Authentic Evolution

Authentic Evolution:

Life is about evolving. Evolving is about transformation and change. Sometimes life gives you no option but to evolve. Sometimes, you’re brave enough, faithful enough, ‘crazy enough’, wise enough and courageous enough to choose evolution and transformation on your own. When you do, you venture out from your pristine comfort-zone, into the vast unknown. Lots may be uncertain and unfamiliar. What is always, assuredly, constant though – is Divine Guidance. Trust It. Flow with It. Be happy in It. It will have you “live” more authentically, more fully, more magically and more holistically wholesomely, than staying in a predictable, routine, ‘safe’ comfort-zone ever would. …And then, get familiar with It, ‘cos It’s going to call out to you again, and again, and again…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

17/05/2020

Eyes ‘Open’, Eyes Closed…

Eyes ‘Open’, Eyes Closed…

In Simply Closing My Eyes And Looking Upon The Sun,

I Am Transported To Worlds More Real, More Magical, And More Supremely Powerful Than I Have Ever Seen Or Experienced With My Eyes Fully “Open”…

Is Your Clearest ‘Vision’ External, Or Is It Internal?

HappyWise: Sharmilla

11/05/2020

Dance And Thrive With Each Other:

Dance And Thrive With Each Other:

Your feelings, just like your thoughts, are a choice. You wield power over them, by your chosen perspectives, attention and attitudes.

Complement, co-create, evolve, grow, transform, support, play, dance and thrive together/with each other; or compete with and engage in mind games and power struggles against each other, resultantly dwelling in insecurities due to misaligned perceptions…

It’s simply and solely a matter of what you choose and what you focus upon.

If you feel emasculated, simply by me being me, and by you being you… You have a choice: 1) Step up, empower yourself; or 2) Step out, enjoy yourself.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

22/11/2019

God: My Life-Partner

God: My Life-Partner

Am I looking for marriage? Nope.

Am I looking for authentic connection? Yip, definitely!

What happens if I don’t find authentic connection with a man? I still win! I continue happily, blessedly walking my path with God as my Life-Partner, as I’ve always done…

(Do I think that God has authentic Divine connection with a man, in store for me? Yes, for sure!😉)

Let the basis be true connection, first and foremost, and then let marriage follow, if so be it. Then too, let it be rather a “celebration and declaration of the Sacred Union of togetherness, based upon freedom and mutual evolution”, rather than a “contract of stagnant obligations”.

A relationship-basis on a primary want/need for the ‘idea’ of “marriage”, as opposed to a genuine sacred spiritual foundation of heart-mind-body-soul-connection, just isn’t a turn-on for me 💕🌀💚

HappyWise: Sharmilla

04/11/2019

You Hold All Solutions and Answers

You Hold All Solutions and Answers

Within yourself, you hold splendid solutions to all challenges you may face. You also hold informing answers to all questions you may have. As an integral and indispensable fragment of Source-energy and all of Life, you are graced with enduring access to infinite Divine Intelligence.

Accessing Solutions And Answers:

Ask and you shall receive. A simple, yet magnificently potent, truth.

By your very thoughts, self-talk and beliefs, you set the scene for determining your manifestations in life. You play a supremely fundamental role in ordaining your successes and your triumphs.

Gear your thoughts to reach your desired outcomes, place yourself in a position of feeling the feelings of peace, joy, fulfilment and relief associated with your desired end-results, and trust that you will enjoy your outcome.

Keep yourself from getting lost in the details of how exactly things will play out to get you to where you want to be.

Trust in the knowledge that your asking with clarity and intentional purpose, and your continually relaxing in a space of feeling it as already done, will get you to where you need to be.

You’re an awesome co-creator with the Divine.

You’re Divinely cared for.

You’re eternally and infinitely loved.

All is well.

HappyWise: Sharmilla 15/06/2018

Love Yourself, More, Always

Love Yourself, More, Always

When’s a good time to love you? How often do you shower yourself with just as much love as you do your dearly beloved ones? When is it okay, ‘good’ or even ‘acceptable’ to love yourself truly, deeply, genuinely, abundantly?

… Now. In every moment. Always. Your greatest, deepest and most constant love lives and thrives within you. As much as your love is for sharing, caring and healing of others’, your love is also one of your greatest, simplest gifts to you.

Treasure this Love of Divine Source energy which sings, dances and celebrates Life within your soul, within every molecule and cell of your being.

This phenomenal support, strength and caring is permanently with you, for you – and shall remain with you in every moment, through eternity.

In times of feeling lost, alone or not understood, your spirit calls out to you more than ever for you to be there for you – to reach for your Higher Self, your Spirit Self.

Regardless of what may be going on in your life – trust, know and rest assured that love-essence is your blessing, your grace.

Love yourself, more, always…

 

HappyWise: Sharmilla: 08/06/2018

When You’re Put Down, Rise Up and Beyond!

When You’re Put Down, Rise Up and Beyond!

Sometimes, not everyone in life supports you. Sometimes the one(s) you think ‘should’ understand you the most may be the very one(s) who seemingly wage battle against you. It’s not always easy to feel good about yourself when the one(s) you care for the most and hold dearest to your heart, put you down. Yet, it’s up to you whether you allow your spirit to be crushed – wallowing in sadness, self-pity and low esteem; or whether you gloriously rise up – meeting your true God-graced self in joyous acceptance and living your life authentic to your vision, calling and expression!

• Choosing to Stay Down:

Consider for a moment that you have no genuine idea of the true reason(s) which contributed to another suppressing you / mocking you / patronizing you. It could have very little to do with you.

Perhaps you being true to yourself triggered a state of unease / discomfort in the other person based on something completely unrelated to you. Or perhaps it brought up feelings of fear or insecurity in the other.

Whatever the reason, know that it’s always your choice whether you choose to stay where another ‘puts you’; or whether you choose to rise up in making a decision on your own path of forward and upward momentum. How about choosing to believe in yourself and supporting yourself in living your best, highest and happiest life?

• Choosing to Rise Up and Beyond!

Think about it for a moment – do you truly believe that the person who put you down was in their best, most aligned state when they minimized you? Or could they perhaps have been dealing with their own feelings – stress, insecurity, guilt, fear…?

Would a person in true peace, alignment and contentment with themselves derogate another? Especially if the person was a loved-one simply living their life in respect and consideration for all? … Most probably not.

Is it not a freeing thought to believe that each person is doing the best that (s)he is able to with the resources they have available, at any specific time, and in any particular situation?

So, how about simply letting go of the criticisms?

Rise up and BE! You have a God-Ordained purpose. The sooner you realize that remaining in a conflicted space due to the actions of another toward you is not worth it, the quicker you can get on with living and expressing your true Divine purpose.

Your Divine purpose beckons you in every moment to rising over, above and beyond any defeat; toward victory, peace, happiness, expression and love.

HappyWise: Sharmilla 07/04/2018

You Control Your Energy

“Energy cannot be created or destroyed”: remember this ‘First Law of Thermodynamics’ (Albert Einstein)? It’s truly amazingly comforting, is it not? It goes on to state, “Energy can only be transferred or changed from one form to another”. Bottom-line is that energy is always available. It comes down to what you choose to do with it. The power to empower yourself by your choices and decisions is in your hands!

• Energy Cannot Be Created or Destroyed:

Think about the sun, for example. It’s always shining gloriously bright. Even at midnight; and yes, even on the cloudiest, foggiest wintry day. It’s just that due to the earth’s rotating motion, we seemingly experience the sun as ‘setting’, ‘rising’, or as having disappeared. The sun is constantly and everlastingly beaming radiantly. So while it appears ‘dark’ at one location, it’s fantastically bright at another location.

Energy is energy. Universal Source energy is always there; abundantly, freely and equally available to all. There’s always more magnificence to what we as humans are able to perceive, experience or see with our eyes at any specific point in time. This is a gift indeed, as light is perpetual and eternal; while ‘darkness’ is merely the absence of light which still exists.

• Your Power to Transform:

If you happen to think of yourself, or any situation in your life, considering the fact that everything is just energy and energy is available bountifully… Isn’t it wonderful to know that within you is an immense natural force and potential to instantaneously transform any state of being from one to another?

You can transform boredom instantly, for example, into motivation and excitement. All you would have to do is change your thoughts. As soon as you think of something new and different to do, your energy of boredom and stagnation triggers to inspiration and action.

Or you can similarly catalyze a state of worry to a state of calm trust and contentment wherein you know that all is okay and in order, simply by choosing your thoughts differently. By the very simple action of altering your thoughts to serve the best in yourself and that which you desire, you literally and physically change the chemical composition of every cell of your being, thereby transforming your energy.

By transforming your energy, you re-direct your life-path.

In each moment, use your God-graced gift to wield your thoughts for your ultimate purpose and outcome.

Sharmilla 24/03/2018

You Were Born to Thrive

You Were Born to Thrive

Life is meant to be happy. Feeling a sense of peace, love, wholeness and contentment with yourself and life is natural. Excitement, wonder, carefreeness and enjoyment are vital states of your being. It only looks wonderful, makes sense and feels amazing for you to thrive, and not merely survive, does it not?

Life is Meant to Be Happy:

• Do you believe that it was the Creator’s intention for you to be happy?

…For sure!

• When you feel worry / anxiety / hurt / pain / doubt / insecurity / boredom, can you identify a state that you were in before?

…Was your mood perhaps one of peace / contentment / joy / acceptance / love / excitement?

• What initiated a change in your state?

…Your thoughts, perhaps?

• How do you feel when you allow all less-than-pleasant thoughts to drift away, even in trying situations?

…Don’t you feel free, happy and in control of your life?

• What stops you from choosing this in every possible moment?

…Remember, every situation is multi-dimensional having multiple perspectives; take what is best for you from any situation and move forward with your empowered choice!

It’s Only Natural for You To Thrive:

• The world is abundant with all things you need, want and desire.

• Source / God intended for you to thrive in fulfillment.

• All is well.

• Being happy, having fun and maintaining a state of calm lightness will ensure you’re moving ever deeper into alignment with your purpose(s) and choices.

Sharmilla 10/03/2017

You Decree Your Destiny

A magnificently amazing potent co-creator with Divine Source is who you are. By your very thoughts, words, intentions, focus and behaviors, you set the scene for the outcomes in your life. Each of these, and each and all of your longings and desires carry with them energy. This energy determines the vibrations you emit, which in turn determines what you attract into your life. The more clear and focused you are, and the more congruent your thoughts, words and behaviors, the greater the influence and impact on your results.

Focus:

Your focus determines where your energy flows. Where your energy flows is a consequence of what you decide to give your attention to and place your awareness on.

It’s a matter of choice.

As you increasingly choose to rid yourself of distractions, interruptions, doubts and insecurities, so you enhance the power of the actualization of your desires by your trust, faith and targeted attention.

Congruency:

Your targeted attention coupled with genuine feelings of ease and belief in your outcome holds the potential of bringing into you the force of untainted alignment.

Alignment, both within yourself and with Source / God / the Universe, is magic in your hands.

Sharmilla 24/02/2018

Embracing Freedom

Embracing Freedom

Aaaah, to be happy and free… The lightness and joy of just ‘being’ – a state available to you in every moment. Regardless of where you are, who you’re with, who and what your commitments and responsibilities are toward, how you may be perceived or judged by another, where you’ve come from or what you’ve done, it is you who is ultimately in control of your each and every moment. By the choices of your thoughts, your points of focus and your responses to situations, circumstances and experiences beyond your control, you hold within yourself the power of your freedom.

Your Thoughts:

Your thoughts… oh, the immensity and the elation of the creative power which lies therein! Yes, by your very thoughts you mold your world. Focus on uplifting, happy thoughts in any circumstance, and you naturally set the scene for the unfoldment of your wellbeing. If things could go wrong, they could also go right!

Allow your thoughts to flow in the direction of your inspiration, and experience yourself gravitate toward exhilaration and fulfilment. Similarly, allow any less-than-satisfying thoughts to drift over, across and past your mind… freely, effortlessly…

Your choices now and in every moment in where you choose to take your mind, lays the foundation for determining the direction of your future and the path you walk forward. The selection of freedom over imprisonment is yours to embrace; choose wisely.

Your Points of Focus:

Blessings abound. You have total and complete freedom of choice in terms of where you place your attention and what you choose to focus upon.

Remember, what you dedicate your energy toward is what and where your life will move toward. Focusing upon the blessings, opportunities, joys and wholesomeness in any situation will ensure that you’re consistently moving along your highest life-path.

Make the best of the rest, permitting yourself a growth of freedom and a freedom of growth.

Your Responses to Situations, Circumstances and Experiences:

Be a victor over the situations, circumstances and experiences you find yourself within. Take the time you need (even, and perhaps especially, when you feel driven to act immediately).

Respond with action after consideration where possible, having guided your thoughts and points of focus intentionally and in awareness for your greatest good.

Trust that there is perfection to be found in even the most challenging of times. All is in Order. Float free in your knowingness and trust in the Greater Plan of Life.

Sharmilla 12/01/2018

Wisdom in Letting Go

Do you long to live and thrive in happiness more often? What’s holding you back? Possibly some of the things which you have in your life, rather than things you don’t have? By assessing your current space and determining your ‘nice’-space / your optimal-space, you have the power to choose whether letting go will feed your happiness.

  • Assess your Current Space:

What sorts of thoughts, feelings, situations and experiences are you predominantly keeping for company these days?

Freedom, lightness, joy, living-in-the-moment? A passion for life? A sense of fulfilment, peace and calm? Love, trust, faith, inner quiet, knowingness and serenity? Are you primarily maintaining these thoughts, feelings and outlooks regardless of the circumstances, situations and experiences which come your way?

Or might you perhaps be leaning primarily toward anxiety, fear, anger, disappointment, sadness, doubt, envy, jealousy? Rejection? Hurt? Pain? Doubt? Uncertainty? Betrayal? Judgement? Worthlessness? Guilt?

Are you perhaps being weighed down by the burden of a secret? Insecurity? Loneliness? Tension? Stress? A need to be perfect? The approval of another? Responsibility that isn’t yours to bear? Being caged in preconceptions? Drama? A mistake made? The past? The future (in your ‘waiting’)?

Your status? Your position? Your title? Your salary?

Are you holding on to a gorgeous pair of shoes that pinch at your little-toe with every step you take? A luxurious coat which you haven’t worn in years ‘cos there hasn’t been a ‘special’ enough occasion to wear it to yet?

  • Determine your ‘Nice’-Space:

With contemplation and an enhanced awareness of the types of thoughts and feelings you predominantly experience, comes your power to choose what type of space you would actually like to be in.

Your thoughts may be random and may also often be based upon subconscious influences, true. Yet it is you who ultimately commands the power and free-will choice of what you hold on to and what you let go of on a conscious level.

By nature’s law, that which you choose to focus on is usually strengthened, while that which you diminish significance toward slackens its power to influence you.

What do you want to strengthen and grow in your life? Your happiness and your freedom? Perhaps your trust and your faith? Peace and calm? If so, that’s where you would do best focusing your attention.

Let the worry and anxiety go; ease up on the doubt (particularly on the self-doubt); and stay clear of the path of being swept up in, or contributing to, chaos and clutter.

  • Choose to Let Go:

Keep in mind that situations and circumstances can change in an instant by factors either within or beyond your control – both whether you choose to hold on to things or whether you choose to let go.

Yet now that you know what benefits your life positively and places you in a ‘nice’-space, it should be easier to let go of those things which don’t; or at least to loosen you attachment to, and the level of significance you attribute to, certain things.

Remember that you choose to hold onto something when it serves a purpose in your life. Only you can determine if the qualities of that purpose and the impact it has upon your life benefits you in the long-term on a human level.

By ‘human level’ I mean that sometimes when you don’t have much / are at rock-bottom, you realize how blessed you are with the simple things which you do have in life. If you lose your job which you placed much significance on, for instance, you come to realize that who you inherently are is not dependent upon the work you did, or upon what others thought of you in your position regardless of how much in others’ esteem you may have been held.

If an illness befalls you, or if you’re involved in an accident and lose a limb; you’re still the same person. Your capabilities may shift, yet your value and your lovability remains. And under such circumstances you may even develop abilities of previously-latent potentials.

Things change. Life changes. The superficial attributions of what society considers to be ‘valuable’ fluctuate from moment to moment, and may even be dependent on what is ‘fashionable’ at a specific time. Your genuine worth and value always remains.

The more often you choose to let go of / reduce the value of non-beneficial elements, the easier it is to do. Your thoughts, attitudes and behaviors sculpt neural pathways in your mind. When you repeat something often enough (for instance, a thought or an action), it becomes easier and easier for your mind to identify with and a pattern is developed. These dominant patterns become your go-to responses in situations.

Why not nurture your go-to-response to being that of letting-go of that which doesn’t impact your life to genuine happiness and joy 😌

Don’t wait on the ‘special’ moments; your every ‘now’ moment is a special moment; choose to make it so, and so will it be 😌

Choose wisely. Let go, breathe, flow free, smile 😌

Sharmilla  01/12/2017

3 Valuably Amazing Things that You Already Have to Be Happy

It’s true, happiness is a subjective thing. What makes another happy may not necessarily make you happy. Yet, your happiness is truly not dependent on any other. Your perspective, your attitude and your action-choices are 3 valuably amazing things that you already have to be happy…

  1. Your Perspective

Have you ever noticed how different things look when you’re standing at a point, or even driving from one point to another; as opposed to the way they look when you scan the picture from an aeroplane or from the vantage point of a high building?

This is just a matter of perspective. From one point, your vision is somewhat limited; from the other, your vision is vastly expanded.

When you’re engulfed in a situation or an experience which doesn’t feel good, gently remind yourself that you’re in a limited-perspective space.

Regardless of what’s going on or how much you may be able to see, know that there’s a bigger picture and more at work than you may be aware of at a certain point in time. And even though all you may see is the dark gloomy clouds, the magnificent sun surely is there!

Choose a perspective which brings you peace and happiness. Trust. Surely from this, light will flow.

  1. Your Attitude

Aaaaah yes, the amazing power of your thoughts! Why not choose to use them wisely, for your own maximum wellbeing and happiness?!

It’s not easy to control your thoughts, I agree; particularly when circumstances challenge. Yet, have you ever considered that you don’t have to control them? Let yourself off the hook, breathe deeeep and eeeasy. Allow your thoughts to flow; while you merely direct them toward a happier outlook and chosen outcome for yourself.

Creating more and deeper levels of happiness and contentment in your life doesn’t have to be an instant thing. Embrace it for what it is – a process of gradual, conscious transformation.

With an attitude of happiness, what quality of experiences will follow, do you think?

  1. Your Action-Choices

Seeing things with an expanded awareness (your perspective) and thinking more positively (your attitude) over a sustained period of time, should have the automatic and joyous side-effect of generating different actions.

The action-choices you make are then but the gifts of your evolved perspective and attitude. And when your action-choices change, know for certain that your experiences will change!

How amazingly and wonderfully powerful is it to know for a fact that you already possess the primary things that you need to be happy?! 😌

Sharmilla 19/11/2017

3 Simply Wicked Reasons to Choose to Be Happy

We all want to be happy. Why? ‘Cos it feels sooOooo damn good. Being in happiness is your free choice. Choosing to be happy is wickedly and naughtily wise because: it revs your allure; it boosts your attraction-factor; it heightens your senses and sensuality…

  1. It revs your allure:

Ever notice how people seem to be intrigued by you when you’re in a state of blissful peace (a.k.a. happy) and they don’t know what’s going on? It’s almost as if they need a reason for you seemingly floating on heavenly clouds of happy-vapor.

And when you can’t ‘justify’ your mood to them, you become even more of a figure of mystique. Hehehehe, keep smiling and keep them wondering – especially if there’s no specific reason for you feeling good, other than your decision to be and feel so!

  1. It boosts your attraction-factor:

Being happy, content and at peace revs up your life-hormones and frees up your creative energy. Most healthy people, either at a conscious or subconscious level, are attracted to the pulsating free-flowing life-energy which is all of creation.

Go on – laugh, dance, play; get creative in whatsoever plain or crazy way you choose!

  1. It heightens your senses and sensuality:

Feeling happy is about exploring and discovering the gifts, blessings and opportunities in every situation and circumstance.

Being in a space of gratitude for all that is, amplifies your awareness; which in turn has a direct correlation with heightening your senses.

And even more exciting is that genuine contented bliss has the promise of enduring beyond a ‘happy’ mind-blowing 15 second orgasm. Aaaaaah, both do come down to feeling good though! 😌

Choose happiness. For in happiness is wisdom, in wisdom is happiness. And the fulfillment of your desires is in your control.

Sharmilla 19/11/2017