ve accumulated through your life, you’re simply a human being. A spirit with a body, doing your best to thrive in a human-conditioned experience.

And in your core immaculate human state, you’re a light free being of love and bliss. You may sometimes tend to think that just as you’ve had to acquire and accrue all in your life, that you also have to endeavor toward freedom or joy.

Yet the absolute glorious beauty is that freedom and joy are both already yours. It’s what was there at the very beginning; it’s what will always remain once all the layers of identity have been peeled away.

Your amazing power lies in being aware of, recognizing and embracing the constant eternal availability of this flexibility and liberty in your life. Bring it into your awareness, truly feel it, and live it in any situation and experience your desire. It’s simply your choice.

• Joy:

L your inherent internal eternal freedom in any situation or experience is integral to knowing that joy is yours.

Freedom of choice is yours. It is you who ultimately determines what you want to make of a situation. You choose how to respond and proceed from any given point.

Your feelings are actually within your control. They arise with your thoughts. Steer and guide your thoughts in a favorable direction in any situation, and you simultaneously successfully shift your emotions.

Your natural state is joy, so you don’t have to chase after it. It’s already with you, within you.

Let go of the worry, the doubt, the anxiety – you will find that all that remains is peace, calm, love and happiness. Flow with its beauty, dance with its energy, laugh with its frivolity – for as long as you fancy.

Sharmilla 03/02/2018