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Take Yourself Everywhere You Go…

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Take Yourself Everywhere You Go…

I WILL be excited about traveling to an exotic destination with you, but ONLY if you also revel in having a good time with me, and exploring and discovering new, different things with me right where we are.

Locations and activities, to me, are less impressive than a person’s inherent character and authenticity of intention. Heartfelt experiences are, to me, more significant than crosses off bucket-lists and attempts to superficially impress me, or ‘kill time’ together.

Let’s genuinely live, play, grow, adventure, explore, discover, thrive, learn and evolve together – WHEREVER we may be, and wherever we may go…

Let’s embrace the magic and the wonder in every place and in every experience – even right at home!

Let’s choose to appreciate the joy and the love available to us in every moment, wherever we may be and whatever it may cost, even if it’s absolutely free!

One does, after-all, take oneself with, wherever one goes…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

28/03/2021

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Learning…

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Learning…

Learning is inspiring, is thriving…

Ever notice how learning something new that you’re truly passionate about, and that’s meaningful and purposeful, is definitely joy and life-inspiring – which then in turn leads to your overall thriving – which then in turn, leads to you living your life in harmony and at your highest vibration?

Yep! The energy and inspiration of growth that comes from learning, is definitely also fuel for overall expansion and evolution!

…What, and how, are you in the process of learning? … 😌 How are you making yourself available for your own thriving? 😌

HappyWise: Sharmilla

24/03/2021

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It’s Done!

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It’s Done!

It’s DONE!

And so IT IS!

All that’s yours, will be yours.

Naught that’s yours can pass you by.

The Intelligence that organizes and balances universes, is the very same Intelligence that Guides your life.

Trust in Life.

Trust in YOUR Life!

So as you breathe by instinct, let the Divinity of Life’s Purpose flow to you, and through you, for your Highest Good…

All is In Order!

HappyWise: Sharmilla

18/03/2021

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Appreciating Simplicity

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Appreciating Simplicity:

Ever notice how the seemingly simplest things in life, are also the most basic things in life, and therefore deserve the most appreciation – even though they are probably most under-rated on the appreciation index…?

Take as many moments as you need, to genuinely feel appreciative of/for the simplest things in your life…

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09/03/2021

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Let’s Play A Game…

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Let’s Play A Game…

What’s 2 of the most important material things in your life? Things that you think/feel you ‘cannot live without’?

Good.

Now find a way to live without them.

…Three months later, check to see if you’re still alive.☺️

You may be surprised to learn that not only can you live, but you can actually joyfully thrive, without the things that you deem to be indispensable/of vital essentiality in your life.

Lots of it is just a matter of awareness, mind-frame changes, and making more intentional choices.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

25/02/2021

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Let It Be…

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Let It Be…

Take a break.

Let it be…

Chill.

Relax.

All is in perfect Divine order.

All will work out for your Highest Good.

Let them be… As they are, as they will.

Yet, know your boundaries. Trust in Divine Guidance, Intuition, Wisdom, Discretion, Discernment, Leadership, Decision-Making…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

24/02/2021

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Love of Your Life

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Love of Your Life…

Who’s the greatest love of your life?

Mine’s Divine.

Yes, Divine’s definitely the Love of my Life.

My greatest Friend, Lover, Listener, Guide, Leader…

So appreciative. So thankful.

…Who’s the Love of your Life? … Why is he/she/it the Love of your Life? … How does he/she/it make you feel?

Focus on that feeling!

HappyWise: Sharmilla

18/02/2021

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GRACE

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GRACE:

Funny how you do things that you think you’re in fact incapable of doing; or not strong, brave, competent or simply willing enough to be doing…

Funny how you nonetheless do these things with ease and flow in a particular present-time moment… Yet, once it’s done, you may still be unable to even fathom it from a past perspective; nor imagine or entertain the idea of yourself doing it in a future time-space reality.

So, what’s the ‘magic’ then?

GRACE. PURE, DIVINE FREE-FLOWING GRACE – which is ALWAYS available to you!

HappyWise: Sharmilla

09/02/2021

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Investigate, Research, Learn…

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Investigate, Research, Learn…

Be a person with a willingness to investigate, research and learn.

A person who says, “I don’t know”, and simply leaves it at that, ‘cos it’s something that’s not crossed his/her path before, is not a person who will flow easily with the pace of an ever-changing, ever-evolving world.

The world is kind, yet it does not wait for one who stagnates.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

02/02/2021

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Medicine

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Medicine:

SILENCE is medicine. EXERCISE is medicine. EATING RIGHT is medicine. PHYSICAL, MENTAL, and EMOTIONAL HYGIENE is medicine. NATURE is medicine. SIMPLICITY and AUTHENTICITY are medicines. CLARITY is medicine. INTROSPECTION AND DIVINE COMMUNION are medicines.

Choose your medicines well, for it is YOU who is your greatest physician.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

25/01/2020

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Giving Thanks

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Giving Thanks:

Thank You, Dearest Divine, for all of Your Blessings in 2020…

Many Gifts of insight, internal reflection, prioritization, re-prioritization, valuation, worth, appreciation, faith, trust, gratitude, wisdom, discernment, love, choice, free-will, affirmation, simplicity, light, grace, humility, Divine Connection, Sacred Union, joy, etc. were so very generously Showered upon us all.

We are thankful and appreciative.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

31/12/2020

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Sun

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Sun:

ALL under the SUN is ONE.

Feel your connectedness. Know your connectedness… To All under the Sun, to the Sun itself.

Make it a bright, sunshiny day every day – regardless of the weather or of what you may be experiencing which is beyond your control.

All is Perfect Order. You’re infinitely Divinely supported, nourished, loved, guided, cared for…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

20/12/2020

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Babes of Intelligence, Wisdom and Intuition

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Babes of Intelligence, Wisdom and Intuition:

INTELLECT is a product of education. INTELLIGENCE is inherent. WISDOM sprouts, blossoms and blooms from experience. INTUITION thrives on communion with Divine.

CREATIVITY, INNOVATION AND PROGRESS ARE THE BABES OF INTELLIGENCE, WISDOM AND INTUITION.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

01/12/2020

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May the Basis of Commitment be Freedom

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May the Basis of Commitment be Freedom:

May the basis of commitment be freedom.

Commit to being with me, for as long as you’re happiest with me. Commit to loving me, for as long as you genuinely continue to. Commit to growing with me, for as long as we continue to be stimulating, both individually and together. Commit to exploring and discovering with me, for as long as we continue to play and thrive together. Commit to evolving with me, for as long as we continue to appreciate and transcend the physical and the material and all of its associated blisses and contrasting ‘challenges’, toward greater spiritual depths of integration, inspiration, transmutation and transformation.

Commit to being faithful to Divine and to yourself, first and foremost, for as long as you’re faithful to me. Commit to honoring Divine and yourself, first and foremost, for as long as you honor me. Commit to being ever-true to yourself, first and foremost, for as long as you continually choose to be with me.

…May the essence of your commitment to me, forever be freedom, which in itself is love…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

30/11/2020

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Discerning Integral Authenticity

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Discerning Integral Authenticity:

There’s a difference between being ‘discerning’ and ‘authentic’, and what some may describe as being ‘stuck-up’.

If one chooses to perceive another’s discernment, intuitive guidance, integrity, authenticity and wisdom as being ‘stuck-up’, it’s okay – everyone’s allowed an opinion to be respected.

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27/11/2020

The Children Are The Way

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The Children Are The Way…

The children are the way.

Listen to them. Learn from them. Grow WITH them.

In their pure nature – untainted by our ‘teachings’, our thoughts, our expectations and our beliefs – they bring forth many a boundless treasure of innovative mind, heart and spirit…

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26/11/2020

Options and Choices Determine Outcomes

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Options and choices determine outcomes.

Significantly, though, what starting-point are you establishing for yourself?

Is your starting-point negative (as in a case of ‘loves me not‘); or is your starting-point itself already positive (as in a case of ‘loves me’), moving toward even greater and deeper degrees of positivity (as in cases of ‘loves me more‘ and ‘loves me most’)?

It’s you, yourself, who lays the foundation…

🌀☀️💕Choose wisely. And remember that life is very much a mirror☀️💕🌀

HappyWise: Sharmilla

21/11/2020

Unity and Oneness

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Unity and Oneness:

If you send me an invitation to a ‘women’s group’ and I decline, it’s not ‘cos I don’t support women, it’s rather ‘cos I support “PEOPLE” – regardless of man, woman or child.

If you see me not supporting causes such as ‘black lives matter’, it’s not ‘cos I’m racist, it’s rather ‘cos I love all – “ALL” lives matter.

If you expect me to support a cause ‘against’ something, you will be disappointed in me, simply ‘cos I don’t do ‘against’ – I do “FOR” – I’M ‘FOR’ UNITY. I’M ‘FOR’ LOVE. I’M ‘FOR’ ONENESS. I’M ‘FOR’ DIGNITY. I’M ‘FOR’ HEALTH. I’M ‘FOR’ INTEGRITY. I’M ‘FOR’ FREEDOM. I’M ‘FOR’ JUSTICE. I’M ‘FOR’ AUTHENTICITY. …

When one draws distinctions, separation is perpetuated, not halted. Nothing can be solved from a space of separation.

Everything is possible from a space of inherent unity and Oneness.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

18/11/2020

Thankfulness

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Thankfulness:

We may feel that we have to be thankful only for something specific.

However, can’t we simply be thankful for All-That-Is? Can’t we be thankful in general? How about being thankful for all the little things we may have come to take for granted?

There’s undoubtedly, always, so very much to be thankful for!

So, let’s take a moment here and there, whenever, wherever and ‘why-ever’, just to pause, genuinely feel, and say: “Thank You, Divine!!!”

HappyWise: Sharmilla

11/11/2020

A ‘Life’ of Value and Worth:

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A ‘Life’ of Value and Worth:

When one asks another, “Do you know who I am?”, as a reaction to their own misdeeds and violations, trust that the person lacks the basic humility, integrity or intelligence to know that he/she too is but a ‘human being’. In verily asking such a question, the person believes himself/herself to be ‘better’ than not only one, but probably all others too.

Therefore, mind not his/her disrespect, violations and constricted egotistical grandiose behaviors. Continue to go about your way in your own humble, integral human journey, honoring that ALL of life is a ‘life’ of value and worth; and that everybody too dies a death.

Give thanks for knowing that you are one who is able to see, live and honor such a truth.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

03/10/2020

‘Heritage’ Celebrations

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Heritage Celebrations:

How one chooses to live one’s life today, is the ‘heritage’ of generations to come.

Consider choosing for ‘heritage’ to be about basics such as integrity, love, authenticity, simplicity, respect, kindness, appreciation, compassion, peace, unity and joy; rather than merely about clothing, food, music, etc.

Consider choosing a ‘human’ heritage of genuine integrity and solidarity; rather than a segregating national, cultural, or racial ‘heritage’.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

24/09/2020

‘EXTRAORDINARY’ is a choice

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‘EXTRAORDINARY’ is a choice:

Never tell yourself to “Get used to” something that’s less-than optimal.

Life’s full of wondrous, beautiful, fantastical, magical opportunities and experiences – all simply awaiting your exploration and discovery.

It comes down to what you yourself are willing to do with it, and seeking enough to make of it, which contributes to that which you ultimately call your ‘life’.

‘Mediocre’ is a choice. ‘EXTRAORDINARY’ is also a choice – albeit, just less-chosen.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

05/09/2020

Trust Life

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Trust Life:

Upon birth, the transition of ‘death’ is assured. One may spend the moments of ones life – until inevitable death – boldly living, or fearfully hiding.

Consider, dear one, that ‘living’ in fear may be more akin to ‘dying’, than the natural transformation of death itself.

Trust Life.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

30/05/2020

Authentic Evolution

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Authentic Evolution:

Life is about evolving. Evolving is about transformation and change. Sometimes life gives you no option but to evolve. Sometimes, you’re brave enough, faithful enough, ‘crazy enough’, wise enough and courageous enough to choose evolution and transformation on your own. When you do, you venture out from your pristine comfort-zone, into the vast unknown. Lots may be uncertain and unfamiliar. What is always, assuredly, constant though – is Divine Guidance. Trust It. Flow with It. Be happy in It. It will have you “live” more authentically, more fully, more magically and more holistically wholesomely, than staying in a predictable, routine, ‘safe’ comfort-zone ever would. …And then, get familiar with It, ‘cos It’s going to call out to you again, and again, and again…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

17/05/2020

Eyes ‘Open’, Eyes Closed…

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Eyes ‘Open’, Eyes Closed…

In Simply Closing My Eyes And Looking Upon The Sun,

I Am Transported To Worlds More Real, More Magical, And More Supremely Powerful Than I Have Ever Seen Or Experienced With My Eyes Fully “Open”…

Is Your Clearest ‘Vision’ External, Or Is It Internal?

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11/05/2020

Life In Transition

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Life In Transition…

Every moment is a transition into the next. The many moments of Life are transitory. The many moments leading up to, and the singular moment of ‘death’ are transitory.

Recognize and be aware of the Well-Being which is ever-present. Live every moment FOR LIFE – in faith, joy, appreciation, love, gratitude…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

19/04/2020

Play Nice Together

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Play Nice Together:

Regardless of where you may be located geographically, or what you may be facing in your specific context, why not choose love, unity and global cooperation?

The human condition is common to you, to me, to all. Everyone smiles, everyone laughs, everyone cries, everyone hurts, everyone hopes, everyone dreams…

Let’s choose to see not the ‘other’, but One. Let’s choose to love as One, rather than to choose suffering and illusory ‘national’ or other separation. No policy or procedures required!

In a world where Divinity reigns, unity is a way of life.

🌀💚❤️Let’s play nice together.🌀💚❤️

HappyWise: Sharmilla

18/04/2020

Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Divinely-Imbued Gifts

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Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Divinely-Imbued Gifts:

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Body: Eat good, Exercise good, Listen to it good, Rest good, Trust that it knows your highest-good and is building your immunity good, while lovingly working on your behalf in every moment.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Physical Assets: Clean, maintain and repair your home, your garden, your vehicle and other physical blessings regularly, on a self-sufficient basis.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Not Only Your Personal Relationships, but All of Humanity: Treat the ‘other’ as you would love to be treated. All is One. One is All.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Nature and All Living Beings: Human life is but a small component of Life. Let’s be a cooperative partner.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Love, Respect and Honor your Work: Be purposeful, be inspiring, be of loving whole-hearted service, be of integrity and righteous values.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Love, Respect and Honor Your Mind: Think independently; learn continually; be of discernment, curiosity, imagination and virtuous innovation and creation.

🌸 Bless, Appreciate, Respect, Love and Honor Your Spirit: Regularly commune with the Divine and your Highest Self. Meditate. Create. Be in sacred silence.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

14/04/2020

Move Forward In Love, Not In Fear

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Move Forward In Love, Not In Fear:

Fear-based short-term approaches which only lead to delaying/postponing the effects of a problem, are not only completely illogical, but also creates numerous new problems.

Courageously and TIMOROUSLY being solution-oriented in the here-and-now, with the aim of MITIGATING long-term effects and impacts, is genuine wisdom and indeed truly commendable meritorious leadership!

Move forward in love, not in fear.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

12/04/2020

Context, Locality, Specificity

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Context, Locality, Specificity:

Context, locality, specificity – considering these is wisdom, common-sense and true leadership.

Good-luck with merely jumping on the bandwagon of thoughtlessly implementing blanket approaches, which are actually for misplaced short-term pleasures.

Be not surprised when what was stellar success for one, turns out to be dismal failure for another.

Always exercise your own power of thought, choices, decision-making and discretion.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

04/04/2020

Free-Will

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Free-Will:

🤣 (Repeat After Me…) 🤣

“I am a being of free-will.

I have been superbly blessed with my own mind, my own thoughts and my own feelings.

I have also been generously blessed with freedom and the power of choice.

I therefore will NOT blindly/automatically repeat/follow what someone/society/social media asks of me, without first applying my own inherent discernment, discretion and Divine guidance!”

(If I find this very message, for instance, to not be in alignment with who I am, I reject it, rather than repeat it!)

HappyWise: Sharmilla

29/01/2020

Victor, rather than victim!

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Victor, rather than victim!

Regardless of what you may have been through, you’re only a ‘victim’ if you allow yourself to be so.

In every situation, and through every experience, choose to be a ‘victor’ rather than a victim.

Belittle the injustices done unto you, simply by valuing yourself by yourself, for yourself. You are stronger and wiser than any injustice or any doer of injustice.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

25/01/2020

Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Future!

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Change Your Thoughts, Change Your Future!

All it takes to change your future, is to think a different thought! You, dear one, are the primary creator of your life! By your very thoughts, feelings and desires, you’re in a constant process of co-creation with Creation itself and with the Creator of All That Is.

A changed future is only a different thought away…

What do you choose to think?💕🌀

HappyWise: Sharmilla

21/01/2020

Oasis Unto Yourself

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Oasis Unto Yourself:

Be an oasis unto yourself in the midst of chaos.

Much in life is not within your control. Much may not be of your choice or to your liking.

Yet, do choose to remember, regardless of how crazy a situation may be – you have the power within you, to consciously direct how you feel, under any circumstances/experiences you may find yourself in.

Be not overcome/swayed/swept up in any chaos which may be around you. Remember: it’s ‘around’ you – therefore, make it not a ‘part’ of you, by reacting to it.

Rise above. Always. You are the creator of your peace, your bliss.

HappyWise: Sharmilla

31/12/2019

Thanksgiving And Appreciation

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Thanksgiving And Appreciation:

Being able to feel thankful and appreciative is a gift which we’re all blessed with, every day of our lives.

No matter how small or big, luxurious or simple, near or distant, natural or artificial, wondrous or plain, easy or difficult, Divine or mortal – there’s always something to be thankful for.

Let’s grow increasingly aware of the magical blessings in our lives, through every moment of every day… Let’s celebrate every moment of every day… For, within the ordinary, seemingly mundane and even painful and challenging, lies magic to be discovered/transformed/created…

HappyWise: Sharmilla

30/12/2019