Magic In The Ordinary

Magic In The Ordinary:

Let’s run,

Let’s play,

Let’s have lotsa fun

On this magically ordinary day!

You will find what you seek…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

13/02/2020

Dance And Thrive With Each Other:

Dance And Thrive With Each Other:

Your feelings, just like your thoughts, are a choice. You wield power over them, by your chosen perspectives, attention and attitudes.

Complement, co-create, evolve, grow, transform, support, play, dance and thrive together/with each other; or compete with and engage in mind games and power struggles against each other, resultantly dwelling in insecurities due to misaligned perceptions…

It’s simply and solely a matter of what you choose and what you focus upon.

If you feel emasculated, simply by me being me, and by you being you… You have a choice: 1) Step up, empower yourself; or 2) Step out, enjoy yourself.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

22/11/2019

God: My Life-Partner

God: My Life-Partner

Am I looking for marriage? Nope.

Am I looking for authentic connection? Yip, definitely!

What happens if I don’t find authentic connection with a man? I still win! I continue happily, blessedly walking my path with God as my Life-Partner, as I’ve always done…

(Do I think that God has authentic Divine connection with a man, in store for me? Yes, for sure!😉)

Let the basis be true connection, first and foremost, and then let marriage follow, if so be it. Then too, let it be rather a “celebration and declaration of the Sacred Union of togetherness, based upon freedom and mutual evolution”, rather than a “contract of stagnant obligations”.

A relationship-basis on a primary want/need for the ‘idea’ of “marriage”, as opposed to a genuine sacred spiritual foundation of heart-mind-body-soul-connection, just isn’t a turn-on for me 💕🌀💚

HappyWise: Sharmilla

04/11/2019

Have Fun

Have Fun

Be just you. Play. Have fun. Be – at ease.

All is perfect. You’re perfect. The sooner you accept this, the better and better you will feel – emotionally, mentally, physically.

Disease merely originates from a state of dis-ease. Create, live and thrive in environments which support, nourish and replenish you.

Your power of choice is always available to you – regardless of what you may be facing or going through.

Seek the fun and lightness; watch and experience the joyfulness and health follow you☺️

You’re amazing. Already!

Play, have some fun! … Have as much fun as you possibly can! Make it your goal!😃 Commit to fun!

HappyWise: Sharmilla

09/11/2018

You’re Perfectly Where You’re Supposed To Be

You’re Perfectly Where You’re Supposed To Be

All is well, dear one. You’re doing great. You’re on your path. If perhaps you’re not precisely where you envisaged yourself being – trust that you’re still perfectly where you’re supposed to be.

Love being where you are.

Appreciate yourself for exactly where you are.

Play and have fun, where you are!

You’ve come a long way, indeed.

You’re amazingly phenomenally on track in the Bigger Scheme of Divinity’s Plan.

Relax. Breathe. Dance free.

Flow with ease and gratitude in your every now moment.

Trust that you will eternally continue moving effortlessly forward on your wondrous life journey…

HappyWise: Sharmilla 14/07/2018

Surrender, Fly Free To Succeed

Surrender, Fly Free To Succeed

Control may be a positive quality when it comes to discipline, responsibility, focus and accountability, for instance. It may oftentimes be the fuel behind your perseverance and successes in life. Yet, have you ever noticed the difference in the quality of your feelings between achieving a goal:

When you’ve been in a surrendered and trusting state and space

As opposed to:

• When you’ve been in an anxiety-filled, rigid and controlling state and space?

Does there seem to be a distinct difference in the quality of each?

Controlling Your Way To Success:

How does aiming to be in control all of the time, make you feel? Does it relax you? Does it make you feel like you’re conquering the world in an ordered, prepared and sequential way?

Does it stress you out? Does it leave you feeling like you’re living on-edge?

A fact of life is that we cannot control everything. It’s in the nature of things to be changing.

As much as one may succeed at controlling a very large portion of his / her life, one still cannot predict absolutely everything. A reasonably large portion of life is unknown – dependent upon various factors aside from oneself.

What happens then, when you encounter something that’s beyond your control? How do you feel? How do you react? Do you clamor to make sense of things and to restore ‘order’ and ‘control’ as you know it? Or, are you able to easily accept, adapt and go with the flow?

Surrendering Your Way To Success:

There’s great strength and power in intentionally choosing to surrender. It calls for deep trust – in yourself, in the Universe.

Surrender is one of the most amazing gifts you will ever bestow on yourself.

Allowing you to be in the moment, to live fully and wholly, and to experience life from a space and state of freedom, joy and relief – surrender is being at one with Divine Grace.

Living from a place of surrender will ensure that you always succeed – for from such a place of trust and faith, all is and always will be well. You know, for a fact, that you will always be Divinely Guided.

As an added bonus, you – in wisdom – allow yourself the opportunity to live your life in a continual state of ease and bliss, minus having to be perfect or to have all be perfect. Thriving from a feeling-space of ease and bliss will surely attract greater quantities and qualities of the same to you, as you gently perfect the art of surrendering…

HappyWise: Sharmilla 12/06/2018

Take Care of Yourself

Take Care of Yourself

Caring for yourself may be one of the most selfless things you can do for yourself, or for any other. You’re your best when you’re cared for, loved, appreciated and valued. Who better to do this for you than you yourself? Looking externally to others or to circumstances to an extreme extent is inessential. Once you seek, find and express internally with yourself, the external will take care of itself, flowing automatically, naturally…

Your Primary Connection is With Yourself & The Divine:

Caring for yourself is an intimate dance of connecting with yourself. How you choose to connect with yourself or care for yourself is completely up to you. Do whatever makes you feel good. Do it often and in generous doses.

Connecting with yourself at a spirit / soul level may be your foundation for feeling at your best. Caring for yourself in this case may involve meditation, prayer or communication / communion with the Divine in whatever form this may take for you. Listen to guidance from within and talk to yourself with loving kindness. Grow into yourself with appreciation and gratitude for all that you are and for all that is.

At a different – yet interconnected – level, caring for your physical self plays a significant role in self-care. Nourishing your body with movement / exercise, wholesome delectable foods and water, love, touch, sunshine, relaxation and breathing with greater awareness may be a few of the ways you choose to value your physical self. Trusting your body and listening to it will also enhance your vitality. Be assured that your immaculate body is working for your ultimate health and wellbeing always – be kind and loving toward it. Rest sufficiently.

Exploring and discovering new, varied things – about yourself and about the world – may call out to your mind, body, spirit and heart. Engage in activities that soothe your soul, excite your being, add joy and living to your life and broaden your perspectives! Sing or whistle a tune arising spontaneously from your depths..

Perfection in caring for yourself is all about what’s perfect for you at a specific time and in a specific context. Have fun with it and listen always to your inner-guidance which arises from Source. Dance to your own rhythm.

Your Secondary Connection is With All Others:

All of Life is connected. You’re always at One with all.

Being in a state of peace, love and connection with yourself will bring to you the gift of all other connections in your life flowing with enhanced ease, freedom, harmony and grace.

You will marvel at fresh connections of synchronicity that present you with increasing opportunities of choice and decision. You will witness your path blossoming into one of undeniable fusion with self, with Source, with all.

Balance, connect and align within; you will assuredly balance, connect and align with All.

HappyWise: Sharmilla 05/05/2018

You Were Born to Thrive

You Were Born to Thrive

Life is meant to be happy. Feeling a sense of peace, love, wholeness and contentment with yourself and life is natural. Excitement, wonder, carefreeness and enjoyment are vital states of your being. It only looks wonderful, makes sense and feels amazing for you to thrive, and not merely survive, does it not?

Life is Meant to Be Happy:

• Do you believe that it was the Creator’s intention for you to be happy?

…For sure!

• When you feel worry / anxiety / hurt / pain / doubt / insecurity / boredom, can you identify a state that you were in before?

…Was your mood perhaps one of peace / contentment / joy / acceptance / love / excitement?

• What initiated a change in your state?

…Your thoughts, perhaps?

• How do you feel when you allow all less-than-pleasant thoughts to drift away, even in trying situations?

…Don’t you feel free, happy and in control of your life?

• What stops you from choosing this in every possible moment?

…Remember, every situation is multi-dimensional having multiple perspectives; take what is best for you from any situation and move forward with your empowered choice!

It’s Only Natural for You To Thrive:

• The world is abundant with all things you need, want and desire.

• Source / God intended for you to thrive in fulfillment.

• All is well.

• Being happy, having fun and maintaining a state of calm lightness will ensure you’re moving ever deeper into alignment with your purpose(s) and choices.

Sharmilla 10/03/2017

Freedom and Joy is Yours

Freedom and Joy is Yours

At your core, you’re free. The essence of who you are is a spirit of joy and freedom. So, freedom is already a part of you, just like joy is. There’s no need to strive for it, search for it, or work toward it. All you have to do is recognize its presence, allow it to be as significant a part of your life as you desire, and enjoy it.

• Freedom:

What are you truly? Are you your career, or your relationship-status? Perhaps a mum, a dad, a sibling, a manager, an employee, a sports(wo)man, a politician, a student, a leader, a man, a woman? Yes, you may be one or more of these; however, minus the labels you’re simply a human being.

In your pure human state, before the labels of what you do, how you’re defined, or what you’ve accumulated through your life, you’re simply a human being. A spirit with a body, doing your best to thrive in a human-conditioned experience.

And in your core immaculate human state, you’re a light free being of love and bliss. You may sometimes tend to think that just as you’ve had to acquire and accrue all in your life, that you also have to endeavor toward freedom or joy.

Yet the absolute glorious beauty is that freedom and joy are both already yours. It’s what was there at the very beginning; it’s what will always remain once all the layers of identity have been peeled away.

Your amazing power lies in being aware of, recognizing and embracing the constant eternal availability of this flexibility and liberty in your life. Bring it into your awareness, truly feel it, and live it in any situation and experience your desire. It’s simply your choice.

• Joy:

L your inherent internal eternal freedom in any situation or experience is integral to knowing that joy is yours.

Freedom of choice is yours. It is you who ultimately determines what you want to make of a situation. You choose how to respond and proceed from any given point.

Your feelings are actually within your control. They arise with your thoughts. Steer and guide your thoughts in a favorable direction in any situation, and you simultaneously successfully shift your emotions.

Your natural state is joy, so you don’t have to chase after it. It’s already with you, within you.

Let go of the worry, the doubt, the anxiety – you will find that all that remains is peace, calm, love and happiness. Flow with its beauty, dance with its energy, laugh with its frivolity – for as long as you fancy.

Sharmilla 03/02/2018