PREPARATION + PATIENCE = POWER.
PREPARATION + PATIENCE = POWER.
Learning is inspiring, is thriving…
Ever notice how learning something new that you’re truly passionate about, and that’s meaningful and purposeful, is definitely joy and life-inspiring – which then in turn leads to your overall thriving – which then in turn, leads to you living your life in harmony and at your highest vibration?
Yep! The energy and inspiration of growth that comes from learning, is definitely also fuel for overall expansion and evolution!
…What, and how, are you in the process of learning? … 😌 How are you making yourself available for your own thriving? 😌
Thank You, Dearest Divine, for all of Your Blessings in 2020…
Many Gifts of insight, internal reflection, prioritization, re-prioritization, valuation, worth, appreciation, faith, trust, gratitude, wisdom, discernment, love, choice, free-will, affirmation, simplicity, light, grace, humility, Divine Connection, Sacred Union, joy, etc. were so very generously Showered upon us all.
We are thankful and appreciative.
You have the ability to receive precisely as much as you can conceive, believe, trust and allow…
Thank You, Life, for your phenomenally wondrous, magical, life-transforming SURPRISES!
Love Eternal, Is Love Internal…
Take the love in your heart wherever you go, and know that you’ll always be loved…
Love eternal, is love internal!
May the Basis of Commitment be Freedom:
May the basis of commitment be freedom.
Commit to being with me, for as long as you’re happiest with me. Commit to loving me, for as long as you genuinely continue to. Commit to growing with me, for as long as we continue to be stimulating, both individually and together. Commit to exploring and discovering with me, for as long as we continue to play and thrive together. Commit to evolving with me, for as long as we continue to appreciate and transcend the physical and the material and all of its associated blisses and contrasting ‘challenges’, toward greater spiritual depths of integration, inspiration, transmutation and transformation.
Commit to being faithful to Divine and to yourself, first and foremost, for as long as you’re faithful to me. Commit to honoring Divine and yourself, first and foremost, for as long as you honor me. Commit to being ever-true to yourself, first and foremost, for as long as you continually choose to be with me.
…May the essence of your commitment to me, forever be freedom, which in itself is love…
Solutions of Simplification:
If there’s a problem facing you, trust that you will also have many solutions facing you – look toward the solution of simplification, rather than to the solution of complication.
Thank You, Divine, for the goodness in the world.
Meet, Greet, Intimate
Your fears will transform almost instantly when you meet them, greet them, face them and become as intimate as you need to with them, to sort them out; not when you run from them…
All Will Be Well:
All will be well, for it’s already done!
Trust, have faith, flow, relax, surrender…
Do you smile when you’re happy?😌
…Or, do smiles make one happy?!☺️
Freedom, is having nothing to lose; and everything to gain…
Life is about evolving. Evolving is about transformation and change. Sometimes life gives you no option but to evolve. Sometimes, you’re brave enough, faithful enough, ‘crazy enough’, wise enough and courageous enough to choose evolution and transformation on your own. When you do, you venture out from your pristine comfort-zone, into the vast unknown. Lots may be uncertain and unfamiliar. What is always, assuredly, constant though – is Divine Guidance. Trust It. Flow with It. Be happy in It. It will have you “live” more authentically, more fully, more magically and more holistically wholesomely, than staying in a predictable, routine, ‘safe’ comfort-zone ever would. …And then, get familiar with It, ‘cos It’s going to call out to you again, and again, and again…
Feel It, Be It…
When you feel it, being it is natural.
When you sprout wings, it becomes your very nature to continually soar ever-higher, ever-freer and ever-expansively…
Your Guaranteed Way Of Harnessing Different Results, Is Simply By Thinking, Feeling, Being And Doing Differently.
Eyes ‘Open’, Eyes Closed…
In Simply Closing My Eyes And Looking Upon The Sun,
I Am Transported To Worlds More Real, More Magical, And More Supremely Powerful Than I Have Ever Seen Or Experienced With My Eyes Fully “Open”…
Is Your Clearest ‘Vision’ External, Or Is It Internal?
STOP, to BE…
Start to STOP.
STOP, to BE.
Explore Beyond The Known…
Be eager about the unknown…
Anticipate the wondrous places it leads you to!
THERE’S WORLDS TO EXPLORE BEYOND THE “KNOWN”…
Look forward… Your future is waiting to meet you.
Play Nice Together:
Regardless of where you may be located geographically, or what you may be facing in your specific context, why not choose love, unity and global cooperation?
The human condition is common to you, to me, to all. Everyone smiles, everyone laughs, everyone cries, everyone hurts, everyone hopes, everyone dreams…
Let’s choose to see not the ‘other’, but One. Let’s choose to love as One, rather than to choose suffering and illusory ‘national’ or other separation. No policy or procedures required!
In a world where Divinity reigns, unity is a way of life.
🌀💚❤️Let’s play nice together.🌀💚❤️
All Is Divine Order:
Yes, it is🌀💕💚🌀
I Am Freedom At My Most Powerful I Am Lovingly Betroth To Responsibility And Accountability.
Blessed With The Best:
The BEST exists in everything… Yes, even in the seemingly worst.
When you’re someone who makes the best of anything and everything, you’re a creator of your own destiny.
Be blessed with the best!
Dance And Thrive With Each Other:
Your feelings, just like your thoughts, are a choice. You wield power over them, by your chosen perspectives, attention and attitudes.
Complement, co-create, evolve, grow, transform, support, play, dance and thrive together/with each other; or compete with and engage in mind games and power struggles against each other, resultantly dwelling in insecurities due to misaligned perceptions…
It’s simply and solely a matter of what you choose and what you focus upon.
If you feel emasculated, simply by me being me, and by you being you… You have a choice: 1) Step up, empower yourself; or 2) Step out, enjoy yourself.
GOD BLESS THE RAINDROPS…
I feel raindrops…
Raindrops feel me…
God bless the raindrops!
God bless me!
You, me, the rain, the stars, the moon, the sun, the trees, the seas, the breeze, the birds, the fish, the frogs, the moody geese… We are all One… Made of the same energy, emerged from One Consciousness.
Revel, sometimes, in appreciation and the joy of being kissed by the raindrops, rather than always bolting toward sheltered protection (even though we remain so very appreciative of and thankful for the blessings of comfy sturdy homes, wholesome meals, piped water for hot refreshing showers, electricity, etc.)
…What if… The rain feels you, as much as you feel the rain? ☺️
Feel the blessings of your Divine connectedness with All That Is!
It Is What You Make Of It:
All anything ever is, is what you make of it…
Your choices of attributed meanings…
Make it work for your best and for your highest well-being!!!
God: My Life-Partner
Am I looking for marriage? Nope.
Am I looking for authentic connection? Yip, definitely!
What happens if I don’t find authentic connection with a man? I still win! I continue happily, blessedly walking my path with God as my Life-Partner, as I’ve always done…
(Do I think that God has authentic Divine connection with a man, in store for me? Yes, for sure!😉)
Let the basis be true connection, first and foremost, and then let marriage follow, if so be it. Then too, let it be rather a “celebration and declaration of the Sacred Union of togetherness, based upon freedom and mutual evolution”, rather than a “contract of stagnant obligations”.
A relationship-basis on a primary want/need for the ‘idea’ of “marriage”, as opposed to a genuine sacred spiritual foundation of heart-mind-body-soul-connection, just isn’t a turn-on for me 💕🌀💚
Blessed to be working with the most amazing, wondrous, beautiful people!
And SO appreciative too!
Find and live your joys in as many ways and in as many moments as you can! Beauty, grace and wonder abounds!
Your power is in your clarity!
Re-Align With Your Highest Value-Adding Priorities:
Live your best life.
Assess and re-align with your highest value-adding priorities.
Leading-Edge Of Thought, Feeling and Creation:
Learning from the brilliant, wondrous, magical, free-spirited minds and hearts of kids is some of the most terrific education around!
Observe, engage, celebrate, honor and take some lessons from these little beings who are on the leading-edge of thought, feeling and creation…
Diversity, Authenticity, Freedom…
Change yourself for nobody but yourself.
Change nobody for yourself.
Diversity, authenticity and freedom are Divine Gifts to be honored.
EVERYTHING’S OK…NOW, ALWAYS!
I thought it would be nice to have a man tell me, “Everything’s gona be ok”…Then I felt my wise-old-all-knowing-perfectly-balanced inner-being say to me: “Aaah, sweetness! Everything’s ok…Now, Always!”
Remember that you are a whole, complete being. You have all necessary resources within yourself to live a loving, happy, supported, appreciative, rest-assured, re-assured, Divinely guided, blessed life.
All Is Well. Always. Forevermore…
DIRECT CONNECTION WITH THE DIVINE:
You already have access to your most intimate relationship with the Divine, within you. The more often you connect with your inner being, the more you flow with the abundant, eternal well-being of All-That-Is.
Love, nurture and frolic with this most significant primary relationship in your life!
Life Is As Sweetly Indulgent As You Allow It To Be:
Wellbeing and Divine All-That-Is is forever flowing to you. Whether you choose to see, feel, allow, experience and enjoy it, is your choice. Together with the Divine, you are a powerful co-creator of your life.
You Sculpt Your Fate
You’re a magnificently, magically powerful part of Consciousness. By your every thought, choice, decision and action, you sculpt your fate. You’re a potent co-creator in what’s ordained. Embrace your own vital role in your life with trust, confidence, joy, love, freedom, wisdom and playfulness. Sculpt your fate.
Harness Your Magic
Listen, to your own voice.
Hold, your own hand.
Gaze tenderly, into your own eyes.
Dance, with the brilliance of your Highest Self.
You’re magical. Phenomenal. Beautiful.
Everything you need is within you.
You have access to all answers, all solutions, all possibilities.
The love, acceptance, support, inspiration, acknowledgement, advice, approval, happiness which you seek – be it, and gift it from yourself unto yourself, first and foremost.
Naught which doesn’t first arise from within will purely come from without.
Trust in your magic. Dance with the brilliance of your Highest Self.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 13/10/2018
Focus on Happiness
Focusing on something, anything, which brings a feeling of joy, ease and gratitude to your soul – in any situation or circumstance – is potentially one of the most empowering things you can do for yourself.
Whether you recall the feelings of a past happy moment / experience, whether you dream up / imagine / create a future happy experience with blissful feelings associated, or whether you actually live your bliss in a now moment in your life, trust that the happy feelings you recall / create / live – attract similar energies to you, thereby summoning a future of similar delightful, fulfilling energy vibrations and experiences to your reality.
Focusing on happiness, regardless of what may be going on around you, will ensure that you maximize your life by making the best of any and every situation.
The magical power of shaping your present and your future lies in your hands. By your outlook, choices, decisions and resultant focus, you design and actualize your life-experiences.
One of the wisest, most powerful actions you can take to ensure a life of peace and bliss is to focus on happiness in as many instances as possible.
So focus… On happiness…
HappyWise: Sharmilla 24/08/2018
Choosing Your Feelings Is Your Power
You choose your emotions – in every moment. Regardless of what may be going on in your life or what you may be facing, know that the way you choose to feel about any situation whatsoever comes down to you.
Nobody and nothing holds more power, sway or influence in determining your emotions than you yourself do.
Seize this blessing and gift as your opportunity – either to continue feeling the way you do, or to change the way you feel.
Your emotions are your guide – they indicate to you when you’re in-tune with your highest self, or when you may need to come back into your place of authenticity.
They are your strength. You’re not ever at the mercy of your emotions. Neither do your emotions control your life.
You command your emotions.
And as you command, so you attract. When you choose to rise above a situation / feeling, forever reaching higher toward a better feeling, know and trust that you’re well on your way to the highest and best for yourself.
Fulfillment, love, trust, freedom, peace, faith, inspiration, joy… these are eternally there – waiting for you to take a hold of… to let into the very fibre of your being and life.
Why choose otherwise, when you hold the power to choose the best feelings for yourself in each and every moment!
HappyWise: Sharmilla 30/06/2018
You’re Your Wisest Guide
Trust yourself, dear one. Travel within to your core. Therein lies all answers and solutions to everything.
You’ve been created magnificent by an Omniscient Being. Just as your children are made of your genes / you’re born from the genes of your parents, so too do you carry within your very self the energy of your Divine Creator.
You’re wiser than you give yourself credit for. Become increasingly aware of who you really are – a remarkable being, pulsating Divine Source energy.
All you seek from the Divine, you already have within you. Trust yourself. Love yourself. Allow and accept the best for yourself.
Have fun and be in joy, as you allow the Divine to flow within you, and from you, forever Guiding you through your very own inspired thoughts, dreams, feelings, prayers, wishes, visions, invocations…
Be with you. You’re enchantingly wise.
Sharmilla: HappyWise 19/06/2018
Set Your Default to ‘Happy’
Remember that regardless of what may be going on in your life, you always have the freedom and power to actively choose how you feel.
Grow and train yourself into a habit of feeling peace, contentment and happiness. This will ensure that even and especially in tougher, trying times, it will be easy and automatic for you to gravitate toward happiness.
Sometimes when you experience equilibrium in your feelings, you may find it easier to move toward less-than-affirming emotions such as worry or anxiety. A reason for this is that you crave feeling something.
Have you considered, however, why it may be more effortless for you to sway toward a feeling of emptiness rather than fulfillment, or a feeling of anxiousness rather than trust, for instance?
Yes, it’s simply an outcome of the way you’ve trained your mind.
Know that it’s just as simple for you to re-train your mind, to suite and serve your own purposes and intentions.
Given a choice – and it indeed is given –choose affirming feelings of wellbeing, vitality, peace, trust, freedom, joy… Make it your go-to response and behavior.
It’s about time you set your default to happiness, isn’t it?!
HappyWise: Sharmilla: 16/06/2018
You Hold All Solutions and Answers
Within yourself, you hold splendid solutions to all challenges you may face. You also hold informing answers to all questions you may have. As an integral and indispensable fragment of Source-energy and all of Life, you are graced with enduring access to infinite Divine Intelligence.
•Accessing Solutions And Answers:
Ask and you shall receive. A simple, yet magnificently potent, truth.
By your very thoughts, self-talk and beliefs, you set the scene for determining your manifestations in life. You play a supremely fundamental role in ordaining your successes and your triumphs.
Gear your thoughts to reach your desired outcomes, place yourself in a position of feeling the feelings of peace, joy, fulfilment and relief associated with your desired end-results, and trust that you will enjoy your outcome.
Keep yourself from getting lost in the details of how exactly things will play out to get you to where you want to be.
Trust in the knowledge that your asking with clarity and intentional purpose, and your continually relaxing in a space of feeling it as already done, will get you to where you need to be.
You’re an awesome co-creator with the Divine.
You’re Divinely cared for.
You’re eternally and infinitely loved.
All is well.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 15/06/2018
Take Care of Yourself
Caring for yourself may be one of the most selfless things you can do for yourself, or for any other. You’re your best when you’re cared for, loved, appreciated and valued. Who better to do this for you than you yourself? Looking externally to others or to circumstances to an extreme extent is inessential. Once you seek, find and express internally with yourself, the external will take care of itself, flowing automatically, naturally…
•Your Primary Connection is With Yourself & The Divine:
Caring for yourself is an intimate dance of connecting with yourself. How you choose to connect with yourself or care for yourself is completely up to you. Do whatever makes you feel good. Do it often and in generous doses.
Connecting with yourself at a spirit / soul level may be your foundation for feeling at your best. Caring for yourself in this case may involve meditation, prayer or communication / communion with the Divine in whatever form this may take for you. Listen to guidance from within and talk to yourself with loving kindness. Grow into yourself with appreciation and gratitude for all that you are and for all that is.
At a different – yet interconnected – level, caring for your physical self plays a significant role in self-care. Nourishing your body with movement / exercise, wholesome delectable foods and water, love, touch, sunshine, relaxation and breathing with greater awareness may be a few of the ways you choose to value your physical self. Trusting your body and listening to it will also enhance your vitality. Be assured that your immaculate body is working for your ultimate health and wellbeing always – be kind and loving toward it. Rest sufficiently.
Exploring and discovering new, varied things – about yourself and about the world – may call out to your mind, body, spirit and heart. Engage in activities that soothe your soul, excite your being, add joy and living to your life and broaden your perspectives! Sing or whistle a tune arising spontaneously from your depths..
Perfection in caring for yourself is all about what’s perfect for you at a specific time and in a specific context. Have fun with it and listen always to your inner-guidance which arises from Source. Dance to your own rhythm.
•Your Secondary Connection is With All Others:
All of Life is connected. You’re always at One with all.
Being in a state of peace, love and connection with yourself will bring to you the gift of all other connections in your life flowing with enhanced ease, freedom, harmony and grace.
You will marvel at fresh connections of synchronicity that present you with increasing opportunities of choice and decision. You will witness your path blossoming into one of undeniable fusion with self, with Source, with all.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 05/05/2018
When You’re Put Down, Rise Up and Beyond!
Sometimes, not everyone in life supports you. Sometimes the one(s) you think ‘should’ understand you the most may be the very one(s) who seemingly wage battle against you. It’s not always easy to feel good about yourself when the one(s) you care for the most and hold dearest to your heart, put you down. Yet, it’s up to you whether you allow your spirit to be crushed – wallowing in sadness, self-pity and low esteem; or whether you gloriously rise up – meeting your true God-graced self in joyous acceptance and living your life authentic to your vision, calling and expression!
• Choosing to Stay Down:
Consider for a moment that you have no genuine idea of the true reason(s) which contributed to another suppressing you / mocking you / patronizing you. It could have very little to do with you.
Perhaps you being true to yourself triggered a state of unease / discomfort in the other person based on something completely unrelated to you. Or perhaps it brought up feelings of fear or insecurity in the other.
Whatever the reason, know that it’s always your choice whether you choose to stay where another ‘puts you’; or whether you choose to rise up in making a decision on your own path of forward and upward momentum. How about choosing to believe in yourself and supporting yourself in living your best, highest and happiest life?
• Choosing to Rise Up and Beyond!
Think about it for a moment – do you truly believe that the person who put you down was in their best, most aligned state when they minimized you? Or could they perhaps have been dealing with their own feelings – stress, insecurity, guilt, fear…?
Would a person in true peace, alignment and contentment with themselves derogate another? Especially if the person was a loved-one simply living their life in respect and consideration for all? … Most probably not.
Is it not a freeing thought to believe that each person is doing the best that (s)he is able to with the resources they have available, at any specific time, and in any particular situation?
So, how about simply letting go of the criticisms?
Rise up and BE! You have a God-Ordained purpose. The sooner you realize that remaining in a conflicted space due to the actions of another toward you is not worth it, the quicker you can get on with living and expressing your true Divine purpose.
Your Divine purpose beckons you in every moment to rising over, above and beyond any defeat; toward victory, peace, happiness, expression and love.
HappyWise: Sharmilla 07/04/2018
“Energy cannot be created or destroyed”: remember this ‘First Law of Thermodynamics’ (Albert Einstein)? It’s truly amazingly comforting, is it not? It goes on to state, “Energy can only be transferred or changed from one form to another”. Bottom-line is that energy is always available. It comes down to what you choose to do with it. The power to empower yourself by your choices and decisions is in your hands!
• Energy Cannot Be Created or Destroyed:
Think about the sun, for example. It’s always shining gloriously bright. Even at midnight; and yes, even on the cloudiest, foggiest wintry day. It’s just that due to the earth’s rotating motion, we seemingly experience the sun as ‘setting’, ‘rising’, or as having disappeared. The sun is constantly and everlastingly beaming radiantly. So while it appears ‘dark’ at one location, it’s fantastically bright at another location.
Energy is energy. Universal Source energy is always there; abundantly, freely and equally available to all. There’s always more magnificence to what we as humans are able to perceive, experience or see with our eyes at any specific point in time. This is a gift indeed, as light is perpetual and eternal; while ‘darkness’ is merely the absence of light which still exists.
• Your Power to Transform:
If you happen to think of yourself, or any situation in your life, considering the fact that everything is just energy and energy is available bountifully… Isn’t it wonderful to know that within you is an immense natural force and potential to instantaneously transform any state of being from one to another?
You can transform boredom instantly, for example, into motivation and excitement. All you would have to do is change your thoughts. As soon as you think of something new and different to do, your energy of boredom and stagnation triggers to inspiration and action.
Or you can similarly catalyze a state of worry to a state of calm trust and contentment wherein you know that all is okay and in order, simply by choosing your thoughts differently. By the very simple action of altering your thoughts to serve the best in yourself and that which you desire, you literally and physically change the chemical composition of every cell of your being, thereby transforming your energy.
By transforming your energy, you re-direct your life-path.
In each moment, use your God-graced gift to wield your thoughts for your ultimate purpose and outcome.
You hold a magnificent power within you to influence your world and the world itself. All that’s required is for you to recognize, grasp and carve this capability to suit your intentions and purpose. You will find that the outcomes yielding you maximum happiness, peace and fulfilment are achievable, regardless of what may be going on around you. Listen to your own voice; deliberately guide and steer your results by your own decisions, priorities and focus.
• Voices of Others’ and External Happenings:
Getting caught-up in the chatter and the voices of others’ may be all too easy. This could be a great thing when such voices are in harmony with your own internal voice of wisdom.
Be aware of, and continually actively assess, whether the voices you allow yourself to tune in to are in alignment with your highest good and the outcome(s) you wish to achieve.
Does going with the flow of gloominess, especially during periods of transition or change, for instance, serve your wellbeing in any way? The opinions, judgements and criticisms of others’ will always be there.
You have within you the facility of discernment and reasoning. Choose to embrace, value and exercise it for obtaining the most wholesome harvests in your life!
• Your Voice:
Yes, your internal voice may sometimes seem quieter than the external loud vocalizations of those around you. Yet your internal voice of wisdom is perhaps one of your greatest and most powerful gifts and connections to Source.
It knows you. It’s been with you throughout your life and through all of your life-experiences. It’s gotten you through some pretty trying circumstances and situations.
Trust your internal voice of wisdom and encouragement. Make it one of the primary guiding authorities in your life.
That gentle voice which comes to you in your quietest calmest moments is your thoughts of trust, faith and sunshine. It is the foundational key by which you may deliberately guide and steer your results.
Take your decisions, and establish your priorities and focus from it. The potential for change as you would like it is within you at each and every moment.
Effortlessly and freely choose, moment by moment, to transform any situation or experience for reaping your happiest life.
Freedom and Joy is Yours
At your core, you’re free. The essence of who you are is a spirit of joy and freedom. So, freedom is already a part of you, just like joy is. There’s no need to strive for it, search for it, or work toward it. All you have to do is recognize its presence, allow it to be as significant a part of your life as you desire, and enjoy it.
What are you truly? Are you your career, or your relationship-status? Perhaps a mum, a dad, a sibling, a manager, an employee, a sports(wo)man, a politician, a student, a leader, a man, a woman? Yes, you may be one or more of these; however, minus the labels you’re simply a human being.
In your pure human state, before the labels of what you do, how you’re defined, or what you’ve accumulated through your life, you’re simply a human being. A spirit with a body, doing your best to thrive in a human-conditioned experience.
And in your core immaculate human state, you’re a light free being of love and bliss. You may sometimes tend to think that just as you’ve had to acquire and accrue all in your life, that you also have to endeavor toward freedom or joy.
Yet the absolute glorious beauty is that freedom and joy are both already yours. It’s what was there at the very beginning; it’s what will always remain once all the layers of identity have been peeled away.
Your amazing power lies in being aware of, recognizing and embracing the constant eternal availability of this flexibility and liberty in your life. Bring it into your awareness, truly feel it, and live it in any situation and experience your desire. It’s simply your choice.
Freedom of choice is yours. It is you who ultimately determines what you want to make of a situation. You choose how to respond and proceed from any given point.
Your feelings are actually within your control. They arise with your thoughts. Steer and guide your thoughts in a favorable direction in any situation, and you simultaneously successfully shift your emotions.
Your natural state is joy, so you don’t have to chase after it. It’s already with you, within you.
Let go of the worry, the doubt, the anxiety – you will find that all that remains is peace, calm, love and happiness. Flow with its beauty, dance with its energy, laugh with its frivolity – for as long as you fancy.
Do you long to live and thrive in happiness more often? What’s holding you back? Possibly some of the things which you have in your life, rather than things you don’t have? By assessing your current space and determining your ‘nice’-space / your optimal-space, you have the power to choose whether letting go will feed your happiness.
What sorts of thoughts, feelings, situations and experiences are you predominantly keeping for company these days?
Freedom, lightness, joy, living-in-the-moment? A passion for life? A sense of fulfilment, peace and calm? Love, trust, faith, inner quiet, knowingness and serenity? Are you primarily maintaining these thoughts, feelings and outlooks regardless of the circumstances, situations and experiences which come your way?
Or might you perhaps be leaning primarily toward anxiety, fear, anger, disappointment, sadness, doubt, envy, jealousy? Rejection? Hurt? Pain? Doubt? Uncertainty? Betrayal? Judgement? Worthlessness? Guilt?
Are you perhaps being weighed down by the burden of a secret? Insecurity? Loneliness? Tension? Stress? A need to be perfect? The approval of another? Responsibility that isn’t yours to bear? Being caged in preconceptions? Drama? A mistake made? The past? The future (in your ‘waiting’)?
Your status? Your position? Your title? Your salary?
Are you holding on to a gorgeous pair of shoes that pinch at your little-toe with every step you take? A luxurious coat which you haven’t worn in years ‘cos there hasn’t been a ‘special’ enough occasion to wear it to yet?
With contemplation and an enhanced awareness of the types of thoughts and feelings you predominantly experience, comes your power to choose what type of space you would actually like to be in.
Your thoughts may be random and may also often be based upon subconscious influences, true. Yet it is you who ultimately commands the power and free-will choice of what you hold on to and what you let go of on a conscious level.
By nature’s law, that which you choose to focus on is usually strengthened, while that which you diminish significance toward slackens its power to influence you.
What do you want to strengthen and grow in your life? Your happiness and your freedom? Perhaps your trust and your faith? Peace and calm? If so, that’s where you would do best focusing your attention.
Let the worry and anxiety go; ease up on the doubt (particularly on the self-doubt); and stay clear of the path of being swept up in, or contributing to, chaos and clutter.
Keep in mind that situations and circumstances can change in an instant by factors either within or beyond your control – both whether you choose to hold on to things or whether you choose to let go.
Yet now that you know what benefits your life positively and places you in a ‘nice’-space, it should be easier to let go of those things which don’t; or at least to loosen you attachment to, and the level of significance you attribute to, certain things.
Remember that you choose to hold onto something when it serves a purpose in your life. Only you can determine if the qualities of that purpose and the impact it has upon your life benefits you in the long-term on a human level.
By ‘human level’ I mean that sometimes when you don’t have much / are at rock-bottom, you realize how blessed you are with the simple things which you do have in life. If you lose your job which you placed much significance on, for instance, you come to realize that who you inherently are is not dependent upon the work you did, or upon what others thought of you in your position regardless of how much in others’ esteem you may have been held.
If an illness befalls you, or if you’re involved in an accident and lose a limb; you’re still the same person. Your capabilities may shift, yet your value and your lovability remains. And under such circumstances you may even develop abilities of previously-latent potentials.
Things change. Life changes. The superficial attributions of what society considers to be ‘valuable’ fluctuate from moment to moment, and may even be dependent on what is ‘fashionable’ at a specific time. Your genuine worth and value always remains.
The more often you choose to let go of / reduce the value of non-beneficial elements, the easier it is to do. Your thoughts, attitudes and behaviors sculpt neural pathways in your mind. When you repeat something often enough (for instance, a thought or an action), it becomes easier and easier for your mind to identify with and a pattern is developed. These dominant patterns become your go-to responses in situations.
Why not nurture your go-to-response to being that of letting-go of that which doesn’t impact your life to genuine happiness and joy 😌
Don’t wait on the ‘special’ moments; your every ‘now’ moment is a special moment; choose to make it so, and so will it be 😌
Choose wisely. Let go, breathe, flow free, smile 😌